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JadedStar

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  1. Well in that case far be it from me to interfere. If she truly isn't giving the entire side of the story then it is only hurting her, because the responses won't be very helpful or applicable. You see, when someone looks for help here it only helps them if they are honest with us and themselves. If they get a ton of great feedback based on only half truths then it is them who suffers because the advice won't be applicable.
  2. Candytruth do you personally know the OP? Is that what this is about? I am sure i won't be the only one confused. I do agree with you that a person can only truly get help for a situation when BOTH sides of the story are clearly painted....however, this thread is six years old. Unless you know the OP personally and are hurt by what she said because it involves you, we can't figure out why you would want to write this post on this thread.
  3. absolutely. and since most people cheat (according to many surveys) wtih people who would be considered less attractive than their partners that tells me that cheating is almost always more emotional than physical. If it were mere physical they'd probably be finding better looking sex partners. I think emotional connection, or lack of, is far more a reason most people cheat than physical dissatisfaction in the sack.
  4. Word. LOL Paying money to look at them in a store makes it sound like one is treating them like a stripper, and I don't think a convenience store clerk or a retail clerk deserves to be treated like that if they don't choose to be gawked at for a living. She could make a hell of a lot more money twirling on a pole, since she chose NOT to do that and make a lot less she shouldn't have to be gawked at by some creepy regular coming in salivating everyday at noon.
  5. Go to a dermatoligist. There are a lot of different types of acne and without knowing more I couldn't recommend much of anything. If it is severe and really acne then accutane is probably the only thing that will work. If it is not acne, but you have acne pimples, then GENTLE cleansing daily and something like benzoyl peroxide might work. Less severe acne Retin-A is good. See how it really depends? Antibiotics do nothing for someone with acne pimples but not true acne. And someone with real acne will be largely unaffected by their diet. They are going to get pimples whether they eat healthy or fatty foods, etc. It won't matter much.
  6. ToV, i am very sorry for your pain right now, I don't even know what to say that might adequately convey my sorrow for what you are feeling, but like Melrich i wanted to also say that was very very well written and you definitely have a gift for prose and poetry. I also think you should submit this somewhere for professional feedback. I thought at first you had copied this from someplace else, then I realized it was your own original work. I am very sorry again for what you are going thru.
  7. How do you know they aren't? If they have gingivitis or progressed gum disease brushing one's teeth can't get rid of odor. I wuold say they are brushing their teeth and just have ginigivits or something. Some people have bad breath that has nothing to do with how much they brush.
  8. ANd don't get me wrong, i dont mean a curvy woman has to have a "hard" body with big boobs and small waist. I think a curvy woman who is softer but not out of shape is the best body type as far as sexy goes. But many women of all shapes and sizes can be sexy without being curvy. It is a lot of times how they carry themselves, and dress, confidence levels, etc.
  9. Hail damage? OMG is this a term for cellulite! How horrible! LOL You guys! I agree with those who said curvy is a subjective term. I am female so i shouldn't be weighing in since it is a questino for the guys but i have noticed that a lot of women who coin themselves as curvy are really just overweight. Curvy to me means a physically fit woman with a nice chest, small waist and ample hips. That is curvy.
  10. It depends. When i was younger i had to wash mine everyday as it wuold get oily so fast. Now i do it every other day. Twice a day is WAY too much no matter if you have oily scalp or not. I think a good rule of thumb is every other day. People with very dry hair can get away with less than that.
  11. LOL this is not a competition but thanks for the rhymes. I just come here to help if i can and hang out with some of my ena homies.
  12. I'm still waiting for my "twinkle twinkle jadestar" poem.
  13. midnight cried? aww. there is a softer side to midnight...
  14. Gotta give annie her props for this post because it says it all. Yes, the poor husband syndrome is the biggest excuse in the book. I seriously doubt she even cheated on him. Maybe you should ring her up. I especially like what annie said about your girlfriends being leary with you around their b/f's. Even tho you may know you wouldn't do that the fact that you have carried on as a married man's mistress for three years has destroyed your credibility. NOt many women want to even be AROUND a woman like that. EDIT: Just realized this was an old thread! If the OP comes back i hope she can tell us she broke it off and if others are going thru something similar and finds it i hope this can help!
  15. Know, saying it is worse does not justify smoking cigarettes. I am not sure anyone said it did. The point was there are no concrete facts supporting it is less harmful.
  16. Wrong. My ex brother in law got lung cancer and never smoked a cigarette a day in his life. But guess what? He was a chronic pot smoker. If i know a firsthand example in my travels alone you can bet there are many more out there. It is just not as advertised because most people who do get it are not on Nightline saying "hey i smoke an illegal drug and now it gave me cancer". People are not as vocal about their pot usage as those who smoke cigarettes because cigarettes are legal. NOt as many want to admit to anyone, not even their doctor, that they are using illegal drugs, thus rendering public stats skewed and not very useful.
  17. Absolutely. That is the main reason you see more cigarette smokers develop lung cancer than pot smokers because of the frequency. I think you'd be hard pressed to find a person who smokes over 20 joints a day eveyday but that is commonplace for a smoker.
  18. IN excess neither of them are good for you and probably equally harmful just in different ways. Occasional use of either i do not think will have lasting harmful effects but overuse of either certainly will.
  19. midnight........hmm. this is the longest post of yours ever on ena. high caliber. jaded seconds ToV. Be leary of the magic tho.
  20. So i guess now or very soon i will have to present my driver's license to buy Nyquil as well. Already have to do that to get my sudafed.
  21. Like portage said you start it and we'll critique. Evilken just be sure she isn't a young girl posing as 18. You don't need the headache. she looks VERY young.
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