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  1. Ash
    Not that I know of (working out that is). I've known several women who have had reduction surgeries.
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    I'll go for the predicable ... in a plane. And in a canoe. Hey ... I am Canadian after all!
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    Is it possible there is nothing wrong at all and this is just a more volumous discharge that can occur with some women at certan times of the month? I had a partner once that at some point in her cycle would have a slight discharge of relatively thick white fluid. There was nothing wrong and it only occurred for three or four days. I think it may have been close to when she ovulated but I'm not sure. Anyway, seeing your obgyn is certainly the right way to go.
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    Ummm ... kinda don't like to mention this, but you said you don't have a new sex partner. However, if you have an existing sex partner and they have been with somebody else that is a potential problem. In other words, there's still a remote possibility of an STI. Sorry. Let's hope that's not what it is.
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    How can you be sure you don't have any infections? This may be a different manifestation of an infection. Perhaps you've been taking medication to treat something else and that's why you believe you're infection free. In that case, could it be a side effect of medication? Certainly though, and especially since it's causing discomfort, do see a doctor.
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    It all sounds rather unpleasant. He's certainly not being at all nice about it. Even if he wants them for his own use I would have hoped he'd have the decency to surrender them when you discussed it. You know him better than us, do you think he'll do anything else with them?
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    I think there's a fine line somewhere here to do with rights and ownership of the video footage. I'm about as far from a lawyer as I can be, but I suspect there was an implicit (and perhaps even explicit) undertanding that the video was just for the usage (enjoyment??) of the two people involved. I'm not convinced he would be legally correct in being allowed to distribute without her consent, and further I'm not sure that she can't formally ask to have them destroyed. Consider the Barbardo tapes and the fact that the person making them did NOT have the rights to do with them as they pleased. I realize that's an entirely different thing though. Still, I suspect unless Little Penguin actually granted him full rights to the tapes he's not actually free to do whatever he wants with them. There's also this difficulty aboug break and enter. Again, she likely had either implicit (or explicit) rights to come and go from his home as she wanted. Unless specifically forbidden I don't know if it would be considered break and enter. Again, I'm not a laywer, but perhaps more things to think about.
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    Thanks for the update. Sounds like you have things fairly well in hand. Hopefully the message is starting to sink in. I suspect the eye-roll on his part means he thinks there's little chance of movie part. I hope he's proven wrong. Best of luck with that by the way! Either way, you could always let it be known to him that you have made "new friends" in the process of auditions etc. That might help keep him at arms length.
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    I tend to agree with the other posters, get your hands on those tapes by whatever means necessary otherwise there's no telling what he'll do with them. The least of your worries is his next gf seeing them.
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    You can't stop loving a person, all you can do is let time take some of the sting out of it. You will move on, you'll be able to think past this again somebody. One thing you will find is that it won't prevent you from loving somebody else. When the right person comes along you'll love them just as much (perhaps more, who knows) than this person you've just recently let go. Still loving her now doesn't prevent another love in the future. NC is the best way to go, seeing her again just makes the feelings surface. Eventually it won't happen in quite the same way.
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    Best you can do at present is take it somewhat on faith that the HR director is serious in saying the new hire will have other projects to work on and assume that is the case. Just because you think she has more creativity doesn't mean she actually does. You won't know until she's been there for a while. This type of hiring is not particularly uncommon in business. Try not to start off on the wrong foot. I'm unclear on the 50 hours per week and how it relates to your house purchase and overtime pay. Are you saying you financed your house based on an expected income including overtime for a total paycheck based on a 50 hour week? Is so that's always a bit dangerous as continued overtime shouldn't be considered a given. What is your present supervisor's thinking on the company website? Maybe this is something you should address with her/him before the new hire arrives so you can find out if management has any concerns.
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    It's different for everyone. Some can't bear to be touched there at all because it's overly sensitive. My partner likes it when my fingers are slippery.
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    It's not common to only remain hard a few minutes at a time although it you're young it tends to be quite a few minutes. It's likely anxiety that's causing it. Is this different than where you're on your own? If/when you masturbate, how long do you stay erect? As for her anatomy, look up one of the decent sites on the web and see where things are located. The part you're looking for is up higher in that area. Be gentle and don't poke around at it or be at all rough until you know from her what she likes. At this point though it seems like everything is new so don't worry about new ways to please. Life is long, there's plenty of time to learn and get better at it.
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    Urine kills sperm. Precum flushes out the urine so it isn't there to kill the sperm anymore.
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    My understanding is that when released internally (from the Cowper's gland I believe) precum contains no sperm. However, it can pick up sprem on the way out if there is any remaining there from a previous ejaculation. Sperm can live in the body for several hours, possibly a couple of days. The acidity in urine does kill off sperm. So, pretty much all of what you wrote is true. If you haven't orgasmed for a week and gone pee many times the odds of sprem in precum is extremely low. If you orgasmed since you last urinated there is a very high chance of sprem being present. Getting pregnant is sometimes all about odds, and you know how that goes ... no matter how small a chance, once in a while you'll "beat" the odds. No matter how great a chance, once in a while you'll "miss". There is quite a slim possibility (if any at all) in getting pregnant while rubbing together clothed before orgasming. There is a slight risk to precum outside the vagina causing pregnancy (provided the conditions for having sperm in precum as discussed about are met) but I'd think it extremely slight as well provided the wetness left didn't make it inside (for example on a finger).
  16. Ash
    Granted, it's mostly true. However, intelligence teaches us that we should try different tactics to get where we want to be. Banging our heads against a tree won't move the tree no matter how persistent we are. It requires a change in thinking and a change in tactics. Now, when a guy comes up and keeps banging away on the same thing in the same way, it's not saying a whole lot for either intelligence in the first place. No, I don't really think you can blame this one on evolution. I think this one is an obsession in the making. If this guy was smart, he'd back off and do things differently.
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    Perhaps bypass the whole potty part and go directly to a toddler toilet seat that attaches to your normal toilet seat. Then hopefully flushing becomes part of the "ritual". (He may be a bit young, depends on the child really). My kids went this route and we never actually used a potty. The girls were toilet trained quite early so it's a feasible approach.
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    I'm with BellaDonna on this. He'll likely keep trying to get closer, and he may start to get more and more upset when he can't. There's a likelihood he'll try to intervene when somebody else comes along too as he already shows signs of doing. The part about crying indicates he's apparently having some deep emotionals about this regardless of whether it's being returned. If he can't remain friends on terms that suit both of you then it's best to put some distance between the two of you.
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    You have to be totally comfortable with yourself before any women are going to be. Make a hard, honest decision as to whether you are READY and WILLING to be in a relationship. Then live that way. Cutting, drinking and taking pills won't attract the type of person I suspect you're looking for. They won't help you keep a job, and they won't pay the bills. Pick one thing, work on it. Leave relationships persuit for now would be my advice. Hard hitting observation, if you want to be able to pay off some debts stay single and stay clean.
  20. Ash
    Some months ago you said you were seeing a doctor and were on anti-depressants. What happened?
  21. Ash
    I guess it depends on what is wrong. I've never walked out feeling immediately better, but generally have noticably improved the next day. On a few occasions I was actually worse for a day or two. It all depends on how your muscles react to the adjustment. If your spine was out of alignment from neck down to hips it can take several adjustments to get things back in shape. I wonder if it's like trying to level up an old house, if you try to do it all at once you're going to end up with broken walls. Do it a bit at a time over a long time period and things shft back into place with much less stress.
  22. Ash
    Actually ... more male posters than female!! Look at the avatars (though some of the ladies posted more than once). I guess that means perhaps your view on what a daddy brings to the family may not match what the rest of us seem to think. Careful with those generalizations about how men and women are, some may take exception. Are you suggesting that men need to not show the same depth and quantity of love than a woman does? I don't agree with that sentiment. I think it's equally as important that dad shows love as well. Some woman are loving and accepting, some aren't. Same for men. Not sure if you can draw a dividing line between the two sexes on this. If you're saing kids need to be toughened up to face the real world then I agree. This can be done at the same time as heaping love on them and need not be a role fulfilled only by a dad.
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    Could be that you're compensating by using muscles under your ribs to counter something else that's out of alignment. But I'm not a chiro or a doctor, so I can't really say that! Part of how often you go depends on how you hold adjustments, and how far out of alignment you are. I'd hope that he's telling the truth when he told you about being off centre. The stretches and exercise won't help if your muscles are constantly under strain trying to counteract something. In fact, it's possible they make it worse depending on exactly what is wrong. I go twice a week right now, it works for me. Like any other medical situation though, if at all unsure, get a second opinion, meaning see a different chiro. Perhaps even think about asking your doctor if he can recommend one. Even if not all for it (some doctors aren't) he/she might have a suggestion.
  25. Ash
    I've been going to a chiro for a couple of months now and it's helping a great deal. I pay about $35 a visit, twice a week currently, soon to drop to once a week. I get no coverage at all through insurance. I think they do work if you let them manipulate and adjust you and do whatever exercises and stretches they give you. I've definitely been helped and it can feel that my back is in better shape and I'm slowly becoming more flexible again as things loosen up. What I will say is that it is very important to get a chiro that you are totally comfortable with otherwise you will fight the adjustments. I went to one at first who I didn't like, went to one many years ago I didn't like and just recently found one I really do like. These people are pushing around parts of your body that might not want to move easily and might hurt a tad the first few times so really make sure they are somebody you are fully comfortable with. It's also helps them a great deal if you can report exactly when and where pain is, and help interpret what's going on up and down your spine so having a comfortable raport is very handy.
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