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  1. jack79
    Tell your x that u met this girl and are not talking to her yet because you still feel for her and in love with her if she says that I love you too then gr8 … Otherwise dump her and take out the new girl life is waaay to short
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    Why are people so fake , I mean you meet someone get along gr8 and then suddenly poof there like ignoring you , jumping into the bushes and stuff serious I would cry about it if I dindt find it funny how Fake people are …I mean fake man like no soul and stuff Ive seen enough of it that its convinced me never to get to close or friendly with someone casue I was a real friendly person and people would just playing games , like with my feelings and stuff and now I am sick of it I mean I am financially very well off and goood education and bringing up ..but when it comes to meeting good people why do I run into the fake ones .. Why are they so fake ughh..
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    Hi Laura well I feel if I was in his place I would well react the way he has because when a guy becomes monetarily dependent on his girlfriend well, it tends to make us guys feel real insecure. I’ve gone through this my x gf was earning more than me and although we used to go out and I would always pay , I always felt insecure that I couldn’t give her things or show her a good time which hse could afford , and this would leave me feeling very empty and it hurt my self-esteem a lot … My gf loved me a lot but I needed a lot of assurance… for example if we went out and even if we had a good time I needed her to tell me that she had a good time or I would feel really dejected . See its not you, like it wasn’t my x its just the way we guys are specially when we are in love ….we want the best for are mate and cant stand to be looked after monetarily. I mean of course exceptions are always there. I would suggest build up his ego and esteem …you could do this by telling him how much you appreciate and love him for various things besides money. How he completes you and how you are happy being with him and that sooner then later he will be better of financially. I hope I helped
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    Yeah i can relate to this the emptyness is more than wider and deeper then the Grand Canyon Been over 6 Months , the feeling still comes back to haunt me time and again it just aint easy .. feels like i am going to throw up or smthing . The loneliness is just killing i mean how long do i got to wait to click with someone again ..isnt there anyone? I think this feeling is so Universal that they should make a club or smthing for it where all people suffering can meet and just find someone I hate this feeling ...its so sickning ...
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    I am studying in the uk and I am a pretty outgoing person caring and very sensitive to emotions mine and people I care about. The thing is that I am looking for similar kind of people, so I always go meet people with a smile and looking to meet friends, I was going out earlier this year with my girl friend and then we broke of because of the distance, well now I am desperately trying to date other women but the break up has affected my self esteem pretty badly, its been about 6 months now , I mean I am not a bad looking guy or anything and I am studying law so I am pretty bright , but I am now very scared of rejection because I went through a severe depression , but I am also lonely and well a little scared …the thing is that I was very happy before the break up and now though I am alright I think I am ready to move on , so can you guys advise me as to how I can meet new people… Do dating sites really work? If I smile at a girl and she smiles back should I go upto her and say Hi even though we have never met before? If a girl comes accross and remarks hey you are looking nice… does it mean she is interested would It be okay to ask her for her phone no? How would you approach a girl you found attractive to start a conversation.? Sorry about all the questions ..its that I want to be prepared before I go to battle lol.. Any advice would be appreciated thanks
  6. jack79
    She absolutely like you no question about it ,KISS her FOOL
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    She dosent like you, infact I am pretty sure she is in lov e with you , If she touches your hand and keeps staring at you, I know this because this is what my gf used to do before I went out with her, touching hands and playing with them same thing ..she used to grab my hand keep playing with it ..it’s a sign of fondness and affection
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    HI, Firstly he likes you definitely , guys dont keep staring at a girl otherwise if they dump them a year ago when u meet him be casual ask him hows he been and discuss something general like the weather or movies etc... see how he reacts then if he becomes interested like responds enthiusiastically or tries to make the conversation grow .. then tell him that u guys should meet up more often take it from there but personally i think he really likes you let me know what happens.
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    Thanks Sabena for your help . So in the future if a girl remarks hey ur cute .. I should take it as a positive sign and ask her out , maybe for a casual date as a friend .. so that should be alright yeah
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    Go for it but how I mean , do I ask her out for coffee.. what if she is shy to but interested in me .. then what ? Cause I am really shy and apprehensive .. I don’t like to pursue people , I don’t even react much when a girl tries to make conversation , they give me there phone nos but I don’t call because I keep thinking about it ….i mean the point of going out to clubs and dressing smartly is to attract women …my problem is that I attract them not always but sometimes , then I don’t know what to do L..i am like a lost turkey. I mean I know some guys who are rude dress , shabbily but they got girlfriends .. while I can get girls to look at me.. but them I am totally out of steam
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    every girl I meet and have any kind of relationship with …I have only got to hear that ur a special guy and ur very cute .. What does very cute mean ? are they saying I am ugly .. because I don’t think I am good looking , although a few people have commented to me that u must be meeting a lot of girls … but I am really shy .only had 1 gf all my life … I have tried to improve my self like I make a conscious effort to dress smartly , the trouble is that even when I go to a club, I see 2 girls dancing and there staring at me while smiling and laughing , there looking at me I can sense that but I don’t know what to do , like how to go over …I get scared… I like to smile a lot like while walking down the street and stuff I smile at everybody …and the thing is more often then not girls smile back ..and I think how do I get to know them …ughhh …I am just plain scared .. My only girlfriend thought that I would forget her fast …I feel I give the impression I have a lot of girlfriends or everybody seems to think so ..except I know I don’t… Like I saw this girl in my tutorial and when I entered she smiled at me..i had never seen her before in my life ..but I smiled back …then I dint know what to do …. When a girl smiles at you does it mean she likes you …even though u have never met before…I am really shy and a sensitive person. but I would like to date and go to movies etc. I mean time and again , I find someone who is attracted to me but I am scared of making the first move…but I do want to meet girls
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    i can totally understand what ure going through.. i am friends with my x and even after 7 mnths its not easy. i still have feelings for her ... now i talk to her occasionaly its a hard enough job getting over somebody .. but i realised i would never get over her unless i stop contacting her or talking to her . infact i didnt call her for 3mnths and she called up one day ..to ask why i hadnt called her and again asked me to stay in touch .. my advise is do what i do talk to her but once in a while .. good luck
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    i cant imagine the hurt ure going through, i went out only for 4 mnths or so ..was really depressed when we broke up. My advise to you would be .. to talk to her confront her i mean no point just waiting ull go totally nuts . tell her how you feel and ask her why she is doing this to you , i mean if she really loves you she shouldnt be hurting you. u can also ask her mom if she has spoken to her about you , she should be able to give u some idea as to how she feels. Good luck and i hope everything works out.. do post again ill be here willing to help
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    Hi i met this girl online and we became pretty good friends , and found that we had a lot in common . we dont live close , but i thought the next step would be to talk to her on the phone ..she responded by saying she was shy .. so i let it go for a while then we kept talking and ..well we became even closer ...like she said that she got a warm feeling talking to me and missed me ..well i told her that i felt the same way a special connection with her, so i gave her my no and she said she would call me after i convinced her that ..if we ever wanted to meet we should atleast talk on the phone first i mean whats the big deal?..she said she would call even asked me the time ..but never did ..i had icq in the office but its banned now ..this happened today ..i can see her online on the website and sent her a msg telling her this ... i mean what should i do now , she didnt call ?? she said she really cared about me but what can i think now ? how should i handle this ? i was thinking of writing her a emaill but what should i write ? i mean i do feel for her and i am a senstive person ..is she lying to me when she says she cares, i mean she shows it in the stuff she writes but how come she didnt call ? its driving me bonkers, pls advice
  15. jack79
    I think she likes u because no girl stares at a guy unless she is interested ..well almost no girl execeptions are there but rare ... she wants to help u socialize, she says that ur interesting even though u think ur boring ..i think u should talk to her maybe start slow by asking her to a cup of coffee or just go for a walk...then tell her that when i am with u i feel gr8...then see how she responds ...if she says so do i ..then move on and tell her that u think shes real special to you in so many ways ...THE thing is that if U LIKE HER THEN TELL HER HOW U FEEL ...DONT WAIT ! I know the confidence part is hard ...because even i am real shy guy myself but ..after i met my first girlfriend things became better ..u only learn from experience...so go for it!
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    I think i am in a miserable state, i was friends with my x and then i just couldnt hold the feelings back and sent her a card , she moved to a different place so we only chatted on the net , cause were both working ..after she saw the card yesterday she hasant come online , it was just a simple card saying how i thought she was really special ... now i have a feeling that she is avoiding me ...i am such an idiot to send the card ..she didnt even write or leave a msg on icq mentioning anything about the card ...i think ive made a mistake and even lost out on her friendship ...any idea what could be going on in her head... i am not a bad guy or anything and shes told me that i am really special to her but then when i show it ...she moves away ...now i feel sick to the stomach and i am getting a nauseating feeling .........what should i do ?? i think about her a lot and just cant get her out of my head . ..is being a caring and senstive person a bad thing ..
  17. jack79
    Hey u be careful cause i had the same condition ur describing its called BIOPOLAR SYNDROME .....its a kind of depression that makes people HYPER ACTIVE THEY DONT GO TO SLEEP AND YET ARE VERY ACTIVE ....I HAD IT ABOUT 5 MNTHS BACK WHEN I BROKE UP WITH MY GF ..I ACTUALLY WENT TO THE HOSPITAL AND WAS DOWN FOR 3 MNTHS ....BECAUSE I NEVER KNEW WHAT WAS HAPPENINF ITS BASICALLY A SLOW BREAK DOWN AND IMBALANCE OF THE NERVOUS SYSTEM ......I CAN SUGGEST THAT U IMMEDIATELY SEE A DOCTOR ..IF U CATCH ITIN THE EARLIER STAGE ULL PROABLY AVOID THE NERVOUS BREAKDOWN .... GET MOVING TODAY !! ..I HOPE I HELPED YOU ..I AM TALKING FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE ...THIS CONDITION IS VERY DANGEROUS ..
  18. jack79
    Hi i am a 24yr old guy many people have told me that i am attractive looking , but i am extremly shy and senstive person ..i believe that i am nuthing to look at and always keep finding things wrong with myself...even when a girl approaches me and takes the intiative i just feel that i am not good enough ..i did make a gf earlier this year because she realised that i was shy so she literally made me go out with her ..it was really nice and was the best thing that has ever happened to me... then she went away we broke up becasue she was shifting to another place ...i went through severe depression for 3 mnths ...now when ever i think of her i get depressed and long to be with another girl ..but i am real scared of rejection and not doing the right thing ..but i relly want to get into a realtionship or friendship really ...but i dont know what to do ..i am so depressed half the time that i feel i am heading for a nervous breakdown ..i am really a caring guy but i cant be assertive i get real nervous ..is there something wrong with me ?
  19. jack79
    U shouldnt think so much about what could happen live in the present u are doing gr8 and have a gr8 life . Dont worry about what could happen becuse its not in your hands , when we think negative we generally make a good situation turn bad SO be POSITIVE IN UR THINKING REMEMBER U CANT HELP THE FUTURE BY A NEGATIVE THOUGHT PROCESS ...SO TAKE IT EASY
  20. jack79
    I found the perfect girl on the net i mean i feel shes my soul mate, but shes in australia and i am in england ...i feel she likes me to , and we have a lot in common..but i dont know what to do like how do i handle it ? any advise would be helpful thanks
  21. jack79
    Hey first of all dont worry about her forgetting you , thats not going to happen, if u friends with her for 6 mnths she obviously knows you well, i would suggest that let ur emotins do the talking, if u want to be with her then GO Get her . Dont give her time to think about it right now , get urself to her place with flowers and choclates , make it clear that ure serious about her. Dont WAIT FOR THINGS TO HAPPEN , IF U WANT HER THE BOTTOM LINE IS GO GET HER! sometimes waiting is good , but not here ure not a stranger , personally i feel she will dump the other guy for u , cause she did want to go out with u , best of luck
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