Drizown

She basically did all the things that are considered "no no's" in a bestfriend type bond. 1) Betrayed you 2) lied 4) backstabbing 5) called you horrible names That is not bestfriend material. I think you should move away from this. You do not need her negativity.

Amannamederic's advice is the way to go.

Porn is one thing, but having sex with someone over the net? I think he pulled that statistic out of his behind. I don't agree with it. If he loves you, you should be enough, regardless of his intimacy problems. Problems won't just go away, they need to be resolved. Perhaps concelling will help? Or you can tell him how you feel about it. If he says that he can't stop or he won't even after you ask him... then you know that there's a problem and you might need professional help if you want things to work. You're unhappy and he should respect that.

Ok, my bf and i have been dating for about a month. Everythings fine only one squabble and it was dumb. But he was supposed to come over for a dinner with my parents on saturday but a party came up so i told him not to worry about it. He felt that i was "testing" him or something and said he'd go... so eventually i said id make things easier and uninvited him. Turns out that he had told his friends that he was going to my place instead of the party, and they eventually swayed him into going to the party afterwards. I didn't know this so i pretty much made the decision for him. All his friends are asking me to go saturday however he hasn't (to the party that is). He doesnt kiss me as passionatley in the halls, and he isn't really talking as much as he used to. (this is in the time span of about 4 days). Yesterday we had a half day, he called alex, kyle, chris and matt, to see if ne of them wanted to chill. He couldn't find ne of them. So he sat at home doing nothing.... and didn't even bother calling me... so i called him, had a conversation he didnt ask to chill or ne thing, left, said he would call me back and then didn't. WTF is up with him? It's not that he's losing interest I know that's not it, im very close with all his friends and i know he's still into me. Do you think i should reinvited him to saturday. his friends also say that he doesnt like the fact that i dont make decisions and that i should start. Ne insight into wat he's thinking?

Watching the squirming is amazing I agree, and I don't mind doing it. But when they start controlling ur head like pushing it or whatever, that gets annoying. Plus if they push ur head down for deep throat, seriously do u want me to make gagging noises? it won't be very erotic.

No, it's not that I don't trust them, i just don't like what they are about. Mainly the b!tchyness and the drama. Plus he has girl friends that he chills with.

My bf gets jealous very easily and dislikes the fact that i have one gf and all the rest are guys. I don't like girls... i don't like how they are two faced and the conversation topics that they have. I LOVE my bestfriend with all my heart though she's great. However he really hates the fact that I'm still good friends with ALL my ex bf's as well and that I still hang out with them. 2 nights ago i called him and he asked me wat i was gunna do all day. i said well i might be going to brians to help him clean up his house that got trashed after the kegger. he got upset, so i told him i wouldn't go. Then on msn brian's name was thanks so much Phil And Sara u guys rock! he got REALLY upset (he was at his friends at the time) and discussed it with his friends. Hes like so wat did u do yesterday... i said nothing i stayed home. He said you're lyin to me now i saw ur name in his msn name. I was like yah it said Phil and Sara.... I have an H in my name. I think he believed me but his friends didn't quite. And I was telling the truth. Ne wayz it wasn't that big of a deal... but I still want to be able to hang out with my ex's and have my bf realize that i love him and that they're just old flames that won't reignite themselves. How can i reassure him?

My bf thinks that he's starting to bore me, because we've turned into quite the couch potatoe couple. See we live in Erin. A VERY small community that has nothing to do. So we basically consist of movies, tv and quickies. We do live near orangeville that has a theatre and resteraunts but thats still the same thing. Does anyone have any idea of things we could do togehter? He doesn't bore me but some fresh things would be nice.

Love handles are the fat around your hips. For your love handles do the crunches where you bring your knees up and go elbow accross to the other knee it helps. Other than that I don't know of any that work there. Ummm as for your butt squats!!

hmm well i unno if ur adding to this post or asking for help. If you're asking for advice you should start a new topic.

Well i think the first step is to appreciate and learn to be comfortable with yourself. What you're doing isn't healthy and until you can learn to say I'm beautiful you will never overcome this jealousy. Perhaps that's why he's turned to these magazines. If you're not into sex because of how you look at yourself he has to get some visual aspects of sex from somewhere. So once you are happy with who you are then you shouldn't be jealous of these women, he's with you after all so he must like the way you look and you should too.

You're not abnormal... everyday for me as well.

He misses you. Whether it be you as in your relationship or just your presense in his life. He calls you to hear your voice, and keeps in contact with you because he misses you being apart of his life... 2 yrs after all. He wants you to know however that he's doing good because he doesn't want to come off as desperate or needy. He MAY want you back or he's just filling the space that you left. I'm leaning more as to the fact he wants to be with you because he WANTS to see you, he WANTS to talk to you, and he WANTS you to be impressed with him and notice his looks are once again to your liking. I think you should talk to him. You have nothing to lose.

I first learned what sex was when i was 8... but then i really became wise in the subject lol when i was about 11 (my sis gave me this huge book called gurl deal with it) so yah.

Something simple like that wouldn't have swayed her mind. I think that by the sounds of it you guys being close.. and her telling you stuff and all... i think she wants to keep you more as a friend. I think she might have said she liked you just so things wouldn't become awkward, because of you telling her you liked her and if she hadn't said it back... things just might have been awkward. By asking her out she was confronted with it. If she REALLY liked you... she wouldn't have waited 3 days... there wouldn't have been any need for hesitation. I think you should take it ez on this one.

You gotta start thinking about you. You gotta tell yourself I'm better than this and I deserve better. To get your mind off of him take up a new activity whether it be in school (if you are in school I don't know your age) or out. Example: Join a club, take up yoga, join a gym ANYTHING to keep you busy. Go out with friends and flirt a little. Eventually you will be laughing and saying to yourself why did I put myself through that for HIM... he was so not worth it. Just remember... you DESERVE to be happy.

Well don't assume that you're in a relationship because in higschool it never progresses that way. My bf and i became really close and went on a few dates. Eventually we were just natural around eachother. One day chillin at his place he asked me wat i considered us... I said well I unno what do you want us to be considered as. He's like well I already think of you as my gf but... will you be my gf? Naturally I said yes and there you go. Cam and I were like that at lunch prior to dating as well... it's just him expressing that he likes you. Try inviting him to the movies or something to get some one on one time and then you won't feel so crowded. If you get into a relationship or are just together naturally like that... he won't feel the need to shower you with attention and will return with his buds and you with ur girls. However if things don't work out to be that peachy then you can always talk to him about it and be honest saying that you like being with him but you miss being with your gals.

Well obviously you know her very well so I doubt that it's you with the problem. You seem to be very close and know eachother very well, and there's lots of love in the relationship... so even though she is quiet i think you should talk to her about it. Especially seeing as you just came out of a rough time... this isn't something you want. Plus because you know eachother so well... and like you said she can sense it you need to discuss it. I'm sure you already know that communication's the key so just talk to her about it... maybe it's stress or something's just not right emotionally because like you said you know her body... and already being female you know the anantomy so it's not the technigue thus it must be phsycological. Just talk to her.

I had that exact for a while but it went a way. I think it was just do to stress and positioning.

Some Positions for yah ta try The Diamond You lie on ur back with a pillow propped under ur head. she faces u and lowers herself onto u and puts her hands and knees on either side of ur torso. once ur deep inside her, she gently movies in the diaglonal shape of a diamond (left, down, right and up). Why It's Good She'll love it because ur penis glides against every inch of her including the G-Spot. not only can she take u all the way in, but because the motions are slow and controlled it won't wear u out as fast. The Booty Bridge She bends forward with her legs slightly spread with her arms hanging either loose infront of her or resting on a low chair for balance. You enter her from behind pulling urself as close to her as possible while holding her torso for support. Why It's Good: This spin on doggie-style is perfect for quickies and being bent over gives u maximum depth and control. Plus the angle allosws access to her g-spot. Plus unlike typical re-entry action that can leave u feeling disconnected your pelvises and thighs touch making the move more intimate. BONUS: u can stay inside her while she grinds behind u in circles. The Thigh Master THIS ONE WILL DEFFINETLEY GET HER A VAGINAL ORGASM u lie on ur back with one leg outstreched and the other bend, so ur knee is pointint upward. Facing sideways, she lowers herself onto u and holds onto ur bent knee for leverage. as she rocks back and forth, get her to lean far enough forward so her "joy button" rubs against ur inner thigh. Why It's Good This makes her the center of attention. The steady thrusting plus constant clit action on ur thigh will prime her for a BIG O. With ur leg there to balance her shes free to really let go and grind in wild motions. Of course there are booty benefits for u too. Niagra Falls facing the faucet kneel in a tub that's half filled with warm water. She leans forward and holds the walls or sides of the tub for balance. You can climb in and penetrate her from behind. As she grinds get her to use her hand to guide water from the faucet to between her legs or use a detachable shower head. Why It's Good this sex style is great for girls who dont always orgasm easily. you have prime g-spot access while the water spray electrifies her external joy button. Plus with ur bodies meshed tightly in the tub, u can play with her breasts or stroke her down below. Ne way try some of those out and see wat happens

Another thing that might help... lube. A handjob without lube is like french fries without ketchup lol. If your own saliva doesn't make enough (which was my case because i dont produce that much saliva) do wat i did... i use banana flavoured massage oil so ur gettin the lube thats safe to put in your mouth. =D>

Wow i just have to say that my sensai is HOTT but i couldn't immagine the awkwardness of hookin up with him and still trainin with him.

Ne one have any remedies or products they use for hair removal of the bikini area. I hate takin the time to go get it waxed. and i hate the razor burn that follows shaving (not to mention the ingrown hairs). I bought that Veet hair removal stuff for the bikini area but it didn't do squat. Ne suggestions.

Deffinetley DO NOT use the stuff you use on your face. You'll end up getting a severe irritation and possibly burning. Also it might agrivate the pimples and make them worse. Trust me you'd be giving yourself more agony than relief. Talk to your doctor and possibly a dermatologist for something you can use.

Thanks greenowl