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By the way she's acting I'd say... she's just not that into you. Not to be overly blunt but I know a lot of girls like her. My bestfriend for example. Girls like the idea of someone liking them, they like the attention, the compliments, the sheer satisfaction. My bestfriend knew that my friend Jon liked her and he too proceeded to ask her out and she started talking to him less but still walked all over him. Finally he got over her and she decided she liked him so she began flirting with him and talking to him like before hand only to realize again... she didn't really like him. Put your offer on the table again but if she continues to resist then cut the line and just keep it to casual conversation, just don't let her walk all over you.

You haven't even begun to build a proper foundation for a relationship. I lost my virginity at 16 (for some reason this seems to be the age for you) and I regret it. It's something you can't take back. You may think you know him but only time will tell. Ppl change and often have a hidden side. Don't rush into a new world only to find out that he wasn't the guy you thought he was. But that aside, the age difference is a little much and I really think you should wait. If he cares about you he will wait... if he doesn't then why would you want your first time to be with him?

Opening up the ex-files isn't a good idea. What good would have come from that quesiton? Plus 9" or 10" who cares? Size doesn't matter, as long as it's average. It's what you do with it. And just remember... they're ex's for a reason.

I'm in the same position as your boyfriend. I'm a very busy individual. SO when my boyfriend wants to spend time with me that's one thing.. but when he wants me to spend ALL my free time with him that's another thing. I have a life outside my boyfriend that's important to me, and sometimes I just want to spend my free time by myself relaxing. I've ended a few relationships because of this reason. Talk to him about how you feal and I'm sure he'll do the same.

Dating is casual where as seeing eachother (exclusively) means your in a relationship. But people take the meaning in different ways so in order to be clear just find out. If you agree to see eachother exlusively then you're in a serious relationship but I don't consider it dating to be serious.

trim just to keep it clean. When your shaved your suddenly aware of how much of it is there. Well that can be a good thing. It makes you look bigger lol. But I prefer just trimmed. It needs to be trimmed though... picking out pubes from your teeth is not pleasent.

I had that problem too. Just lay off the vibrator. By then your body won't be thinking "it's better with vibey", and 2 you'll have so much sexual energy stored up that it'll have to be released.

Yeah listen to Tigris. I posted on there already.

Alright. Well yesterday was my families big yearly get together. We do this because my family is so large we can't get together during the holidays so we have this massive party and golf tournament so we can see eachother. Ne way, my cousin Robin is somewhat recentley married to her husband Jay. Jay is 33 and I'm 17. Jay is really good looking and he's always there for me like a big brother. Him and I were the last ones up at the fire and ended up pulling an all nighter just sitting there till everyone else got up. I was upset so he was comforting me. But he was asking me what I think of him, and he mentioned that Robin used to have a crush on my dad when she was younger and asked me if I had a crush on anyone in the family when I was younger (we're not into insest I swear). I said no and he said you sure? Then he later asked me how i feel about him because opinions are important to him. I said in what way? He's like anyway. I was like well I feel more comfortable talking to you than my own dad. So he's like ill give u my number so you can call me if you ever need to talk. He also asked me to go to see a movie with him. What I found odd was he gave me his e-mail, cell and work number. He didn't give me his home number and only he answers his cell and the e-mail address he gave me is his work one. I'm curious if he has alternative motives. My stepmom mentioned casually that Jay seemed to be fond of me. Plus all night he was hugging me and sayin he loves me and what not. Hes not a pervert or anything like that he's family I've known him forever. I'm just not sure if he really is just trying to be there for me or he wants to "spend time" with me. Because if it was me needing to talk to him why wouldn't he give me any numbers or e-mail address where I could reach him at home. Seems like he is keeping this from Robin and I'm curious as to why. What do you think?

Everyone wants to be loved and needed, particularly by the person who broke up with us. I understand. What could be better than hearing from the man who just told you he didn't want you in his life anymore, his sad, wistful " i miss you so much" voice on the other end of the phone? It's validating, It's exciting, It's irresistible. But resist you must. If he's not sending a U-Haul to come pick up all your stuff and move it back into his house, then consider yourself a nice, downy little pillow cushioning him from his feelings of loneliness and loss that he's not fully ready to deal with on his own.

Oh sure, they say they're busy. They say that they didn't have even a moment in their insanely busy day to pick up the phone. It was just that crazy. Bull S. With the advent of cell phones and speed dialing it is almost impossible not to call you. Sometimes I call people from my pants pocket when I don't even mean to. They may try to make you think differentley, but men are just like us. They like taking a break from their generally mundane day to talk to someone they like. If he was into you, you would be the bright spot in his horribly busy day. Which would be a day that he would never be too busy to call you. The big question here is, "Is it okay for a guy to forget to call me?" I'm saying to you no. Barring disaster-- someone had to be rushed to the hospital, he was just fired from his job, someone keyed his Ferrari (kidding)-- he should never forget to call you (obviously there are exceptions but dont mistake exceptions for excuses). If he likes you he wont forget to call u. We have become a sloppy bunch of people. We say things we don't mean. We make promises we don't keep. "I'll call you," "Let's Get Together." We know we won't. On the human interaction stock exchange our words have lost almost all their value. And the spiral continues, as we now dont even expect people to keep their word; in fact we might even be embarrassed to point out the dirty liar that they never dd what they said they'd do. So if a guy ur dating doesn't call when he says he's going to, why should that be such a big deal? Because you should be dating a m an who's at least as good as his word. I'm about to make a wild, extreme, and severe relationship rule: The word "busy" is a load of crap and is most often used by a holes. The word "busy" is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact, in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call. Remember: Men are never too busy to get what they want. So remember: If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind. If he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings or needs.

I want to start out by saying, Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with. You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you . There's never a reason to shout at someone unless they are in imminent danger. K Now. If you're in a relationship that you suspect is not good for you, but you're not sure, do this simple exercise. Take out a tape recorder. Tell the story of your relationship into it. Play it out loud. Imagine that your best friend in the whole world is telling you the story instead of you. Would you want better for her? If so... it's time to move on. If it's impossible for u to think u deserve better, try to at least believe one of ur friends who thinks u deserve better... just long enough to get you out of the relationship. Good Luck.

Ok I've posted this so many times now but ok. Eat It Like a Pro While no two women are exactly alike, there are many things that are universally enjoyed by women. No matter whether it's your first time going down on your girl or whether you're just looking to give your wife a little extra pleasure, the following step by step guide will have her raving about your skills. Start Psychological Start with the mental aspect. It's a vastly underrated element of a woman's sexuality and is almost completely misunderstood by the male species. Many women are self conscious about the way they taste and/or smell, especially when experimenting with a new partner. Tell her how much you're looking forward to tasting her sweet juices. Tell her you love the taste - it really turns you on. Tell her you're going to devour every last drop she has to offer. Tell her that you're good at it and you can't wait to show off your skills. Tell her all these things and anything else you can think of along the same lines. You want her to be comfortable sticking her crotch into your mouth, so it's best to lay the groundwork with some sweet talking. Gentle Stroking Once you've got her naked, begin with some soft stroking of her inner thighs. Stay away from her vagina, but let every soft stroke get tantalizingly closer and closer. Direct the strokes from the knees towards the vagina. This may tickle her a little, but she'll love every minute. Positioning Position yourself comfortably so that your mouth is comfortably at clit level. You can be in any number of positions, but it's important that you're both comfortable. We highly recommend the laying flat position for beginners as it is easy and intuitive. Once you're set, begin by softly kissing the outer lips of the vagina. Work your way around, teasing the lips with your tongue. First Contact As you reach the clitoris, dart your tongue in from underneath the clit and give it a good lick from the base to the tip. This will give you a good indication of how much direct clitoral stimulation she can take at this point. Try circling the clit for a while to get her rolling. Keep stimulating the area around the clit and the clit itself until she can take direct stimulation. For some women, this will be immediate, for others, you'll need to tease the area a bit before she can handle the direct contact. Engage the Clitoris Most of the time, you can actually feel the clitoris harden and swell with blood. This is a sign to you that it's time to focus on her pleasure button. Once you begin working hard on the clitoris, you can use a variety of techniques, but don't take your lips, tongue and mouth away from it. It's vital that you give the clit constant attention. You'll find that some women like different types of strokes than others, but, for the most part, you can simply wail away with your tongue back and forth accross the clitoris to get the job done. Or lick it like a thirsty dog lapping at an ice cream cone. The figure 8 is a very nice move here. The Home Stretch Many women will start to buck and moan at this point. Their legs may start shaking and many will actually start thrusting their vagina deeper into your mouth. In some cases they're trying to position their clit just right on your tongue, but most of the time they're just enjoying the ride. In any case, this is the time to really dig in, intensify your efforts and go after the clitoris until she's spent. Try a clitoral blowjob or some tongue screwing when she's deep within the throes of ecstasy and she's likely to go over the edge with a mind blowing clitoral orgasm. Mopping Up Be careful here, as a large percentage of women become hyper-sensitive in the clitoral area just after orgasm. Even the tiniest touch can be painful. Most will push you away from the area when they're through. Don't sweat it. Your work is done. Close the Deal Tell her how she has the sweetest taste to her. Tell her you really can't believe how good it was and how much you enjoyed it. Trust me, she'll be back.

The first time hurts a lot but then once ur more experienced it gets to be pleasureful

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okay, so you have this crazy quirk that somehow makes you able to sniff out the men that are going to end up being emotionally unavailable to you. We can talk about why that is and what priorites are that make these men seem attractive to you. However, what we can most quickly rectify is how long you stick around once you know that he's just not that into a committing trusting and loving relationshio. A lot of guys, good and bad, are going to fly in your direction. Which ones you pick to invest your time in is hwhere you have your control. immediatley. being in a good relationship is much better than being in a bad relationship, and you'll never be able to be in a good relationship if you're sticking with mr. crappy bf. Only you can know if the relationship you're in isn't good enough for you. A good indication that it's not is if you're staying with whats his name because ur scared. Sure you say "but i have standards" well your standards arnt working so lets raise them. Lets put you in charge of how its going to end next time. A standard is setting a level for yourself of what you will or won't tolerate. You get to decide how it's going to be for you. You can now design the person you want to be in the future, and the standards you want to have. standard suggestions i will not go out with a man who hasn't asked me out first An exuse is a polite rejection. men are not afraid of ruining the friendship. Dont get tricked into asking him out. if he likes you he'll do the asking if you can find him, then he can find you. if he wants to find you he will. Just because you like to lead doesnt mean he wants to dance. some traditions are born of nature and last through time for a reason. "hey lets meet at so and so's party/any bar/friend's house" is not a date. Men don't forget how much they like you. so put down the phone. you are good enough to be asked out. i will not go out with a man who keeps me waiting by the phone. If he's not calling you its because you're not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn't follow through on the litte things, he wont for the big things. be aware of this and realize he's ok with disapointing you. dont be with someone who doesnt do what they say they're going to. if he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesnt respect your feelings and needs. you deserve a freakin phone call. i will not date a man who isnt sure he wants to date me guys tell you how they feel even if you refuse to listen or believe them. i dont want to be in a serious relationship truly means i dont want to be in a serious relationship with you. If you dont know where the relationship is going it's ok to ask. murky is not good. theres a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he's ur bf. quit wasting time and go find him. I will not stay with a man who cheats on me there is no excuse for cheating. your only responsiblity to someone elses lapse in judgement is to yourself. cheating is cheating. it doesnt matter whom it was with ir how many times it happened. cheating gets easier every time its donw. its only hard the first time, when one feels the sting of morality and the guilt of betraying someone's trust. cheaters never prosper. a cheater only cheats himself because he doesnt get to be with you. i will not date a man who makes me feel sexually undesireable people tell you who they are all the time. when a man says he cant be monogamous you should believe him. companionship is wonderful, but companionship with sex is better. call a spade a spade or more fittingly a friend a friend, and go find yourself a friend that cant keep his hands off you. i will not date a man who drinks or does drugs to an extent that makes me un it doesnt count unless he says it when he's sober. an I love you or any semblance thereof while under the influence of anything stronger than grape juice wont hold up in court or in life. drinking and drug use are not a path to ones innermost feelings. otherwise people wouldnt smash empty beer cans on their skulls or stick their finger in fire to see if they can feel anything. if he only wants to see you, talk to you, have sex with you etc when hes inebriated it aint love its sport. Bad boys are actually bad. i will not be with a man who's afraid to talk about our future. doesnt want to get married and doesnt want to get married to me are two different things. be sure of what category he falls under. if you have different views about marriage what else are you not the same page about. time to take inventory. if you dont feeling like ur rushing why are you waiting? i will not, under any circumstances, spend my precious time with a man who has already rejected me You cant talk your way out of a breakup its not up for discussion. a break up is a definitive action not a democratic one. break up sex still means ur broken up. cut him off. let him miss you. he doesnt need to be reminded that you're great. classy doesnt mean break into his answering machine. theres no mystery hes gone and he wasnt good enough for you. dont give him the chance to reject u again. let his mother yell at him ur too busy. i will not date a man whos married unless he's all yours he's still hers. there are cool, loving single men in the world if a guy is yelling about his ex wife or crying over his last gf, try to find someone else. dont be the other woman. you are note easily forgotten. let him find you when hes ready. i will not be with a man who is not clearly a good, kind, loving person. life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with. you deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time (but u have to be nice too) you already have a butt hole u dont need another. ** in conclusion, this was to help you make smart decisions so u dont end up with these men. when you do and yes im certain enough to say when you find the good guy you're trust question won't be an issue. have faith what other choice is there? you're fabulous and you deserve it/ good luck**

she probably thinks your just saying it because you have to (like a biast opinion).

If he's not calling you it's because your not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn't follow through on the little things, he will do the same for the big things. Be aware of this and realize he's ok with disappointing you. Don't be with someone who doesnt do what they say they're going to. If he's choosing not to make a simple effor that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs. You deserve his time and a freakin phone call. In conclusion. Hes not into it anymore and you should get out. You deserve better.

Im friends with about 95% of my ex's. Dont read too much into it otherwise you'll come off untrustworthy. Plus you can pretty much tell when your guy is cheating on you, their bodly language changes and they cant look u in the eye as much. Without trust there's nothing. Good luck.

i keep all my things from my exes. it just memories. its nothing more dont worry about it.

Oh how easy it is to forget what it's about. Let me remind you: It's about the guy that wants to be with you, calls you, makes you feel sexy, and desired fully. He wants to see you more and more often because everytime he sees you he likes and then loves you more and more. I know having a little love and affection may help you get through the day or week of the month-- but will it get you through a lifetime? You have every right to know what's going on between you and someone you're knocking socks with, And the more confident you are that you deserve that (and much more) the better relationships and less time wasted you'll have. I personally hate talking about my feelings. I hate talking about my "relationship". I know I'm a chick and chicks are supposed to be all emotional, but im not. I dont like it one but. I particularly don't like asking a guy where the relationship is going or how he feels about me. Ew. It should be natural and easy and obvious. Who wants to be that crazy girl who needs to know exactly what's going on the minute she meets a guy? Id rather be the girl who knows how to hang out and not be demanding. Thats who i always want to be, thats who ive always been. The thing about the cool girl is t hat she still gets her feelings hurt. She still has reactions to how she's being treated. She still hopes he'll call wonders when she'll get to see him nex and if hes excited about beint with her. Maybe this is just me, but i dont want to be sort of dating someone, or kinda hanging out. i dont want to spend a lot of energy suppressing all my feelings to appear uninvolved. i want to be involved. i want to be sleeping with someone i know ill see again because they've already demonstrated to me that they're trustworthy and honorable-- and into me. Sure in the beginning you're cautious about how much you give away. But that caution shouldnt be to make him feel more comfortable. In conclusion to my rambling if you dont know where the relationship is going or you dislike something about it, its okay to pull over and ask. Murky is not good, and theres is a guuy out there who will want to tell everyone that he's ur boyfriend. quit wasting your time with a player and go find him.

This is a very complicated subject, I'll admit. Some will argue, "It's just sex, what does it matter?" Some will argue that you shouldn't throw away a meaningful relationship just because of one indiscretion. This all may be true. But this is what I know: Whatever problems you may have been having in your relationship, they didn't merit him having sex with someone else. Don't ask what you did wrong, don't share the blame. And in case he tells you it just "happened" please remember cheating doesnt just "happen." It's not an accident as in, "Oops, I just slipped and fell into a sexual relationship with someone else." It was planned and executed with full knowledge that it could end your relationship. Know this: If he's sleeping with someone else without your knowledge or encouragement, he is not only behaving like a man who's not really "into" you as it were, but he's behaving like a man who doesn't even care about you all that much. I bet he's given you many excuses. If he's said he doesn't know why he did it. And in that case cheating is bad. Not knowing why you did it is even worse. If one red flag isn't bad enough for you, how about two? Don't date any man who doesn't know why he does things. I don't think you should call these women. What you should be doing is ending this relationship and finding someone who WANTS to be with you and no one else.

Humour is very important, but don't rely on it. You need to know when to be serious otherwise the humour will end up tickin her off when she wants to have a serious talk with you and you're cracking jokes.