RoxyBabe17

I wish I could be that open-minded about painfull break-ups but the Best of Luck to you, on yor date tonite and in your future \

okay question: Is it wrong to be thinking of marrage ( me being at my age [17] )? As some of you who have posted to my questions before know i've been dating my b/f now for 9 1/2 months, and it's pretty serious we're basically with each other everyday ( which do you think thats too much?) and is it totally like ridicoulus of having the thought of marrage cross your mind, I know im young but I can't help but thinking about. He asked me last night " if you had the chance to marry me would you" and I, without even thinking replied yes because that's kind of what I want in the future... deos this make sense or am I being ridiculous? 8-[

So do you think seeing your "significant other" everyday is a little too much? The more that i think about it the more i think that maybe it is, lol maybe its unhealthy because if i can't manage to be a few days away from him then what's going to happen we break up?

I've been going out with my boyfriend now for a little over 9 months. In my previous relationship ( which lasted 6 months) my ex-boyfriend cheated on me. Usuallay my current boyfriend comes over like everyday except for sometimes when he has projects or doctors appiontments, or other things to do. ( like today, for instance he said that he's not coming over today because he'a getting a (check-up) at the dentist and then he's rebuilding his friends computer ( next door to my house). Well, recently I've noticed then whenever he says he's not coming over because of things like that I get all mad and pissy, I mean I don't tell him off or anything I just kind of get silent or I get into a bad mood. Typically, im not the jealous type what-so-ever but recently I just started thinking that maybe he's just like my ex and I started thinking to myself this is what my ex- did when he cheated on me. I guess im just afraid of losing him. But the question I wanted to ask, Is this normal to think this way? Is it normal to be worried about being cheated on, and if it is how do I overcome the feeling of (well I don't know what word would describe it but is it normal to be worried about a repeat of the last relationship? He constantly tells me he would never do anything like that to me and I want to believe him becuase I have no reason not to but will I ever get over worrying about where he is? Im not crazy, lol , even though it may sound like it, Im just afraid of a repeat of my last relationship. ALl comments are appriciated. Thanks , xxpineapplesxx@link removed

True enough....... I didn't mean to be offensive. Actually I had failed to notice the location, My apoligies Nkayani

Okay question: Don't be offended over this but, I think you should either improve your spelling skills or at the very least your typing skills because it took me like 5 minutes to read your post as opposed to the usual 15 seconds. As for your dilema, I agree with the above just ask her if you can kiss her the worst she'll say is no. I wouldn't advise just going off and kissing her with out her permision unless she sends you clear signals or takes the inciative and kisses you herself. Good Luck!!

Things I (personally) love to hate about guys 1. Ego 2.They remember the names of cricketers from Holland and the scores each player has made, but cannot for the life them remember birthdays, anniversaries and buying gifts. What kind selective memory is that? 3.Ogling: They love to ogle at women (read breasts), even when they are with their date. Like, how rude! 4.They nod their heads during a talk about gender equality, and then insist on paying the bills during a date, because it is not manly enough to let the woman pay. Yeah, right! At least, not when someone could be watching. 5. (HA) talking about gender equality how about giving a hand in household chores? 6.Hypocrisy: They love to hang out with "cool babes", but when it comes to marriage they want a "simple homely girl". Guys, looks like you have around two centuries of catching up to do. And... please hurry with it! 7.The basics of life: Life without booze, sex and cigarettes is just unthinkable. And, no, I haven't figured the order of importance 8.Superman! Think of themselves to be exalted beings - a mechanic, technician, plumber and financial advisor all rolled into one. We might have liked that about you, if you didn't make such a big deal out of it! * Not all of these things apply with all men im sure it varies with each one but I think that this whole answer is more of "things you love to hate about men" kind of deal..... Things I adore about men 1. WHen they become all sweet and romantic and attempt to cook you dinner ( how sweet)!!! 2.Kill bugs (some) LOL 3.Take out trash 4. Can always be found when we need sex 5 Buy you things 6. Can be your best friend and your boyfriend at the same time 7. Always there to protect you 8. Can fix your car 9. (Usually) They genuinely care for the women that they love 10. Handle most finances 11. Get that sad/fake puzzled look when you get mad 12. The way they make you smile when you hear their voice 13.The smell of thier cologn or body scent 14. The way they look at you 15.And finally the best thing I think is: When your in his arms how safe and warm and loved you feel....Thats an amazing feeling ** I think it would be pretty cool for men to post the same lists about women***xoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxxooxoxoxoxoxo

okay, I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 mnths. and I really do love him to death and would never hurt him intentionally, but yesterday while I was in class my friend john asked me to go to the bathroom to hook-up or whatever and I thought about it for like 5 min. and finally agreed and went well we ended up making out for like 15 min. in the men's bathroom , now dont get me wrong im not like that usually in fact I've never done anything like that before i guess my hormones just got the best of me yesterday. He too, ( John) has a g/f of 2 years and he's known to have such a reputation with cheating on his g/f I, however, do not.....I really wasnt even thinking when it happened but 20 min. later I had realized what I had really done and I started thinking about chris ( my b/f) and almost started crying because I felt so horrible.. Later that night I told him what happened except I sugar-coated it alot basically what I said was that my friend came onto me and I didnt stop him but I didnt kiss back either..obviously I lied to him and now I feel really horrible I just dont want him to think that I dont love him because I do, I want to spend the rest of my life with him but at that time yesterday It felt nice to be in someone elses arms for awhile...I know I probley do the exact right thing but should I tell him what really happened and run a high risk of losing him and/or hurting him or should I just let it go and not let it happen again? All comments are appriciated ..Thanx

XHearty_TartyX, I've been in your place many of times before...and I, myself have tried many times to end it...but beilieve me when I say it's not worth it....it only brings a heavy burden to your family members because they love you soo much and Im sure would never want to lose you. As for handling stress and pressure and such talk to someone ...friends, family members/guardians, guidance counsler, etc. It really helps when you get everything that you need to say off your chest...Good Luck..

It wouldnt hurt...good luck

heyy..thats really horrible ( about what he did and/or is doing to you) I've never had a break-up that bad but i know that if the person im with now breaks up with me or vice versa...ill have the same exact problem...my best advice is too break off all contact with him ..get your cell number changed if need be becuase the more communication you have with him the harder its going to be and honestly if I were you I would not go back to him it''ll probley only get worse and obviously you guys dont have the same views as to what you want out of the realationship..so dont go back!! good luck...and remember this'll pass..it just takes time you need to talk or anything just IM me kkk hope you feel better

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THanx soo much I now realize how much of a selfish jerk I am for even thinking that because I'd never want to hurt him and honestly i really love him more than words could describe so im dropping the subject and ill just control my hormones to the best of my ability...again thanx to all that commented it helped alot...

Im totally getting what your saying.....and the funny thing is I thought I was the only one who thought that. I was recently in "somewhat" but not really the same situation we watch movies like 95% of the time and non-stop, it never fails, to have a naked women in them and he jumps up real fast and is like "ohhh damn she looks good" and I just like sit there and give him this look and he says sorry and that he's joking but somhow I jus tthink hes like totally serious and it makes me think that im not good enough for him etc. etc....to me thats def. like cheating but no else sees it that way, he deosnt and alot of my friends and family dont see it that way either but I just dont like the fact that he gets "turned on" in that way from another woman. In any case, I would def. tell him how you feel becuase its so important that he needs to know, and if he here's what you have to say and he still geos to the party despite of how hurt you may get....then, I would start thinking very seriously about your relationship because no man is worth your tears and the one who is wont make you cry..Good Luck!!

I feel extremely bad for even thinking of this but here geos: I've been going out with my boyfriend now for a little over 9 months, and I love him him sooo much however, the discusion of "sex" came up recently and he had told me that he loves me very much however he deosnt want to have sex until he's married...I asked me if I wanted to and I didnt answer becuase at the time I wanted to do but I wasnt sure how he would react...he kind of figured out for himself that I wanted to. Anyways I realized now that I love him more then ever however my hormones are def. getting the best of me because I want to 'share' that expeirence soo bad and I was even thinking of having sex with my good friend/ex-b/f this upcoming weekend becuase his parents will be in new yourk all weekend. I dont know what to do because I know that Im probley being really selfish and I dont want to hurt him or risk our realationship by getting caught....how can a I get this "feeling" to go away?? IN simpler terms basically I want to continue to stay with my boyfriend because I couldnt stand to lose him but at the same time I want to have sex ( in which hes not giving ) so I'd hook- up with someone else w/o him knowing. In need of advice...thanks

To me, when your already with the one that you love you don't go around "joking" with ex-girlfriends about masterbatuary acts......If I were in your situation I'd leave. Good Luck..

My mom put me on Zoloft a few years back for about a year or so and I, like you, always was tired, like non-stop i'd try to fall asleep in random places....I felt lightheaded and always had a head-ache. I told my mom and she had the doctor take me off it ...slowly...because my body was somewhat still addicted to it, and I changed medicines . Now I dont take anything becuase I don't need too, but what your expeirencing are def. some of the side-effects that come along with taking the drug. My best advice for you is that either talk to your GYN about how normal alll of this is and/or talk about having it switched to another drug..good luck

Heyy...sweetie--dont be offended but he deosnt sound like much of a best friend. What he's doing to you is horrible and you should'nt have to go through with that kind of stuff. Please believe me when I say that suicide isn't the answer..if you tried everything you can do to get him to stop being such a (blank) then do what you have to do. Tell the girl what he's really up to and if you have a chance to get back to him to show him a little bit of what he's done to you then go for it. Personally I wouldn't do that unless it was an absolute last resort because I would never want to stoop as low as him. Good Luck!!!

yeah thats what it was he said that he gets sooo nervous when he deos things like that he said all of his ex-g/f's had a problem with him not doing that too so im going to take the intiative and not care as long as he loves me thats all that matters

Thanxxx we've being going out for like ever so you'de think this would be an easy thing to talk about to him I dunno I just dont want to seem like a moron like i need too much attention or something...I agree too much (PDA) is totally unessesary and deosnt need to be seen in school, but holding hands isnt bad ...

okay maybe this is stupid, dum, whatever you want to call it but I've been going out with my b/f for 9 months now and we're extremely close and we lolove each other and all that but when we're in school we show like no signs of affection like in the hallways like we don't hold hands kiss each other good bye or anything he started saying I love u in school which almost caught me by surprise but day after day I walk down the hallways and what not and see all these "couples" holding hands and just showing signs of affection and im just like "ughhhh" or "grrr" and he's like what? ANd he just deosnt like get it....I dont want to come out and be like whats your problem becuz maybe hes not like that but hes like that evrywhere else like non-stop.. I need some advice..how do you go upon confronting someone with that question LOL..so confused..all comments appreciated...am I overreacting?

Tell me about your burdens or what not maybe I can help you...i know what your thinking...what would a 17 yr. old know? But it deosn't hurt to try...suicide isn't the answer....

I def. will thanx again

Thabx all of you for the advice Im guessing the only way to solve this is going to the doctors and really finding out ...Thanx again youve all been a great help...I just didnt want to think I was like losing it or overreacting..

Okay odd situation: Yesterday I had really,really,really bad cramps like I spent half the day crying over and went to the nurse to lay down, and I didnt have much to drink that day so she gave me a cup of water. But later on about 4o min. into fourth period, my class and I were all standing around a table talking about pictures and my vision got extremely blurry and I got really hot and dizzy and almost blacked out so I called out to my teacher that I was going to the bathroom becuase I didnt want to pass out like right there and by the time I got to the nurses office I felt a little better although my i was cold and breathing was all shallow and my heart beat was too fast (according to the nurse) she didnt really give me any explanations on what happened deos anyone have any idea and what could have caused this? Should I see a doctor maybe? All comments are appriciated...Thanx so much