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Although it's unlikely that you will achieve orgasm through fingering it is possible. Fingering is a grand art. It involves much more than just sticking them inside her and moving them around. The most important thing you can have when going into something new is knowledge. It's also very, very important to have a partner who can talk to you about this and give you instruction during the act and afterwards. This way, you can both learn more about each other's intimate perks, secrets, and desires. You'll also find that if you make her happy, you'll be happier as well. It should be noted that the guide that follows is one example of guidelines. These specific techniques aren't necessarily going to work for all women. You'll honestly need to consult with your partner on what works and what doesn't, but these will be some starting tips. Just remember to keep the communication channels open, and don't be afraid to add a little variety. First, when rubbing her clit, up-and-down motions usually work better than side-to-side or circular. Sure, you can use the latter two to vary it every now and then, but, on the whole (whether fingering or using your tongue), up and down on the clitoris usually works best. When actually using a finger or two inside of her (I'd suggest one for tighter girls--you CAN fit two, usually, but you lose a lot of maneuverability, and she'll be sore afterward), one of the better motions I've found is to push your finger all the way in, then bend it slightly when pulling it out, so it scrapes against the top of her insides. Not only does this feel really good, but it gives you a chance at hitting the G-spot. If you do hit it, you should be able to tell by your partner's reaction. And, trust me, you need to find the G-spot sooner or later (sooner the better), and use it to your full advantage. That's one of the best places to start consistently rubbing when she's getting close to orgasm. That's another thing- try to be consistent. You can vary your angle and fingering style sometimes during the session, but don't change every three seconds. And when she gets close to orgasm, DON'T change unless she tells you to. Get a little rougher and pump your finger a little further into her, great. Go faster, wonderful. But DON'T decide "Hey, maybe if I completely change my angle and rotate my finger THIS way" when she's near the edge- every time you switch, it sort of knocks her orgasm back a bit, and that can be really frustrating for her. And most importantly, when she's getting closer to orgasm, if she says for you to do something, DO IT. Harder, faster, rougher, whatever- she knows what she needs, and it'll help her orgasm along a lot if you just listen to her and do what she says. This is for HER, after all. Also, pay attention to more than her genital area. I know it takes a lot of concentration to finger a girl, especially when you're new at it, and so you sort of forget to do anything else, but it makes the girl feel better and increases her general body sensitivity if you nip at her thighs, rub her stomach or breast with your free hand, do SOMETHING. Mostly, it helps her feel like something more than just genitals to you, and that means a lot to her general pleasure. You may even want to stop every now and then (provided she isn't close to orgasm because that would be just mean) to just hug and kiss her for a minute or two. It would give you both a break and would preserve the intimacy of it all. You can get a lot of pointers if you ask her to touch herself while you watch, and then pattern your motions after her. In fact, the first few times, you may want to ask her to finger herself or rub her clitoris herself, so that you can take care of just one of those aspects and learn what feels good while watching what she does on herself that feels good in the other area. Talk to her during the act. Tell her that she's pretty, ask her if what you're doing feels good, tell her you want her and that you like doing this, that sort of thing. That helps keep the intimacy going, making her feel like a person and not just a vagina, and also reassures her that you aren't bored. Many women are sort of paranoid that the guy isn't having any fun at all- make sure she knows that you are. Even after you are done, fully clothed, and alone, make sure to remind her just how much you enjoyed doing that for her. Especially right after she has reached orgasm, don't pull your finger out suddenly. Unless it's part of hard, fast thrusts (and usually even then), your finger should stay in or come out very gradually. Ripping it out all at once can be very uncomfortable or painful for a girl. Sliding it very slowly can even serve to tease, and make sure you look her in the eyes and grin when you do this. She should love it. Mostly, it depends on communication with your partner about her needs and wants. Some girls like it rougher or faster than others. Some like more vaginal stimulation, others want just clitoral. It boils down to reading your partner's reaction and asking her to help teach you what she wants. Be willing and ready to learn, and you'll do fine. Now onto the oral art Eating Muff but Not Too Ruff While no two women are exactly alike, there are many things that are universally enjoyed by women. No matter whether it's your first time going down on your girl or whether you're just looking to give your wife a little extra pleasure, the following step by step guide will have her raving about your skills. Start Psychological Start with the mental aspect. It's a vastly underrated element of a woman's sexuality and is almost completely misunderstood by the male species. Many women are self conscious about the way they taste and/or smell, especially when experimenting with a new partner. Tell her how much you're looking forward to tasting her sweet juices. Tell her you love the taste - it really turns you on. Tell her you're going to devour every last drop she has to offer. Tell her that you're good at it and you can't wait to show off your skills. Tell her all these things and anything else you can think of along the same lines. You want her to be comfortable sticking her crotch into your mouth, so it's best to lay the groundwork with some sweet talking. Gentle Stroking Once you've got her naked, begin with some soft stroking of her inner thighs. Stay away from her vagina, but let every soft stroke get tantalizingly closer and closer. Direct the strokes from the knees towards the vagina. This may tickle her a little, but she'll love every minute. Positioning Position yourself comfortably so that your mouth is comfortably at clit level. You can be in any number of positions, but it's important that you're both comfortable. We highly recommend the laying flat position for beginners as it is easy and intuitive. Once you're set, begin by softly kissing the outer lips of the vagina. Work your way around, teasing the lips with your tongue. First Contact As you reach the clitoris, dart your tongue in from underneath the clit and give it a good lick from the base to the tip. This will give you a good indication of how much direct clitoral stimulation she can take at this point. Try circling the clit for a while to get her rolling. Keep stimulating the area around the clit and the clit itself until she can take direct stimulation. For some women, this will be immediate, for others, you'll need to tease the area a bit before she can handle the direct contact. Engage the Clitoris Most of the time, you can actually feel the clitoris harden and swell with blood. This is a sign to you that it's time to focus on her pleasure button. Once you begin working hard on the clitoris, you can use a variety of techniques, but don't take your lips, tongue and mouth away from it. It's vital that you give the clit constant attention. You'll find that some women like different types of strokes than others, but, for the most part, you can simply wail away with your tongue back and forth accross the clitoris to get the job done. Or lick it like a thirsty dog lapping at an ice cream cone. The figure 8 is a very nice move here. The Home Stretch Many women will start to buck and moan at this point. Their legs may start shaking and many will actually start thrusting their vagina deeper into your mouth. In some cases they're trying to position their clit just right on your tongue, but most of the time they're just enjoying the ride. In any case, this is the time to really dig in, intensify your efforts and go after the clitoris until she's spent. Try a clitoral blowjob or some tongue f****** when she's deep within the throes of ecstasy and she's likely to go over the edge with a mind blowing clitoral orgasm. Mopping Up Be careful here, as a large percentage of women become hyper-sensitive in the clitoral area just after orgasm. Even the tiniest touch can be painful. Most will push you away from the area when they're through. Don't sweat it. Your work is done. Close the Deal Tell her how she has the sweetest taste to her. Tell her you really can't believe how good it was and how much you enjoyed it. Trust us, she'll be back. wow lol now if you'll excuse me i have to go pay a visit to my bf \ haha ps hope that helped

She was arroused but trust me... when she does orgasm you'll be able to tell. THere's no way of hiding it. Legs start trembleing and if you're inside her (with ur fingers or w/e) you can feel her vagina contracting, and you'll feel or see a sudden rush and then a calm. Breathing is just the prelude.

I had the same problem with my bf. Before I gave him oral he was squirming around insanely just from hand. He was ready to "pop" as it were so i went down on him... but after we had been doing it for quite a while and I couldn't feel my jaw ne more i had to stop and use my hand. He was very upset. He's like wtf is wrong with me, my gf is giving me head and i can't finish. He's like i can feel it but it just won't come. Eventually i just stopped and he was in pain. He described it as knives in his abs. So after i left he had to relieve himself which made him even more frustrated. We talked about it and he explained that he had so many worries that were running through his head that he just couldn't concentrate and really enjoy wat was happening. So after we talked it through the next time we did it he was fine. Sit down and talk to him. Trust me it helps.

My bf was injured in Rugby... Someone stepped on his member and scraped the skin off the side... He never told ne one about it... till me. He was left with 2 scars on the side. So before we got into anything of that nature he told me about it so i wouldn't be startled or surprised when i eventually did go there. I think you should inform her so she's prepared. It's nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about and I doubt she will have any problem with it.

No I haven't brought it up. See he's actually always worried about how I feel. So he even asked me how i felt... and at the time i felt fine im like no ur friends come first. I would never ask you to put me before them. He's like ok but i just dont want u feeling like a side dish you mean a lot to me. But since then I unno it's more of a hot button topic. Alex is Cameron's bestfriend... I knew Alex before I knew Cam. However Alex and Cameron both liked me but Cam didn't know that Alex did and when i told him Alex and I had a big falling out and are no long speaking.

I know single vs. attached. I was in a relationship for about 8 months and broke it off and decided not to date again for a while, and I had soooo much fun. But I want to make things work with cam we get along great, he's like the male version of me and i do like chillin with my girls which i do a lot as well but i mean i dont like the fact that hes not makin any effort. So other than breaking up any other suggestions. Plus it's not like it's coming off to be he does make time for me and take me out and everything and he'd have no problem with me hanging out with the brothas occasionally but... it's the whole hatred between me and alex. I just wanna know how I can get him to make things a little more balanced between hanging out with me, with his friends, with my friends, with all of us as a group etc.

lol as long as they're not drawin blood there's no problem.

Alright well I'm in a relationship with my bf Cameron whom i'm very close with... But I'm tired of being second best to "the brothas" aka his friends. See I know guys will always be with their friends and yadda yadda yadda.. im not asking him to give up his friends... im asking not to be a side dish. Like he'll make endless plans with the brothas and then we'll only chill when they haven't made any plans. This is march break week... and we've hung out once. I had to babysitt monday and tuesday and he has to work thurs fri... and i had to babysitt my lil sis wednesday as well (the only day that hes home all day) so my mom took the day off work and lost a days pay so we could be together for the day. He calls me up at 11:30am and he's like yah pounder (best friend) is pickin me and the brothas up in half an hour and we're going to golf town im like w/e bye. Normally i'd be like ok have fun but this was supposed to be OUR day. He's been chilling with the brothas since friday. So then on the phone he's like well we could chill tmrw (sounded more of a sympathy thing than anything else) im like ur working hes like only from 3-7 im like aight w/e we'll talk about it tmrw. Now He calls me up and guess where he is... with the brothas. Argh!. Then there was another thing kinda fishy about his phone call yesterday. Whenever he calls my phone always id's his last name... but when he called yesterday it said unknown name unknown number... so i asked where he was, he's like at home... y? I said well my phone doesnt say ur name so... he's like yah that's weird eh? I unno wat to do... i mean these guys have been friends since like grd 3... and i used to be really close with his bestfriend Alex... but then we had a big falling out and don't speak to eachother anymore. So It's not as if i can ask him to stop spending time with all his friends... but id like to see my bf too.

I wouldn't consider it cheating because you didn't do anything. But I think you should tell her because sounds like she's going to hear it anyway and she's going to be even more pissed rather than hearing it from you. Plus if she hears it and you deny it then now you are lying to her. So if you tell her you went with these girls and did nothing then she has no reason not to believe you. However if you lie to her and she catches you in the lie and you try to tell her that you didn't do anything then she'll already think that you've jeapordized her trust and what's to stop you from lyin again now. Be Honest.

Well I think you should leave it alone... It sounds like she only calls you up when she needs to be seen with a date. She called you up for that party and pretty much used you as arm candy, and then only called you again when she needed a valentine, and wasn't willing to come see you? I say put this behind you because it's only going to leave you frustrated and upset.

K well im in a new relationship with my bf Cam. He's worried because he doesn't think he's pleasing me... He says I more than please him when we're makin out and I can turn him on np. But he says he doesn't get much of a reaction from me.. Even though he notices my change in kissing and my breathing increases. I do enjoy what he does but it doesn't really turn me on as much as he'd like. Ne tips from Guys or Girls that you've done or your bf has done that u've really liked?

From my experience... I haven't met a guy that hasn't liked it. My current bf loves it but wat he loves more are the ears... And much like that previous post sometimes he makes me stop because it's TOO GOOD. Also he likes the tickleing up and down his forearms, and sides and up his back, which is a first for me to have a guy that likes that. But yah dont expect every guy too... i personally have a VERY tickelish neck so it's not always my thing.

Yah my bf Cam is 6"3 and I'm only 5"2... more than a foot taller lol. I made the first move for our kiss because he was a bit shy. We did it standing up infront of my house, i told him to come down to my level and then planted one on him lol. The second time we kissed we were sitting down. Really both are great so just go for it when you feel the time is right... otherwise before you know it he'll be pulling the move.

I dated this guy mark last year, and was really sceptical about dating him in the first place. He ended up asking to come see me but I wouldn't tell him where I lived, he had an idea (we live in a really small town) so it's not that hard to know where abouts people live. Ne wayz he dragged his buddies door to door down 3 houses looking for me in the rain and mine was the last house. He ended up asking me out on my drive way, and I said yes. We dated for about a month and while we were dating I was hearing that this girl Jen was out for him, and that he was gunna leave me for her.. he reassured me that he wasn't but he did. I told him to go, but told him he won't make her happy, (she's really *Profanity Removed by Moderator). I told her she'll cheat on him and break his heart, but on he went. Within the first week she cheated on him twice with a guy and a girl, and broke up with him after he won the championship in rugyb, and this was right after too.. on the field, while i was standing there. He developed feelings for me again but never said anything. Now I've developed feelings for him, and he told me he has feelings for me. So I told him that I like him, and we haven't talked about it, we flirt but we haven't actually talked about it. I want to date him again but I'm having trust and commitment issues with him, but I'm positive we can work them out. How can I bring it up with him again without getting hurt?

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EVERY girl is different in terms of what they like and long hair... isn't for every guy. For example... for those who watch sex and the city.. remember when carrie was first dating aidan and he had long hair and was just ew.. then they broke up because she cheated on him with BIG and she saw him at the opening of steve's bar and his hair was cut off WOW sooooooooo much better for him. Then there's people like Samantha's bf the younger one... he looked AMAZING with long and short hair. Then there's people like my ex who has long hair and when he cut it he looked really bad. Thus it depends on your faceshape if a girl thinks your sexier with long hair or without.

I privatley messaged the person who asked the question and we discovered what the problem was and I helped him out so no worries everyone he's more informed now

As for the guys question on trimming, there's no real specific amount to take off, that judgement is left to you but let's say the length without trimming is ______ I'd recommend trimming it to about _ or __ at the very least, but again it's up to you. As for guys with hair all over, some girls like that, i personally hate it, and i mentioned that to my friend brian, who i came to date later in life, and without telling me he shaved his chest because i told him I didn't like it. I don't care enough to make a man do that, so when i found out i insisted him to stop. Ne wayz to each his/her own, and yes body lotions and waxing SOOOOO MUCH BETTER, it's like comparing pads to tampons, tampons sooooooooo much better and carefree for a lot longer, and more versatile.

Some parts of puberty, like skin problems, hair growth, and general physical maturity affect boys and girls with relatively equal impacts, thought the way they manifest themselves varies greatly. Boys starting puberty slightly later than girls (on average) and, as with girls, mature at different rates. Boys sexual development is usually broken down into 5 stages. 1. From birth to puberty, boys' genitals grow slightly. Then, during puberty, boys go through the next 4 stages. 2. The onset of puberty occurs anywhere between ages 9 and 16. At a signal from the hypthalamus (a region of the brain) and the puberty gland, boys' bodies start producing hormones, like testosterone, in thei gonads. 3. Beginning between ages 11 and 16, the penis gets longer and a little wider, and the penis and scrotum get darker. Shoulders broaden, hips narrow etc. 4. Between ages 11 and 17 there's another growth spurt for the penis, which gets considerable longer and wider. 5. Adult proportions are reached. This phase is usually completed by age 18, and may continue into the early twenties. The penis assumes it's full length and width; the scrotum is fully developed. Now having this been said, I don't think you're done growing, but even with genetics, you won't end up with a 12" penis. Taking into the fact your age, I'd say you'll probably get to 8, maybe 8.5" but I doubt it will get any larger than that, besides that's large enough, if it's too large there's a lot of tiny woman that you'd be hurting. Hope I helped.

Eating Muff but Not Too Ruff Eat Like a Pro While no two women are exactly alike, there are many things that are universally enjoyed by women. No matter whether it's your first time going down on your girl or whether you're just looking to give your wife a little extra pleasure, the following step by step guide will have her raving about your skills. Start Psychological Start with the mental aspect. It's a vastly underrated element of a woman's sexuality and is almost completely misunderstood by the male species. Many women are self conscious about the way they taste and/or smell, especially when experimenting with a new partner. Tell her how much you're looking forward to tasting her sweet juices. Tell her you love the taste - it really turns you on. Tell her you're going to devour every last drop she has to offer. Tell her all these things and anything else you can think of along the same lines. You want her to be comfortable sticking her crotch into your mouth, so it's best to lay the groundwork with some sweet talking. Gentle Stroking Once you've got her naked, begin with some soft stroking of her inner thighs. Stay away from her vagina, but let every soft stroke get tantalizingly closer and closer. Direct the strokes from the knees towards the vagina. This may tickle her a little, but she'll love every minute. Positioning Position yourself comfortably so that your mouth is comfortably at clit level. You can be in any number of positions, but it's important that you're both comfortable. We highly recommend the laying flat position for beginners as it is easy and intuitive. Once you're set, begin by softly kissing the outer lips of the vagina. Work your way around, teasing the lips with your tongue. First Contact As you reach the clitoris, dart your tongue in from underneath the clit and give it a good lick from the base to the tip. This will give you a good indication of how much direct clitoral stimulation she can take at this point. Try circling the clit for a while to get her rolling. Keep stimulating the area around the clit and the clit itself until she can take direct stimulation. For some women, this will be immediate, for others, you'll need to tease the area a bit before she can handle the direct contact. Engage the Clit Most of the time, you can actually feel the clitoris harden and swell with blood. This is a sign to you that it's time to focus on her pleasure button. Once you begin working hard on the clit, you can use a variety of techniques, but don't take your lips, tongue and mouth away from it. It's vital that you give the clit constant attention. You'll find that some women like different types of strokes than others, but, for the most part, you can simply wail away with your tongue back and forth accross the clitoris to get the job done. Or lick it like a thirsty dog lapping at an ice cream cone. The figure 8 is a very nice move here. The Home Stretch Many women will start to buck and moan at this point. Their legs may start shaking and many will actually start thrusting their vagina deeper into your mouth. In some cases they're trying to position their clit just right on your tongue, but most of the time they're just enjoying the ride. In any case, this is the time to really dig in, intensify your efforts and go after the clit until she's spent. Mopping Up Be careful here, as a large percentage of women become hyper-sensitive in the clitoral area just after orgasm. Even the tiniest touch can be painful. Most will push you away from the area when they're through. Don't sweat it. Your work is done. Close the Deal Tell her how she has the sweetest taste to her. Tell her you really can't believe how good it was and how much you enjoyed it. Trust me, she'll be back. Sorry if this was too descriptive or whatever, but it's the best instruction i can give to you.

There are lots of nerve endings in and around the anus, and many people find that stimulation of this area can be very pleasurable. It can also, however, be very painful. Any experimentation in this area should involve substantial lubrication and should be treated as highly risky sex. The tissues inside the rectum are very sesceptible to damage and the subsquent bleeding can transmit diseases.

yah that's not really an option right now. thanks tho

Alright where to start. I was dating this guy brian and we broke up. But he introduced me to a guy Evan that would be moving here at the start of the next school year. So we started talking on the phone *btw i was dating a guy jack at the time*. Ne way, he got really into me and confessed his feelings for me over the phone, and asked if i had any feelings for him. I said no (only because I was dating Jack and Jack had profound dislike for evan so if Jack ever found out he'd be really upset). So then the new school year started and I broke up with Jack. Evan and I got over the awkwardness and got back to being really tight. We have feelings for eachother but he said we'd make the worst couple ever. So last week he asked me if i like him on a relationship level and I told him yes, and that was the end of the conversation. Now I wanna talk about him and i hooking up but I don't know how to bring it up, and find out how he's feeling now. Any suggestions?

Oral Sex on a man that has an STD, can result in herpes, AIDS, hepatitis B, gonnorrhea, suphills, and warts. Oral Sex on a woman with an STD can result in herpes, AIDS (less risky than oral sex on a man but still possible), hepatitis B, gonorrhea, syphills, warts. To prevent the tranformation from oral sex on a man use a condom. To prevent it from oral sex on a woman use a female condom, dental dam, or saran wrap. These are risky but the most risky is if u have sex, which can result in the same thing plus pregnancy and chlamydia. Some sypmtoms of STD's are pretty common and that can be confusing. Burning sensations when you pee can be sign of a urinary tract infection or chlamydia. The potentially confusing nature of symptoms is why it's important to really familiarize yourself. Be attentive to changes, and if you notice anything suspicious don't self diagnose. Go to a doctor. Try not to feel awkward about bringing up fears of an STD with your dr. they're used to it. Testing for herpes, chlamydia, and warts is very routine and they're also bound to rules of confidentiality and won't tell anyone. If you have been tested already and know you have an STD it really is your responsiblity to tell any past and potential sex partners about your conidition. Your partner should be checked out by a doctor and treated if necessary. I suggest you both go for a checkup together. Better safe than sorry.