Mr. X

I have a crush on my best friend ('B'). We've been friends for 5 years and I want to tell her that I like her. Can I have a few ways to do this? 'B' is smart, beautiful and has a beautiful personality. They say nothing is perfect but to me she is perfect. All posts are highly appreciated. And I wasn't too sure on where to put this.

Yes she is very good looking and has a beautiful personality. Also 'B' has a weekend job so she can rarely hang out with anyone on the weekends and whenever she can we hang out but bring one of our friends. Can I have few ways to tell 'B' that I like her?

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Her parents don't like any boys. No exceptions. She said she'll introduce me but it'll be when she is out of the house. More replies

I will if I knew what to say to get her to ask me if I have a crush on her. More replies. When I don't want anymore I'll say so. I don't mean to sound so bossy, sorry.

She wants to keep me a secret from her parents. Why? I don't know. Only our friends know. Hope, we see each other in school every day every chance we get. Outside of school, rarely due to her job. More replies.

Not sure why. 14 years old. Doesn't want her parents to find out about me (afraid her parents'll answer the phone before she does. she doesn't have a cell phone). Why is it fishy? I have her E-mail but my e-mail system is broken so I can't e-mail anyone.

We are actual friends. As a matter of fact all of her friends are mine as well. 'B' is a freshman, I'm a sophmore and before she came to my high school I had no friends on account that all guys (including all authority) thought that if they said the wrong thing to me I would kill them (literally) and the girls I would just say hi and keep walking. 'B' introduced me to her friends. Alright but how do you flirt to a girl? I compliment her on hair, clothes, and her smile. Besides I just want to get her curious enough to ask me. I'm afraid to go up because of what happened to me in my first relationship (I was only in one). I told 'C' (that is her first initial) that I love her (while bf and gf, 1.5 years it lasted) and she ended up attacking me. This is the other reason why I can't get close to 'B' and I don't know if I should tell 'B' about this. I already told her the other reason (has to do with my mother abusing me). More replies please.

I don't have her home phone number (On account she wants to keep me a secret) and she doesn't believe in cell phones. The only technological devices she ever uses are computers. We are communicating through letters because we are extremly shy and I tend to open up on paper a lot better than I can in personal. We used to open up to eachother all the time but now we can't. I'm not too sure why. I think the reason for me is that I have a crush on her. Not too sure why it is for her. Can I please have an answer for my questions too. But answer if you can.

I procrastinated in asking. I am cool I'm just looking for answers on what to do because I'm going to write 'B' back and I want my letter to have what I'm asking about. Some more replies please.

I need and want some answers by 7:00 tomorrow morning (Monday) so please answer. I'm not too sure were this goes and I apologize for it being so long. Also sometimes I ask difficult questions. 1) 'B' (my best friend) and I have been writing back and forth and a little bit ago I asked when she'll introduce me to her parents. She said that she would rather keep me a secret (this was a couple letters back). I'm thinking about asking her about it and what it means because I've been getting mixed signals from her recently... and after telling her that, I'll tell her how I feel before she answers so she's not afraid to tell the truth (I have a crush on 'B'). Can someone give me an example on what to say? 2) In a previous letter I gave her asked if she thought I was cute but I put that some other girl wanted to know. I know that I should have left out the part saying that ANOTHER girl asking and that now I'm sending 'B' mixed signals. 'B' wrote back saying that there wasn't a safe answer to the question. I'm not too sure how to put that I don't like the other girl and hint that I do like 'B' without saying so. Can someone give me a way to do this? *5 years ago I got a gut feeling to take karate class and I wasn't sure why. In karate, on my first day I met 'B' and we became friends before we said a word to each other. Also, I felt like I've known her before that day even though it was the first time we've met let alone seen each other. Why is this? Someone please answer BY 7:00 A.M Monday MORNING. All replies are highly appreciated.

Really I'm not trying to make her see me more in a romantic perspective. I just want to celebrate our friendship so we can be a little closer, (though we have been friends for 5 years we aren't that close) also I want her to get out of her house and have fun more often. Today I told 'B' about the friendship anniversery and she said that she would love to have one. No, sometimes I don't. Well I was talking to one of our girlfriends ('B' and I have the same friends) and she said that 'B' knows I have a crush on her. I don't think it'll put her on the spot because I tell 'B' that she is cute and the only things that are different is that she smiles EVERY time she looks at me.

Please guys. I need some answers.

Come one guys I would really appreciate a few replies.

I have a few questions for everyone, please answer. *'B' and I have been best friends for 5 years. Is a friendship anniversery a good idea? *What would be some good topics to talk about? *I have a crush on 'B' and I want to tell her or at least get her to ask me if I have a crush on her. What would be a good way to get 'B' to ask? *What would be a good way to tell her? Can I please have an answer for each question. All replies are highly appreciated.