zwarren

I know this is off topic. But I couldn't find where to put it. I would appreciate it if yall would check out my site at link removed! I write songs and poems and talk about my life. Maybe you will find some things inspirational? Thanx in advance. ZW

well said

Thanx for the advice! I am goin to a f-ball game 2morrow. She is a cheerleader for my school. Her b/f will probably be there and he will probably sit with her parents. I plan on sayin hi to her folks then introducing myslef to him and offering my hand out for a handshake. He knows I hate his guts but it will make me look like the better person. Cause people will watch me do it. I know all the cheerleaders will. And if he doesnt shake my hand then he looks like an a**hole.

I have so much to say. But it would be easier to say for yall to just look at link removed! I have written about everything that has happened on my site. I thought I was over my ex. Now that school has started I see her everyday and realize I am not. Life sucks right now. We had something great. We went out for over 3 years all together. I thought I was gonna marry this girl. I dont know what to do anymore. I am stuck on her. And she tells me she has moved on. She has played games with me ever since we broke up. I have been goin in and out of a depression ever since we broke up. She has left a scar on my heart. I wish I could say we would get back together and that she wont go screw this guy. But I realized I don't know anything. And I have no control over anything anymore.

Hey Niki, Comin back doesnt always mean everything was meant to be. Erin came back before and everyone said that it was meant to be. She is gone again now. I dont believe in destiny and even though I am a christian I dont believe God controls everything in your life. You make your decisions and the consequences of your actions is your only destiny. So move one and look for some one better. If he comes around then great, but I doubt he will come around just because you called him. Something happened that made him want to leave and he must figure out for himself if he is willing to get in a relationship with you again. Im not saying to stop caring about Greg just that it would be in your best interest to assume he isnt coming back. Best wishes, ZW

How many people have actaully gotten back together with their ex's? If so how long was the seperation, and what was the outcome of the new relationship? People tend to disillusion themselves about gettin back together. So I thought it might help if people saw just how many people have gotten back together and what the relationship was like. ----------------------- My ex broke up with me and two months later we went back out, but the first couple of months all I thought about was how could she have done this to me. But I believed she was truly sorry so I forgave her. We went out for a year and ten months. Then we broke up again this summer. Same situation almost she is even goin out with some guy she met at the ball park(thats what happened last time). Proving he who forgets the past is doomed to repeat it. I do love her but I question now wether another relationship and another broken heart is worth it.

Her friends were one of the main reasons for us breaking up, too. They were gettin between Erin and me, but when I told her that she just got mad. Then they told her to stop talkin to me so she did. I just found this out a couple of days ago. Its kinda hard to get back with someone when her best friends are against you, and that appears to be who she listens to. It kills me to have to sit back and watch her do this to herself. Everything could change if she stopped hangin around with them. But I can't tell her to do that. She will have to do that on her own. But I seriously doubt that will happen.

Ok I can see how you would ask your friends for advice and help, but is it normal to do everything your friends tell you to do? My ex has some bad friends and they do a lot of drugs and stuff like that. She told one of my buds that she is grounded cause her and her so called friends snuck guys into her room and drank alot. Then they got caught! I had to go to school today and register. While there I talked to her mom who works there and she sounded very frustrated with everything. I saw Erin and she looks bad. She has put on weight, acne gotten bad, and she looks like she has been doin drugs. She has big bags under her eyes now, too. My friend said she didnt sound happy at all when he talked to her. Even when she started talkin about her new b/f. It seems like everything her friends tell her to do she does. She rarely drank b4 this break up. Im afraid she has started doin drugs like her friends. Is there anything I could possibly do? Or is everything just out of my hands now? I still care about her and her well being! I dont wanna see her mess her life up like her hoe friends. Thanx in advance, ZW

Well if they are jerks you don't need to apologize. But you shouldnt just go around acting like that to every guy you talk to. You shouldn't take your anger and frustration out on others. Especially when they arent the cause of these feelings.

OK my ex thought it was a little taboo. She only really wanted to do it when I watched or when we talked on the phone. She wasnt into doing anything by herself really. I was wondering if this is how all girls view fingering themselves?

OK I have talked to a few of her friends(that like me). This girl named Brittany told me that Josh had a surprise for her. Well I found out from Ashley that as far as she knows they only went out to eat. When I called Ashley she asked " If I talked to Erin lately?" she said it like she knew somethin, and I said "Not since her birthday." When I asked why she wanted to know she said that she was just wondering. Well I dunno if Erin told her not to say anything to me or if she was just wondering. But hopefully things are looking up.

thats awesome

Part of what made it work so good is most of her friends are out of town. See two of her friends really dont like me and they make it hard for me to talk to her. I talked to this girl named Ashley (her friend that does like me) and she said that her new b/f took Erin out somewhere last night. Ill find out some more details today. And I think she was actually glad I called. I dont think she was just being polite.

Well I called Erin(my ex). It turned out well. She was being nice and sweet like she wanted me to call. *she answered* E - Hello Z - Is Erin there? E - This is her Z - Oh hey E - Hi Z - I was about to workout and, I decided to call an wish you a happy birthday. E - Oh I got your card today. Thanx for the card. (somethin like that she said thanx for the card) ~ Me and her talk about how she saw me the other night leavin TKD and how she tried to wave to me ~ ~ Then we talked about her car ~ Z - Ok well I have to go workout E - Oh (sounds surprised) ok well thanx for the card Z - Ok bye E - Thanx for callin Z - its alright (damnit I need to learn to say Your Welcome, I never do) *hung up* By hangin up first I think that made her sorta want what she cant have I guess. She knows she can have me whenever though. Im stuck on her.

Thanx for the help. And I broke up with her, but realized later it was a mistake. She is trying to move on I guess. She has a new boy friend.