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ok sorry missed the part about counselling if you dont want counselling you need to do something for yourself YOU NEED TO LOOK IN THE MIRACLE and say to yourself- NOW AND RIGHT NOW- you deserve to live- THERE IS A REASON WHY GOOD PEOPLE SUFFER- HAVE YOU EVER READ THE BIBLE- AT THE END OF THE DAY THE ONLY ONE THAT WOULD NEVER EVER HARM YOU WOULD BE GOD HIMSELF HE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE AND I TELL U KNOW HE IS THE ONLY THAT YOU CAN TRUST YOU ARE REALLY BREAKING MY HEART AND SOUL READING ALL YOUR WORDS DONT KILL YOURSELF YES STAY WITH THIS MAN BUT REALISE THAT HE MAY BE HEARTLESS DUE TO YOU BEING SO DEPRESSED ALL THE TIME sweety i could never probably or i am sure understand any of your pain that you are going through just from what you wrote you sound like you have already lived your life in hell already - but the only thang that i can say is that you are the only one that can make your life better with a relationship with god- WHAT PART OF THE WORLD ARE U FROM///sorry i am writing in captials or if it seems that i am screaming sorry about that there is so much i want to say to you - maybe we can send personal replys back and forth?
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there is a god and god loves u very much i am going to pray for you right now if you need help just send me a private text gosh i have tears in my eyes for you you poor angel u sound like you have had such a terrible hell christ may you bless this angel please let her feel your love and please let her realise that you are there to help her plse lord help your child that so much needs you know
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my dear my dear hold up first off have u tried to get councilling- secondly U NEED TO LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE U CAN LOVE SOMEONE ELSE- maybe your man is the way he is because you are so dependent on him- maybe if you get help for yourself and start to love yourself and do things for yourself and stop relying on him for your happiness the happiness will come to you- your life is worth more than you can imagine. dont end your life my dear... there is a god..things will get better. you are a good person and god wants you to be happy- have u tried to see a spiritual counsellor or a counsellor?
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any news yet? have u tried speed dating really interested to find out!!!
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See private message i sent- if you have any questions on it ask me and i will reply back
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heres the link- its called fast impressions- guys there are seeking friendship/relationship- i even went on my own! link removed
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if you want more info on it i will post a personal reply!
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hi sweety- thats ok- its all true- basically i think that u are very mature for your age and so u are looking for more in life- dont u realise that someone with your maturity will be the winner in this lifetime? I met my man online - website was link removed ALSO have u tried speed dating? i did and i met some wonderful guys!
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Sweety- hold up! Are u only 19 years of age? I am 30 and I am not married still and I have issues with my man- see my post - this is the time that u should be enjoying your life. What part of the world are u from? I am from Sydney. Gosh I wish I could live those young days! I too use to go clubbing and every male use to perve on me and I to met the sleazy guys that just wanted one thing. I am 30 and believe me I still find young men are attracted to me - as I dont look my age and I still get told I am hot- and it makes me blush but I know what u mean - u reach a stage where u get turned off! I am so glad that u have realised at your age! It took me awhile~ ABOUT WHEN I WAS 24!!!! You wont be alone forever! U sound like a beautiful girl who will meet someone that respects u and gives u the credit that you deserve. Never think for one moment that u are not worthy of love. U are . And I promise that you will probably go through a few serious relationships before u settle down and get married...or maybe u will find the right one straight off. I dont know.... but in the meantime stop feeling lonely. If you want to met gentleman join a dating agency. Or go online to dating websites- but even still u have to watch this- I find that dating agencies are more geniune thought as the men are paying for a service.... good luck sweety!
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u deserve to be happy and if his parents and him dont respect u than all i can say is that u deserve better than that- my man kicked me out last night aswell and i had to crawl up to him- no one deserves this- how long have u been with him?
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Good morning all- need some urgent help plse!
behappy replied to behappy's topic in Relationship Advice
thanks everyone for your help- i just have trouble trusting him around these guys as they are so sleazy and that- ???? -
Good morning everyone! I am just wondering about my boyfriend of over one year. He confuses me totally! Last night I went over to his house and we had a argument regarding him always being in a negative mood. Well I may have over reacted but I take it personally as he makes me feel like I am nothing. To cut a long story short we had a fight and I said somethang rude to him and than he literally flew me out of his house. He let me back in and we made up. We made love and he hugged me all night and all was fine. This morning I left his house and he sent me a message after one hour saying how are u? ( As I went to work ) . He never does that. I rang him up and he was being really nice to me. Well today he is going to the Easter Show with his mates and I got abit hurt because he always does fun things with them but he told me he will get me a showbag. His friends are all single and he has been hanging out with them alot lately. Does he just want me for one thing? Also does he feel bad about last night? The guy plays with my emotions and I get insecure when he hangs out with his single mates. What would you do? Should I end the relationship?
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Hi I think that u should bear thru it. Talk to these people that are making u feel insecure. Honesty is the best policy. Also try to make new friends outside this circle. HUGS TO U
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wow- i cant get over what she is putting u thru- how would she like it if you did the same thing to her? thats not right what she is doing- i would get rid of her- i am a gal and I WOULD NEVER DO THAT TO MY MAN- i have respect- she is making us gals look bad! shame on her! U DESEVER BETTER!
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becky23 becky reading your post made me realise what i am doing- i do the same thing- i give my man everythang and he takes and takes and takes but one thing u have to remember- they will always remember what they have- a man that does pot probably isnt in any state of mental mind to call =and he probably does care deeply but he is so use 2 u crawling up to him that he just expects u to keep running back to him- plus the fact that he is selfish- u deserve better- if he did love u he would acknowledge that u are worth something- u sound like an angel that has taken on board a heavy burden with this person- its not about who is wrong or right at end of day- its about whether or not he gives u what u want- AND HE DOESNT he doesnt respect u becky u cant leave him as u dont have the strength in you to believe that u are worthy of a greater love- but u are worthy- no one can say to u that u can do better as when u love someone its not that easy- i am struggling myself - if u want to send me a personal reply i will reply back to it later this afternoon we can share our experiences
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thanks for your reply- i totally agree that family do play a large part but the fact remains that i love him and he loves me and our feelings are not going to change. They have no right to pass judgement on me and be so shallow minded. If we marry than the parents have to respect their sons decision, My parents didnt even go to my sisters wedding and now after birth of the baby oen year later they are talking- i have seen it all before but at same time if my man loves me enough he will stick by me. I am a wonderful person and i know that one day his parents will realise this. They have to be the ones to make the effort too- they shouldnt be making decisions for their man- his is over 30 years of age.
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why dont u maybe see a sex therapyist? sounds crazy but if you are having dreams of other women u may wonder- what is it about her that u arent attracted to?
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DONT BE ASHAMED... it may be a honour for her to know that u are her first- she may be very flattered!
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People! Do You Take Time Off Of Your Other Half?
behappy replied to zpivat's topic in Relationship Advice
i just spoke to my man just than and he was in a bad mood and than i called him back like 5 mintues later to see if he was ok and he was in a good mood- he is the most complex person i know but thats why i love him i do take it personally cause he will have his moments when its like- i want to be left alone- and than other times he goes are u ok? whats wrong- he freaks me out with his personalities but u have to learn not to take it personally mind u after one year i do take it personally but it seems like your gal just has alot on her mind at times - remember she loves u- its NOT A REFLECTION ON U OK? -
my dear this is dangerous- take it from me AND I HAVE HANDS ON EXPERIENCE- i worked with a married guy and after 8 months of seeing him every day we both developed feelings and very deep feelings for each other- it wasnt until he stuck his tongue down my throat and he lifted my top up and tried to kiss my .... that i woke up to myself and pulled him off and said- WHAT THE HELL ARE U DOING- believe me sweety= the scar it left on me will stay with me for the rest of my life- plse plse get out whilst u can- go to speed dating- go date - u can find someone..join a single website- plse dont do anythang- u may destroy a marriage -BUT REMEMBER U ARE NOT A BAD PERSON OK
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thanks for your honest feedback- the thing is that this guy really loves me but they dont know that- they try to dominate him and due to fact that he had a failured marriage i dont know if they would approve of anyone ... at end of day if he leaves me and its cause of them dont u think he never loved me enough?
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any other advice? plse?
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thanks so much for that... he didnt actually tell me this until 2 weeks after... i had to get it out of him... i went to his house crying saying that i love him and he said that he wants to work it out...... why should i be cautious? he is divorced and they never liked his exwife either...they dont even like his sisters brother in law and always fight and they have children!
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hi everyone...i really need some advice...i have abit of an issue...my met my man parents of one year and they said to him that they disapprove of me- that i was in their face to much, that we are not right for each other, that i am too loud, thats theirs something that they dont like about me, and also that we are not going to last. And this is causing issues between me and my man...they are on his back big time- he said to them that he loves me but they are on his back... what can we do? he has enough issues with his parents and his own personal life to go thru this. we love each other so much but we as a couple have issues and i am working on this by going to a counsellor as i have suffocated him and he said that he doesnt like my dominating personality etc... i love this guy so much.... what do u do when my parents love him but his parents detest me ?
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maybe you are right but at the same time i have always been loyal and i am a loyal person i believe that i was so cut up about him tricking me and leading me on that i hated him and i wanted 2 get back at him- i really dont believe though deep down that i am as guilty as him -and its not denial because i was with him sortof and i had no idea about the gal- i got jealous and i hated him i aint a bad person and really deep down i dont see it as cheating- i think i was the victim