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  1. Smokeycat
    If you really love this guy which you sound like you do, then just try the long distance relationship. Maybe you could sit down and talk with him before you leave and explain that you'll do your very best to be faithful to him b/c you love him. Maybe you two could just date for a year and have a less committed relationship. While you're at college, though, don't limit yourself to just him. If you meet a great guy and develope feelings for him don't hold them back. You may pass up a great guy and end up regretting it. When he's trying to decide which college he wants to attend...try to veer his interests towards colleges that offer what he may want to go into. Tell him how you feel about how you think he could get into a better college. It's a compliment when your partner wants you to go somewhere or do something for themselves and not for you. It shows how unselfish you are and how much you think of him. Good luck with college and your relationship!
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    Thanks for the advice. I'm getting my regular check-up done this week but he lives in a different city anyways so we couldn't get checked together. I don't plan on doing anything with him just yet but in the future I may ask him to see a doctor and get tested for any stds. Once again, Thanks everyone!
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    my ex dealt with depression a lot and I helped him through many of his bad times just by being his friend. You really can't do much if it's a chemical inbalance. Just try to be there for them the best way you can. Hand out and cheer them up. If it doesn't work, they should seek professional help from a doctor.
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    My bf has been with 6 girls and I've been with only one guy. I go to the "lady doctor" annually for a check up and so on. If I consider doing anything with my current bf in the future I think I'd like for him to get tested. I think he could easily get tested on campus at his college. If the issue comes up do you think I should ask him to get checked out to be safe? Would any of the guys reading this be hurt if their gf asked them to do this or embarrassed? I just want to be safe.
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    don't freak over oral...it's really fun for both guys and girls. I enjoyed giving my ex oral sooo much that I did it a lot more than he did it to me. Just some advice...be careful with your teeth if you have a small mouth like I do...you can really hurt a guy (not that I did but I came close my first time). Tease a little bit too guys usually like that. If you can handle it...try to swallow when he busts his load or at least let some go in your mouth. The first time I did it I held my mouth open at the end and gave him a handie so that some went into my mouth and some into his stomach. Make sure if you do swallow to have some drink nearby. I've also heard that citrus fruits or juices can make semen taste sweet. Just enjoy it and have fun...you'll love it in return too!
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    when she calls you crying again just simply ask her why her bf hurts her so much. Tell her that it hurts YOU when she's crying b/c of this guy. Tell her she deserves better than that. Maybe she'll get the hint.
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    thanks to everyone for the advice...I'll see what happens b/c we really click!
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    if you two broke up nicely give her a call...I'd feel good if my ex called me and remembered my b-day after we're broken up. If your break up wasn't that great...the card should be enough. That's really sweet of you to think of her though. Most guys wouldn't.
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    hey I actually get vibes from people...like sometimes something doesn't feel right about certain ppl. Maybe you give off a bad vibe? not tryin to put you down but I dunno what else to tell you.
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    I think you should tell him A.S.A.P.!!!! The sooner the better. Tell him exactly what happened and that it was the guy who came onto you. If you don't tell him first and one of your friends or his do...it may get thrown out of proportion. Just be calm about it and tell him lightly. Show that it really hurts you that it happened. He'll probably understand if he really cares about you.
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    These two guys seem to have an equal amount of your interest. Sometimes comfortable relationships get too comfortable and boring. Who do you have more fun with? What are you looking for in a relationship right now? If you're thiking of the future, who would you rather be with? Pick the guy who has the best qualities for the relationship you want.
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    WHY is she with this guy if she acts like that around YOU????? That's strange...she needs to figure out what she wants in a boyfriend...which you obviously have. Maybe you should try to talk to her about this or ask her why she still stays with him if he hurts her so much. Before I went out with my ex (bf of 3 years) he was going out with this girl who treated him terrible. He always called me and I'd reassure him that it was her not him...he'd be so depressed. He called me for help all the time and the phone calls always ended by the two of us telling each other "I love you". So just try to talk to her b/c maybe it'll work out like it did for me once...you two may be together one day when she figures out who's right for her. Good luck!
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    I don't know why that girl freaked out...if I met a guy who was a virgin I would be happy. A lot of guys have been with too many girls and it's disgusting. What's so wrong with being a virgin? I think it's a turn-on. What girl wouldn't wanna be with a virgin? Don't stress over this though. It's a wonderful experience and shouldn't be rushed. Take my advice and do it with someone you really love for your first time. The experience is so much better than just any girl. Take things slow and enjoy. It's not as scary as it seems no matter what age you are.
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    personally I think this guy is trying to play you and he's a loser. He obviously doesn't care about what he has now...what makes you think he isn't doing more than just flirting and hugging on girls? My advice is to watch him carefully or dump him. He's not worth it. No guy who is unfaithful to you would ever be worth it!
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    I don't look at guys who have great looks all the time, and certainly not guys with expensive things. I usually try talking to a guy first...I know right off the bat if I'm going to like them or not usually. So maybe just go up to some girls and try to talk to them...maybe they'd be like I am and try to figure out your personality by conversation instead of your looks. The guys who look like models are usually very materialistic and not very bright. So give what I suggested a try!
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    I've broken up with my ex twice before this last breakup. And this new guy is totally different from him in every way. I had a lot of problems with my bf and our relationship ended up mostly lustful and not loving. This guy sweeps me off my feet...but I am scared a little cause I don't want to hurt him. We don't even mention anything physical about each other...we don't talk about ANY of that stuff and we're attracted more to each other's minds. I'm just scared of hurting him or maybe he doesn't really feel this way.
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    I've only known this guy for two weeks and he's about 2 hours away from me...and we're thinking of going out since we feel that we're falling in love. I'm sure his feelings are true and so are mine. I'm on the rebound and am wondering if I really am in love with this guy or if it's just temporary. Advice please?!
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    It would probably be best if you cut this girl out of your life completely. It's extremely hard to do and I know you need some closure. If she calls or e-mails you back talk to her. If not...go on with your life. You can get out of this pit she left you in trust me. Go out and meet some new people...have fun and forget about her.
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    first off...NO ONE is destined to live life alone. Everyone has someone...a soulmate. Sometimes we aren't as lucky as others and can't find the right people so soon in our lives. Maybe you can ask a friend of yours that's female if she sees anything wrong in what you're doing. Girls usually give better insight. Don't dwell on this b/c you'll just become depressed. And remember that if you don't love yourself...you can never love anyone else.
  20. Smokeycat
    I understand that situation. Just kiss her softly without tongue at first and just slip your tongue in eventually in the kiss. It's no biggie...once you get past the first kiss you'll be fine. If this is her first kiss it'll be akward for her too.
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    I've only been in one serious relationship, dated a few guys, and have now found someone new to connect with. I'm 17 and I've only really had one bf. I've had others but they're lucky they lasted a week with me. I find guys often are intimidated by me and they think they're out of my league...but they aren't. I'm not gorgeous but I'm not ugly. You have to radiate with beauty from the outside. No matter what situation you're in...be cheery. And maybe guys are turned off by all of the guy friends you have. Hang out with some girls so you seem single in public. That may help. Good luck!
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    well...what kind of girls are you going after? Are they the right kind? You may be going after the wrong people. Or maybe you're trying too hard. Your situation is hard to resolve. Just try different places to meet girls other than the ones you've been trying. Flirt with every girl you can flirt with...show a lot of interest. The people who could tell you what you may be doing wrong are the people who are around you most. Try asking a friend. Good luck!
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    Girl he is SOOOO NOT WORTH IT! Forget this guy..he sounds like a complete jerk! If you met him online two years ago and not in person...what's the big deal? Move on you can surely find someone else. There are TONS of single guys out there waiting for a girl like you!
  24. Smokeycat
    First of all don't stress so much over one person. I know that it's hard but you can't get depressed or angry...you simply have to shrug it off and distract your mind. I've been rejected by the same guy twice and I really had feelings for him...but I realized I'm worth more and he isn't worth getting all hung up on and upset over. I'm not trying to be mean but here's something to think about....do you love yourself? You cannot love someone else and expect love and happiness if you do not first love the person in you. Build yourself up, figure out who YOU are...then try love. Get out and meet people who will stand by ur side. Don't resort to drugs of any kind...I've been there and I've almost killed myself. It just hurts the person that you care about and turns them off. Also, if you've done this to a girl before chances are Fate is getting you back. Good luck and feel better! You're worth a lot more than you think!
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    I've been shaving down there for 4 years and it does itch really bad if you let it go too long. I find that I like it much better shaved as much as guys do. I think it's nice if a guy trims a little down there b/c sometimes if you're doing oral you may get a pube hair stuck in your teeth....it's gross. So guys...you like oral a lot...do us girls a favor...if you have a lot of hair please trim it!
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