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  1. Brooke657
    All I can say is it's high school, never take anything to seriously.
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    I get what your saying but I just really think there are other ways, even if that is your situation. I don't think anyone is ever "left for dead" when they get dumped I think that's a bit extreme but maybe you were just exagerating. It really bothers me when people on this site talk like a break up is the end of the world. There are soooo many worse things and if they're talking like a break up is the end of the world they obviously haven't been through a whole lot. They need to carry themselves with some dignity. When people do post those kind of threads the answer is like NC NC NC. Maybe I am being insensitive but I really don't feel bad for these people who feel sorry for themselves and cling to "NC" as the only answer. Sure it hurts to talk to them or see them but you just have to suck it up to some extent. The rest, is what your friends are there for. People are resilient, they can come back from anything. I just really don't see how NC is any way to deal with a situation. It may be helpful for a few days but it's not really a permanent solution.
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    Everybody makes mistakes when they're young. Some happen to be bigger then others. It sucks that a mistake you made when you were so young has carryed on for so long. I think that you should definatly see a therapist because this sounds like somthing you haven't been able to deal with alone.
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    Well the people on this site who live by "NC" are incredibly annoying...not saying you live by it or anything. I think it could be helpful in some situations but definatly not all. Alot of these people think it's the only way to do it. It's not.
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    Maybe I should feel really bad for this guy but I don't. I don't feel bad for people who commit suicide I just don't. My brother commited sucide last May and I'm more angry then sad. Suicide is so incredibly selfish. People who commit suicide clearly don't think about the effect it's going to have on the people that care about them. I feel really bad for that guy's wife.
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    That sounds like a great opportunity. You have a chance to reinvent yourself now. I think you'll definatly make new friends.
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    lol in my expirence only my gay guy friends say stuff like that to me. There's only one of my straight guy friends who I'd ever let talk to me like that because I know he doesn't mean it in a weird way. If the girl has a boyfriend I think it's inappropriate to talk to her like that.
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    If your quiet to an extreme point maybe you should try putting your self out there. If your just shy maybe she needs to get over it and realize it's who you are. If it's really bothering you then maybe you should comment on her loudness like dako said. I can see how she would want you to be more outgoing but she can't force it. Maybe if you tried even just being more confident and outgoing just around her, not even around other people, she'd feel better about it. You have to communicate with her in conversations because she probably feels like she's talking to a wall, no offense to you or anything because I get where your both coming from.
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    OMG. Dude your 30...get over it! Clearly you have some issues, therapy could help. You sound like your holding onto things that happened a realllllly long time ago...maybe it's time to let some of those things go. Sorry if I sound like I'm being unsympathetic but holding onto everything bad that's ever happened to you is just not normal. If people took everything that's ever happened and held grudges their entire lives most people would be miserable and somehow they aren't. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and either move on or get help.
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    I think your being unreasonable. Breaking up with him over only a couple days of the year. If you said you were getting him something small for Christamas he probably got the impression it wasn't a big deal. No Valentines present....so what. If things are good the rest of the time then focus on that, not on the 2 days he screws up. You should definatly talk to him though and explain what your expectations are for presents and stuff. Decide if you guys are even going to exchange gifts.
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    I definatly couldn't I love TV, movies, magazine, the internet. I like knowing what's going on.
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    I think "NC" is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard. I think it's really immature. Once it's over it's over so get over it. Having No Contact with someone will only make it harder once you have to see them again. I think some people on here just need to grow up a little and realize that if you want a civil relationship with an ex you're gonna have to get over yourself, stop avoiding them and talk to them.
  13. Brooke657
    Yeah, Valentines Day could also be the reason.
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    lol no you cant
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    well that makes more sense then
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    You know I'm on the other side of this right now. It's really not that I want him out of my life but I know I can't be with someone right now. He might just need some time to be alone. Give him that. He'll either realize that he made a mistake and he'll come back or he'll realize it's exactly what he needed. If you do love you'll give him space to figure this out for himself even if it's hard for you.
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    Thanks. I've read some breakups on this site and basically I've learned what not to do lol. I just hope it's relativly drama free. I really hate it when people make a huge scene in public lol.
  18. Brooke657
    I think some people make it more dramatic then it needs to be. I'm not trying to be unsypmathetic but they really need to just get over and move on. Sitting around feeling sorry for themselves and posting threads on here isn't going to make them feel any better. Some breakups are harder then others but some people on here have been like I dated him for a month and I love him and we broke up. You don't fall in love with someone in that short of time. I think some of them (not all) just need to grow up.
  19. Brooke657
    Ok, I'm not getting this. "NC" is kinda weird. Come on be a little more mature then that. You should be able to at least be civil and say hi to them if you see them around or something. Hope I didn't offend anyone.
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    I definatly get that a friendship might not be there and it probably won't be there right away if it's going to be but I know I'm gonna want that. So I guess I'll just have to try not to force it but that's gonna be hard because we do everything together. I'm around him so much and I talk to him so much it's gonna be weird just all of a sudden not having him there.
  21. Brooke657
    Yeah I know it was definatly wrong of him to cheat on me because it's like no matter what the situation it's still wrong but I do understand why he would do it. I know that he's tried and I know I've been distant but that's not an excuse. That's just why I guess I'm not really like angry or freaking out or anything. It definatly is weird though too. Because I don't know what it'll be like to be with someone else. I think maybe we've been together so long that going off to college is a good time to break up and find differnt people. I just would really like to still be friends with him because I can't imagine ever not having him as an important person in my life.
  22. Brooke657
    I really don't think it's gonna be THAT hard on me. I doubt I'll cry everyday cause that's just not me. Luckily I always have alot to do. I feel pretty good about it, it's just not working anymore and hopefully he sees that too.
  23. Brooke657
    lol it's really not that dramatic
  24. Brooke657
    My life is about to change and that's exactly why I want to resolve this now.
  25. Brooke657
    So you think they're just friends? I don't kiss my friends.
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