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Lana0120

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  1. My advice? Dump him. If he can't get over how many partners you've been with, that's his problem not yours. Don't let him bring you down and make you feel bad about yourself. Edit: very old post. Jeez.
  2. It's good. If you can write about a situation and a set of feeling you aren't feeling, it shows a lot of imagination.
  3. That's pretty good. I can almost feel like how it should be read too, very fast. It's different from some of your other work posyed on here.
  4. I think that's lovely... with the last one being particularly true.
  5. LOL. The whole P word thing is pretty random. I got a word censored the other day and I didn't think it was that bad...
  6. Nice sentiment valenski. If this has really happened to you *hugs*
  7. I thought I'd get on the bandwagon and post a poem here that I recently PMd someone else. When I look at your face, I fondly remember our last embrace. The way you smiled and took my hand, The way we discussed all of our plans. I can still hear your happy laughter, And your kiss gently after. The way your eyes stared into mine, The way they did, time after time. I can recall the feel of your hair, The way we did not have a care. It was smooth and it was fine, As I touched it then, it was mine. The face I see now is only a picture, A face on the wall, only a fixture. The smile is there, immortalised, Those beautiful, deep blue eyes.
  8. I interpret it as two people who had their own little world (the maze), but she saw it as a trap rather than their little world (most mazes are basically traps), and when she had the chance to escape, she did. The talk of an old flame... that could mean that she left the maze for an old flame, or the singer referring for back into the past to his old flame ('I never thought I'd miss you). He talks about the white mice being able to stay but that she was innocent, a Princess, and didn't belong. Suggesting that he is far from a prince, and is some kind of ogre or maybe a magician or something - but the magic must have come to an end, hence the maze broke. So, I'd say it was a relationship which started off well, had magic, but then it became a trap, and when the magic wore off, the girl left the relationship just as the commitment was becoming more serious. Her eyes were opened, as it were. His eyes were opened as well, because he took her for granted and when she was gone, he felt her absense, hence the numbness.
  9. I think, as the other posters are saying, it depends on how you do it and whether or not it gets heated. Also, whether it is something that is important or not. Also, how often you do it. If it is all the time, that would be irritating and I'd suggest bowing out at times.
  10. That's a great poem Still Hurting.
  11. Don't feel guilty, it's normal. Just as long as it doesn't affect the way you treat her and that she doesn't start completely neglecting you. I had one friend where it's like, 'I have a boyfriend, goodbye,' 'I split up with my boyfriend and need friends now, hello'. You seem like a good person and maybe you'll even meet a guy of your own now. Maybe her boyfriend has a cute friend? ;-)
  12. It's a very good poem, extremely emotive, and real, but if this reflects something that happened to you in life I am so sad to hear that.
  13. I don't think I'd date myself either for a number of reasons. Because I don't think I score well on first encounters or once people get to know me. Initially, I can get tongue-tied or I say things which people find strange, I go around with a frown a lot because I feel uncomfortable when lots of people are around. Once people get to know me I can be somewhat pushy, I call people in on their lies making a joke out of it, I'm very wrapped up in my work and I can just generally be difficult to be around.
  14. I do care about him, but I think you are right. I'm not ready for marriage just yet and we're not right for each other.
  15. As for sounding blase, maybe a little. I'm not a romantic person as such, but I do feel there comes a time when someone should show their commitment (especially when they have said that marriage is important to them too - if they say something like, don't believe in marriage, okay fair enough).
  16. I'm 22, he's 23. I never put any pressure on him. It was something we discussed every now and again and he's say stuff like he wanted to marry me but was waiting for the right time... in hindsight maybe I took everything he said completely the wrong way. We had a good relationship apart from the arguments (which were about various things but mostly about the fact that he didn't make much of an effort in our relationship - wouldn't phone me until I pushed him to, we're long distance and I was the one who was mostly going to see him).
  17. I broke up with my bf of 2 1/2 years because he had led me to believe we would get married, things he said clearly made this seem like it would happen soon, but when I asked him about it he said he wasn't ready and had no idea when he would be. We had a so-so relationship, there were lots of good things about it but we had a lot of arguments too, which I don't miss. I felt that he had misled me and that we wanted different things so felt it was best to break up. I was just interested to know if anyone else has been in this situation and well, just opinions. Thanks.
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