pherbster

None of my guy friends are interested in me. Most of them already have g/f's......who by the way....are some of the stupidest chicks I have ever conversed with in my life!! But, they like 'em and the ones that don't always tell me about the girls they really DO like, and (because i'm a girl) ask my advice on the best way to score with them...get her to notice him....and dude she's got a nice ass....blah blah...blah They've told me sick things, detail by detail, I didn't even wanna know. Things i didn't even think guys would tell girls! They discuss and do things with me I just can't picture anyone doing with someone they actually "liked". There was only one guy friend I liked......he graduated, so I probley won't see him again anyways. Me and him were really good buddies, we hung out almost every day, I finally asked him, after that he didn't even want to be around me!! Every opportunity he got to avoid me he took. I was so sad. That's how it's always been. I'm sick of it. I know i'm young and have plenty of time but for now......I hate being alone! *****By the way....Thanks for responding.....the fact that someone can take their time out to help me makes me feel alot better.

What's wrong with me! I'm almost 17 and have never had a bf....EVER! I've figured it can be one or both of two things: Either you have a frosty boaring personality or your ugly 90% of my inner circle are all guys. If they presumed I was annoying...etc.... they wouldn't hang out with me. When I go out with friends I'm usually the only girl. I'm not a tomboy...far from it...but I've always considered myself to be one of them, and vise versa. They've told me that I'm much more fun to be around than other girls....this includes their gf's. The point is.....I just don't understand why I have soooooo much bad luck. I'm not fat, bottom barrel ugly......not stunningly georgous either. Sympathy driven friends have tried to help me out but nobody's ever interested. I've seen girls that are more unattractive and cloudly headed than me get into relationships.....so why can't I?? Anyone else have this problem????.......and what do guys look for.....pacifically. What things about a girls personality are the BIGGEST turn offs. help.