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Let her work out her own problems. She'll find money. That's yours and so there's nothing wrong with taking it back. Pity and guilt will only bring you down and accomplish nothing. If you have already poured your heart to her, then there is nothing more you can do. Inside these feelings wil build up again and so when you feel the need to express yourself, write it down or better yet... come here and tell us. You can also pm me anytime. Since Im not a mutual friend, I'll put myself in both your shoes (in my mind) and be completely honest with you- no sides taken. SO what did you think of that website? was it funny? want me to send you more funnies? cuz ya know- funnies are supposed to be funny afterall. forcing yourself to laugh may be helpful, to release those euphoria chemicals in your brain(whatever they are called) I made that last part up by the way
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It's always that 1% you gotta watch out for... lol when the person denies it.
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Please read. Please answer. Needs a girl's point of view.
blueangel replied to Mr. X's topic in Friendship and Friends
I dont know why girls are- I guess we mature faster. I dont know why we do that either. It makes it annoying to find a boyfriend who can relate. People are always scared to say the truth but only because they are scared of losing something... which is due to the receiver's reaction. So when you're a receiver of honesty, act understanding so the person feels comfortable. that sounds funny lol. "A receiver of honesty." hehehe Oh, those damn alien hunters. They never leave me alone- hahaha. Actually, just kidding. I only said that to get you to admit you were an alien. It is I who is the alien hunter. The others closing in are my team. mwahahahahahaha! there's nowhere you can run nooow. -
hehe It's kewl, ya'll, it's keeewl. 0X sorry- went into my own little head world
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Please read. Please answer. Needs a girl's point of view.
blueangel replied to Mr. X's topic in Friendship and Friends
That's amazing! She'll loooooove that. Always share feelings with a girl. We're more mature than you are and will be able to discuss with you better than another guy... (with few exceptions of course) Ask her what you want to ask her. I cant fathom why people are always so afraid to just be honest with each other. Maybe that's because I'm an alien disguised as a human which may make more sense- oops. You heard nothing! 0X -
Keeping this from your friend looks and is worse. THE truth is always better in the end. IF he messes up the project, it is not your fault but obviously his. He must deal with his own issues in his own way. Taking it out on others is childish and so he never deserved you in the first place. Take him aside and tell him. IN NO WAY, BLAME YOURSELF. IT'LL BE OK. oops- didnt realize caps lock was on. didnt mean to scream that at you. lol
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umm... who are you talking to? righto... love isnt supposed to hurt. it only does when you keep trying to hold onto it causing it to bloom into a lie. To love is to let go. It's the onward motion of life. Letting go does not mean to live without. It means to be able to live.
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To tell if someone likes you, I wouldnt go just by that. Take some more time to tell. You can feel it when someone does... Just like how you can feel when someone is looking at you but you're not even facing them... and then you whip your head and CATCH THEM- mwahahahahahahahaha- cough cough- choke. ahem. sorry.
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To love is to let go. You should never need a person. Enjoy everything but need nothing- that is my motto. Just love and cherish the time you get. Actually, my real motto is trust nothing that moves.
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No, DUDE, whatever you're feeling- be honest with her. Stringing her along hurts her more. Be even so, after telling her your feelings, I'd still try to see where it goes with her... but thats up to you. Being a girl, I would want you to be telling me all this so we can discuss it. Get it? dude hehehe
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Find a substitute for that. When you feel like doing that, make yourself write your feelings down or better yet... go to someone who loves you to comfort you. Hey, come here! One of my friends who is trying to stop cutting now just takes a knife and starts stabbing at her stuffed animals... although I dont think Id recommend that either...
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if you had to establish a criteria for friends, then what
blueangel replied to sfboi415's topic in Friendship and Friends
Reach out to everyone around you. Make no exceptions. Judge nobody for who they are, anything they've ever done, or where they are going on life's journey and especially by how others think of them. Accept everyone with God's love Be a light in the darkness... and for you, summer days will never end. -
Tell her these things in your heart. See what she says and take it from there. I am sad for you... I want to cheer you up. link removed It will make you laugh... I laughed. My sense of humor is warped though so who knows if itll be funny to you. Good luck, Imean it!! (click on funnies when you get there)
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Despite your doubting, you can feel it when someone likes you. Based on what I'd read, I'd say yes. But then again I dont know her- does she act this way with everyone? It could be just her. Even so, have faith. Grow your bond with her for now. I think it's better to be friends first because you feel less pressure to impress.
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I can see you really do have a good heart, even underneath your defensiveness. I am sorry for being so judgemental. I crossed the line there. That was hypocritical to judge while also trying to get you to see that there IS no right or wrong.
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You should talk about this with him
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Tell them both about the other and how you feel and your confusion. They'll be more understanding than you may think. They may even help a little. Maybe agree to have with each of them... sort of a dating thing with no strings attached- meaning you can see other people at the same time until one of you knows what you want. Making such a hard choice shouldnt have to be a burden on you. Even if your heart is spit in two directions, it's still always best to go with the heart... it's the only way to find out what we really want. If they dont understand that, then it's simply because they refuse to. Nomatter how honest one feels they are, everyone to an extent has build an inner denial system. Never let the true reasons why, the true intentions... slip. Reflection is very healthy. Keep seeing them but also get yourself away so that your mind is clear and your heart doesnt get too much in the way. Our heart leads us but it is the mind that must first chose the direction.
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You can DO it.
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I think if she wants to be just friends, go with it. Obviously she wants to be this first to find out how she feels. Never back away from telling someone how you feel. That took a lot of courage and she should appreciate that. I dont think I liked how she snapped at you though. That was cold. I guess she took it the wrong way- and she doesnt want to tell you why she wants to be friends first right now (which I revealed above) and so when somebody doesnt know something you do and you cant tell them, then getting them to go along with you is frustrating. So I understand her a little. Keep your cool. Dont cling to her in everyway you can- she needs to feel like she has the choice, she has the control. (atleast for this situation) And she needs to feel like whatever she does, you'll be ok with it. I mean really, would you want somebody to lie to you just because they were afraid of hurting you? Good luck
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It's unrealistic of her to put all the blame on you. It takes TWO people to make a conversation. Tell her that but also tell her you ARE sorry. Say you want to try again but also say you're going to need her help. Good luck
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hehe you're funny.
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when you do tell her how you feel, tell her all of what your feeling. Tell her this too. I am sticking to what I said before. She deserves to know. It'll be ok.
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I also agree with kskm
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Noo. No. Bad dog. Bad. You are NOT supposed to do that. kidding. It depends on their maturity level... but if they end up fighting about it, know that blood is thicker than water and in the end, you'll end up losing anyway.
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Geez. Sounds like you're taking this personally, MetallicAguy. -pause- awww! how cute!