aphrodite24

LDR's do work. But they take a lot of work. I am in a long distance relationship and have been in this relationship for over a year. It takes a lot from the both of you.

Being loved...it's a wonderful feeling.

The "bad boy" image is highly over-rated.

A little over a year ago I would have said I agreed with you. When I was younger what I thought was love really wasn't love. The guys who told me they loved me, didn't love me at all.....all I was to them was a beef. They got what they wanted and what I wanted in return was love. I never got it. I even ran off and got married when I was 18 to a guy who I thought truly loved me. He didn't love me either, he just wanted what he could get out of me....money and sex. I left my home to join the Navy hoping to leave behind all the pain and suffering I had been through. I had completely given up on love. It didn't exist and I was never going to know that kind of love. I wasn't looking for it. Then along he came. Love bit me in the butt. He was my best friend at first then a couple of months later he asked me to be his girlfriend. I know it sounds like a juvenile thing, but it was the sweetest thing anyone everyone ever did. We were dating for 6 months (the whole time was spent hundreds of miles apart). Every day that went by, my feelings for him grew. I didn't know what they were and I was scared. I returned home and after 6 months he tells me that he loves me. I cried because I knew he meant it and I knew that I loved him. When I told him that I loved him in return both of us were on cloud nine. Don't get me wrong, we have had our fair share of bumps and snags, but we always manage to talk things out and make it through. I've never felt the love that he has shown me in so many ways. He has shown me what it is like to be truly loved. I love him with all my heart and soul. I've reflected on what happened over a year ago. I didn't find love and he didn't find me. We found each other. There is love out there. Just wait for it. It will surface when the time is right.

Follow your heart. Your best bet is to go with what your "gut" tells you.

Does she like it when you dance with other girls?

My bf and I have gone for well over an hour without orgasming....without stopping...it is possible. To us, it's not having sex, it' making love. We take the time that we spend together, teasing and pleasuring... not "getting in, getting off, getting out."

Being in a long distance relationship, not getting any for months factors on how often I've masturbated. Sometimes I just get in the mood for sex and I can't have it, and so the only thing left to do is pleasure myself. Oh, I have gone 8 months without it.

If she told you not to stop the next go around, don't stop. Give her an orgasm. If she's not happy about you giving her one, then it's her fault because she agreed not to stop.

I feel for you. There are times when my bf says things that I don't understand why he said them. We have been together for over a year and sometimes I feel like giving up because it's the easy way out. I put all my thoughts in order and I realize that what I really want is to be with him [forever] and to understand him. Talking through your problems always helps; never hide your feelings and thoughts from one another. If the two of you truly care and love one another no distance could break what you have. Distance is only on this physical plane, while love and passion thrive on a different one. If he truly loves you there is nothing that could keep him from you. Like that old song "ain't no mountain high enough, ain't no valley low enough, ain't no river wide enough to keep me from getting to you..." IF the love is true, things will come to be as they should be.

Good advice David Shade. Never knew those places existed.

You shouldn't be having sex at 14 anyway.

I met my bf in boot camp. He was my best friend while I was there. He was my support, helped me out in so many ways. I didn't know it at first, but I had fallen in love with him. One year later, still going strong. He is the One.

It's called body languae. Playing with her hair, the way she shows you her legs stufff like that. She is starting to get interested, but take small steps. One foot in front of the other.

My bf loves being kissed on the neck. It's a big turn on for him. That prompts me to do it more often.