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FinchRUs666

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  1. no.... probably not this soon.... but if you feel that your ready then go for it... as well, but if he breaks up with you then i dunno.... i suggest not to rush in to this type of thing... but as well how old are you 2????? maybe i may just be being picky.... but i still suggest its to soon.... I may just being picky, but only 2 1/2 months....... its hard to tell
  2. GO FOR IT, dosnt matter what your friends think, matters what you think, dont give it a shot, completely go for it if u think its right
  3. yes its normal, its called puberty man... and most guys always wake up with erections... its just a part of life...
  4. Her friend might just be trying to make you jealous.... i suggest confronting her on how she feels about you, you sound like you have been trying to treat her well, but this other guy treats her like a "princess" maybe the guy isnt real? im not quite sure, or he may be trying to put up a competition....
  5. He most likely does want to get back together with you and try it out again... you may have fought but as well he may miss you now, more than ever... such as the quote "you never know you love someone until there gone" that may be the case with him, he may love you and longing for you in his arms again more than ever... he may also want you to see that he does still truley love you and wants to be with you.... he may wish to sow you that he is not the same as he used to be... the fights are fights, but loosing someone youve cared deeply for is one of the hardest thing anyone can have, if you still feel towards him i suggest giving him another chance if u will, and if not let him down easy... it can be very depressing finding someone that youve loved dosnt love you anymore
  6. hmmm, this is very challenging... maybe theres jus tnothing to talk about? But also try talking about your future, or what you guys think will becom of you in 20 years, or maybe theres no spark of interest in your guys's relationship anymore... you could try to talk about current events or something other than yourselves, such as what happened on the news or so on, so forth.... i dont know this is a hard question to answer... just try to think about it...
  7. hmmmmm, this is a hard question.... well try to talk to him... see how hes feeling... maybe talk to him more and wait awhile longer.... see what goes on... try telling him how you feel mabe, and see what he says in return... this is one of the hardest questions i've answered yes.... if he was giving you compliments, he may be also flirting as well... from what it sounds like he does like you... so the only thing i cna suggest is to go for it...
  8. well qtpie, it does sound like an infatuation to be honest.... yes it may hurt but it as well will make you stronger in the end... there is probably allot going on with you right now and you cant take... try conforting him and telling him how you feel... try to see whats going on in his life... if he will only date you for you to ahve sex with him then thats not and option.... i suggest not to do it... but also if you both do really love one another then you wont have a problem talking to him about any of this.... yes its hard at time to try to talk but in the end it will be well worth the work.... take it from me... im truley sorry for what your going through... and im here to help you or anyone with a problem.... but show him you care, that you do truley care, show him your willing to give up anything.... and if he still thinks the same way then he is not worth your stress...
  9. im just gonna agree with S4il on thus ibe, couldnt have said it any better
  10. she may have had allot on her mind, sometimes people just walk and zone out when they are depressed, trust me on this i ended up 5 miles away from my house one time in a place i had no idea where i was, so it may not have been her fault... she may have had a serious problem right before...
  11. she may have had allot on her mind, sometimes people just walk and zone out when they are depressed, trust me on this i ended up 5 miles away from my house one time in a place i had no idea where i was, so it may not have been her fault... she may have had a serious problem right before...
  12. yes it is sexual abuse, she may have went along with it, but thats only because she fealt intimidated.... she may have no wanted to be hit again.... but yes of course it was sexual abuse, recommend to her that she talks to her mother about it, so then her mother will talk to his mother, then so on so forth, what he is doing is a form of stalking, not majorly, but yes it is a form of stalking... try to see what you can do, if i think of anything else i will reply again
  13. more than likely have a nice chat with him.... tell him how you feel and why you do not wish for him to do this... yes this is tough but its never right to violate someones privacy, he may not have meant anything by it, but yes i still agree it was wrong... talk to him and make sure he does know how u feel, and see if u can get him to stop
  14. push him off the bed make sure hes not near you.... and also get a new room mate or switch rooms, try notifying someone about it as well
  15. truthfully do not trust him..... this may lead to further things such as rape, also make sure your not with him alone... and if u ware make sure its where your friends or family can see you.... no one has any right to do that to anyone... truthfully i wouldnt trust him.... and im sure he wasnt meaning to be complimentive about but he was just being horny, and a perv.... all i know is he needs tog et over himself and needs to stop harassing yourself... and im here if u need to talk more
  16. confront the police immediately, what he is doing to you can also be known as rape.... try to see what they can do, and make sure that he stays away from you... if you need to castrate him for it is not worth the pain... he dosnt have any right to treat you like that, its just wrong.... you need to stay away from this guy... it will just keep getting worse, im always here if you need help... message me and i'll see what i can do
  17. love.... such a strong yet meaning ful word... one does not know when they are in true love until it actually hits them, until its to late and that special person is gone... i suggest you really do try talking to her in person... make things work out for the better... look at it in a different perspective... dont just ignore her now... things in the future may change, but most of all dont lie to yourself... if u really did hate her you would not have turned to us for help with her... i know how you feel my friend... these situations can be hard, always keep your head up and look for the positives... see how things go out... if she dosnt love you then shes not the one... but you ahve to find out if she does or not... this all can be very hard... but never neglect the fact that you never actually found the truth, and always ask why.... take my advice and just try talking to her in person.... no dont change jobs that will make it worse.... if u need anymore help im here....
  18. hmmmm, well try to do something drastic, dont say you've gotten over her if you havnt, try telling the truth..... the truth is the most important thing, try something such as romeo and juliet? just show her you do still care and you do still want to be friends, dont make lies for that may only lead to more problems, at some times yes the truth may be hard, but the truth is also the only way out, trust me on this one i learned it the hard way and i dont want anyone else to make the same mistake i did
  19. hmmm, this ones more complicated... seems as if he is jealous and trying to get at you, he may think that this is annoying you and makeing you a little jealous, so i'd say tell him how you really feel and what you are thinking before the whole thing still continues, yes he does sound rather phycopathetic-ish, but it may just mean thats he;s being jealous, and cant get over himself.... and he most likely knows that your best friend will be telling you all of this stuff, and he may have also planned for it to happen, sounds likes hes really really trying to get to you, and make you feel like you meant nothing to him at all, but thats just the way some people are, they can at stupid, hell most off the time they do, so i say just ignore thats plee he may be trying to get to you with, and im here if you wish further advice.
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