I have been with the same girl for five years, and I love her very much. She is my best friend and we would do anything for each other. But, I simply can't deny that I am intensely attracted to other women. Our sex life seemed to have died about 4 and a half years ago, a lot sooner than it has in the past with other girls. The only times we have sex is when it is brought on when I am half asleep, because I am dreaming of other women. I almost get depressed when I fully awake and realize it is still her.
Aside from this, I could see having children and raising a family with her would be quite easy (obviously it's difficult, but easy as it can be). We get along great and share the same values. I don't want to throw it away for something as shallow as sex. What is important here? Thanks for any advice.
