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  1. applepie
    Is it possible that she might have caught herpes and just doesn't want you to know? She might be having a nasty outbreak.
  2. applepie
    I know you've already made a decision and I think it's the right one. You can have casual sex with no emotions attached. I've done that several times. But, I think if you actually had feelings for this guy then it's a bad idea. Those feelings are likely to come back and bite you on the bum. I would never in a million years have sex with an ex. I'd be torturing myself. If I wanted casual sex, I'd find another willing partner. Anyway, glad to see you worked it out.
  3. applepie
    I just want to add that I have been going to the gym 3-5 times a week for the past 6-7 weeks and I thought that my body hadn't changed one bit. I'm at a healthy weight already, but I wanted some improvements. I took some pictures of myself in a bikini after one week, then I took some yesterday at the exact same angle and distance. I am actually amazed at the difference. I've only lost 2 lbs but I look much more slim and toned. If you can, take some pictures of yourself now and compare them in a few weeks. It's great motivation because it's difficult to judge the difference when it happens gradually.
  4. applepie
    I'm a bit confused here. Are you talking lbs as in 2.2 lbs to the kg or are you talking UK lbs? It seems like you've used a mishmash of everything. A good guide is around 1-2 lbs a week weight loss. 4 lbs after 2 weeks sounds about perfect. Losing any more than that will compromise your health. What's your goal weight?
  5. applepie
    link removed I think the reason it's only recommended for women under 26 is that there is a very high chance that women over that age already have at least one of the strains it protects against. From what I've read, women over 26 can still get the shot, they just have to pay the full amount (depending on where you live). If you're a virgin or have been tested negative for HPV, it might be worth while, though it is expensive. There is new evidence that Gardasil even protects men and they are considering making it available to them. I'm thinking about getting the shot because I had a HPV scare earlier this year. The only problem is, I don't have the cash right now! I really think this stuff needs to be mandated.
  6. applepie
    I know I'm going to get flamed for this, but I've been a bit of a faker on quite a number of occasions. Mostly it comes down to the fact that the guy is determined to give me an orgasm when I can't have one that way. Even if I tell them that, they persist until I just want them to stop, so I fake it. I have actually been accused of faking at times where I was not. I'm rather quiet and I don't get earth shattering shakes, nor do I scream at the top of my lungs. I'm totally subdued, from what it seems compared to other women. I find that this is the only way I can achieve an orgasm when I'm with someone else. I really need to concentrate, but apparently this causes men to believe that I'm faking. Needless to say, this type of accusation doesn't get taken lightly. I find it deeply offensive (when they're real) and it makes me not want to sleep with them again because there is no way I could let go after them saying that. If they accused me of faking when I actually was, I wouldn't be offended, just highly embarrassed. Anyway, you suggested that she would be open to using some toys. I think this would be your best bet at this stage. I'm sure that will help her show you what she likes. She might just be the type that can't orgasm from oral sex and needs some extra buzz. Don't mention the faking, just try different things and see what really works for her.
  7. applepie
    I can relate to the ecstasy-like sensations because I have taken E in the past. I got the teeth clenching and dilated pupils but for me it felt more like the coming down from E or speed. Definitely no euphoric feelings. I felt awful and really burnt out. If you're having a buzz, that will probably go away within a week or two. Just enjoy it if you're into that sort of thing. Also, people will write about anything to persuade others not to take various prescription/non-prescription drugs. In the end, it's a decision between you and your doctor after they've weighed up risks vs benefits. I wouldn't take everything you read to heart.
  8. applepie
    Wow, I have exactly the same problem. I have yet to take my compulsory communication class and the idea of it makes me want to cry. I remember in highschool we always had to do speeches. I got out of it few times but the times I did it, I completely humiliated myself. This was in a room full of all my friends and I couldn't do a simple speech properly. I stuttered, blushed, shook and nearly passed out. I am just completely terrified of taking this class. I actually even started looking for various colleges that didn't have a mandatory speech course, but that was impossible. The thing is, I'm fine talking to a large group of people if the focus is not on me and I don't have a prepared speech. Actually talking about a particular topic in that fashion seems so unnatural to me. At this point, I'm just avoiding the class until I can't avoid it no more.
  9. applepie
    Oh, and your body doesn't just adjust to the weight of breasts. I've never had a problem with back pain but lots of other women have. It's like saying a morbidly obese person's ankles and knees can adjust. It doesn't work like that.
  10. applepie
    It did make a huge difference for me. It might not be the case for everyone though. I know plenty of people who are on the pill and they are flat as a board. It just had no effect on them. I have no idea why it effected me so severely considering my weight remained fairly constant. It is entirely possible that you just genetically have larger breasts. I don't think this is the case for me because my mum's a 34B and all the other women in my family are flat!
  11. applepie
    I've been a vegetarian ever since I knew what meat was. I gradually reduced the animal products in my diet and now the only animal food I will eat is chocolate. My justifications: 1. I think the idea of eating a dead animal is truly disgusting. 2. I like animals and I wouldn't want to eat them. 3. Meat, dairy and eggs taste revolting to me. 4. My health thrives as long as I eat properly. 5. I'm predisposed to diabetes and a healthy vegan diet is a great way to prevent the disease. 6. My doctor says my cholesterol levels are the best she's ever seen. 7. I love learning about nutrition and it's a challenge for me to find appropriate food. I enjoy the challenge. 8. By not eating meat, I'm contributing far less to environmental damage. 9. I'm not contributing to any cruel methods of killing. 10. It helps me to remain thin. I get to eat a lot more than your average burger/hotdog eater because veggie food tends to have less calories. I don't go around preaching or throwing paint at anyone. It's my choice and I feel like a better person for doing what I do.
  12. applepie
    Ideally, I'd like to do it several times a night but only about one night a week. I'm getting much less than that right now, but I'm coping well. It helps that the pill has completely shot my sex drive. A few months ago I would have said 3 times a day every day.
  13. applepie
    That's called a "food baby".
  14. applepie
    My ex used to make this joke. He used to say that when we got together he had a 6-pack, now he has a keg. It was true though. He gained about 25 lbs over 3 years. Needless to say, I was not into the "keg" look. Now I tend to prefer thin guys, whether there is a 6-pack or not. As for myself, I have a little bit of fat on my belly, while the rest of me stays lean. I'm working on that and it's getting better. I hope to have a 6-pack by the end of the year.
  15. applepie
    Sorry, I thought you did quote me. Never mind then!
  16. applepie
    I'll tell you, it's not uncommon. One of my best friends is only 20 and she lost count long ago. She's just a normal girl (no baggage), but her drive is insatiable. I know there are a lot of others out there like that. They just don't talk about it, due to the constant negative responses. Plenty of girls lie about their number for whatever reason. I know girls who say they've only had 2, but in reality they've had over 20. In the end, it doesn't really matter. I know there are lots of guys who do not care at all. Personally, I'd rather be with a guy who's had a bit of experience, as long as he's STD free. My current guy feels the same way.
  17. applepie
    I don't think there is anything wrong with your number, but if you feel this way about sleeping with that many people then there is a problem. It sounds to me like you're sleeping with them with the intent that they will like you because of it. This is a vital mistake. That doesn't mean it can't happen, it just means that it won't happen BECAUSE you sleep with them. I've had 2 long term relationships come out of sleeping with someone very early on, and several short terms. I've also had several guys express interest in making it exclusive with me after sex when I wasn't interested. The thing is, I didn't really care one way or another. If they ran away and didn't want to speak to me again, then that's their problem, not mine. I don't hold the deep emotional connection to sex that so many women do. I feel an emotional connection with a personality is far more important. That said, it seems to me like sex IS important to you. Because of this, I'd advise holding off until you're certain that you can be with the guy first. It sounds like this is destroying your self esteem and it's not worth it.
  18. applepie
    haha, my mum used to drive a Sigma. It was a POS.
  19. applepie
    I guess it goes the other way too. If I love him and I want to be with him for the rest of my life, there's no way I'd put him through a penis chopping operation, even if it is as easy as you make it sound. Imagine if there was nerve damage and he couldn't get hard, or worse, have no feeling.There are ways around a big penis, such as different positions and techniques. It's definitely doable.
  20. applepie
    I'm a female, but the idea of removing part of the penis makes my skin crawl. Can't men just leave their genitals alone?
  21. applepie
    I'm having a similar problem to you. I have been getting A's in all of my humanities and social sciences, but I've been getting C's and one fail in the sciences. I just find it SO hard to think mathematically. It's so frustrating because I'm really interested in getting into the public health field, but I struggle with the core requirements. I guess I'll just have to be another sociology major
  22. applepie
    I'm another girl with big ones. Mine grew at least one size every year through my teenage years. I ended up with 34G by the time I was 19. The comments and staring used to make my blood boil, especially if I was dressed very casually and just wanted to go to the bank or something. I remember people actually telling me that I looked like I was going to fall forward. When I got dressed up to go out I used to appreciate the attention. I admit that. Just after I turned 19 I went off the pill for about 9 months and they shrunk down to a 34C/D. All of a sudden, the comments and staring stopped. No one even noticed them anymore. I actually found myself trying to make them look bigger. I went back on the pill at 20 and I've been on it for about 4 months. They are back up to a 34E and the comments have commenced once again, even though it's winter. Over the past year I have really learned to appreciate them. Some women pay thousands of dollars for bigger boobs and I've got mine for free. They are a wonderful accessory to any outfit. Now if only I could find some pretty lingerie that looks good by itself and under clothes...
  23. applepie
    I've been doing my own since I first got pubic hair. All I can say is, EXFOLIATE! I have so many scars from infected ingrown hairs. I'm quite ashamed of my area now. I was doing this since before it became rather mainstream and I didn't know about ingrowns when I started. Since I've been exfoliating, I haven't had a problem. It doesn't hurt me now, but it did the first few times but it's definitely worth the pain. The boys love it! I would recommend getting it professionally done the first few times and then start by doing just bikini line waxes until you get the hang of doing the whole thing yourself. Just make sure you moisturise afterwards.
  24. applepie
    I like #1, but that's because I wouldn't want to be too traditional. I also like #3, but I wouldn't turn my nose up at any of them.
  25. applepie
    She shouldn't need her parent's consent. I'm not entirely sure how the system works there, but she should be able to go to her regular doctor and ask for a prescription. Does she have access to a medical card or something similar? If not, I'm pretty sure there are clinics around that could give her the pill without her parent's consent. Do a search for one in your area. This might be of some help. link removed
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