blueangel

Oh, you silly kids. Stop sleeping around. Promise? ok. Jk. My grandma said that to me once. Laughed about it since. Here's an alternative: Be a virgin and marry a virgin. This prevents STDs or worries. You also dont have to worry about whether or not she's comparing you to a past boyfriend- maybe he did something that you dont do. When first experiences are shared in love, they are like no others. Make everything in your life special. Condoms cheapen sex. After you two lose your virginity and only stay true to each other, just tell her to use the birth control pill. That way you both get the natural one and only experience. (well not one but you know what I mean) And no I'm saying this as a believer of right or wrong or to judge you and put down your ways. Do what you want. This is my preferance because of the romanticness (if thats a word) behind it and also it gives me a feeling of respect for myself... a way of saying, "Everything you do, make it special and make it the best experience. You should accept nothing less."

Your friend and your mom have a lot of confronting to do- not yelling, but talking. If her mom isn't respecting her, then she needs to tell her how this makes her feel. In no way should you chose sides or try to get yourself too involved. Be supportive but know that right now she needs a friend not a problem solver. She'll be ok. It's not the end of the world. Anyway, you have your own life to figure out.

You are married to this woman. thereforeeee, you must make things right. Go home and love your wife. Despite what you are feeling. Love is an action not just a feeling. The feeling is merely a result. Obviously, there is a deeper issue at hand. You need to sit your wife down and ask her to talk to you, adult to adult. Fighting with you and screaming is not the best way to get the other person to hear you, nomatter how loud either of you get. Anger is only a way of running. When you two talk, make an agreement that instead so much of trying to defend your point and bring it accross, the purpose of the talk is for each other to understand... well... each other. Dont get defensive. Dont judge. Just listen. And then wait for your turn. 95% percent of all problems stem from a lack of communication. Be open and honest with her....with all your feelings... with everything. Dont worry. Follow my advice and you'll be ok. I promise.

She's putting up a forward front but trust me, as intimidating as she may seem, she is just as scared as you are. "Courage is not the absense of fear." Don't ask us if she likes you. Ask her. After all her flirting, you deserve to know where she's coming from. And the only way to know where someone comes from, is to go there. You go there, girlfriend. Umm... boyfriend... You go, guy. Yeah, that's what I meant.

Small acts of extra voluntary kindness goes a long way. You'd be surprised to know how many people out there are afraid to be kind and reach out. Be different.

do what feels natural. Don't try to be something you're not just to get a girl. Not saying there's nothing wrong with experimenting. With that, comes experience. But with experience also comes knowledge. You will know when you're doing the right thing when it FEELS RIGHT (just a hint- girls have complex needs that takes time to understand. urge her to share her feelings and beliefs about everything. dont be afraid to cross the line to share some of yours. this is what she wants but she probably wont tell you because she wants you to do it genuinly, on your own. this is how we know who is the ONE) if that makes sense.. i dunno

why dont you tell her this? ask her for her opinion? a good ice breaker is just to start asking about her life, beginning with commenting on yours. And saying that you dont have a life is no excuse, mister. lol jk

Youre hurting your ex more by stringing him along. The truth is the truth. We all deserve to know it.

such is life. it takes the strength of life to love life.

It does not matter if you knew what you were doing or not. He is the adult and for him to take advantage of your naivitivty (did I spell that right?) is just as bad as forcing you. What happened was not your fault. He should have never said it was ok. This is called Sexual harasssment and needs to be dealt with. What your father did was wrong and even though you love him, do not try to justify his actions. He was the adult. You were the child. That makes all the difference in who's fault it was. Sometimes we cannot stop or prevent certain things from happening to us. Even so, dont let the past stop you from living the present. When I say this also, I dont mean to also just let it go like it was ok. This issue needs a lot of confronting.