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Wow, I was lawyas wondering the same thing with this guy I know and like but always wondered if he liked me too why would he tell his friends other girl were hot when i was right there? That makes sense now.......... kind of, its still sort of warped, lol..

Don't waste your money on these types of things. I'm sorry if im being negative, but personally people tell me that i have fully lips. It doesn't do much, lol. If it will make you feel better about yourself then i guess do it but why would you want to become a barbie doll. In the end you're just going to have to pay more for lipstick beacause you have more area to cover.... it could put you in financial ruin! (only joking there) But anything you do do wouild be temporary and wouldn't look that great in the long run.....

I surota kinda chickened out today...... but he was really nice to me and kept making an effort to carry on the conversation and things weren't weird at all.... i guess thats a step in the right direction. I still don't know whats going on though if anything....hmm... i need to stick to my plans!

My guy friends and I were talking one day at lunch and one said that it's so great when girls ask the guy out. He, and the others who agreed, felt that it was such a sign of confidence and it was actually an attractive thing, which surprised me becasue I always took him to be the traditional type. Personally, I would love to be asked out rather then do the asking. This could have somethign to do with the fact that I'm slightly lazy though....... and scared, lol.

Oh and thank you for your input everyone. If you want to coment on "my plan", please, feel free to do so. I will tell you what happens tomorrow with my lovley plan........

Maybe everyone is right.... I think tomorrow I will talk to him when I see him and that will be the end of it. If he wants to go out then great but if he still doesn't know then maybe I should stop persuing someone that unsure. I mean if he does liek me but has a reaalllllly good reason why he hasn't asked me out yet then i'll hear him out. But if he says he has "his reasons" again then he should tell me what they are or i might write him off. I deserve to know about the things affecting my life.....

Thanks for the advice about keeping my options open. Yah he said he liked me "in that way" but he had also said before that he told me (like 30 minutes before) that it was always so hard dating someone in the same school beacsue of past relationships, frienshipds, and they way people talk.

Okay, there is this guy I like (why do allll of my posts start like this!) We were talking online (this was about 3 weeks ago) and he ended up telling me that he liked me and I told him I liked him too. After that we kind of just cotinued on with a regular conversation. So now to present time, there have been days where its been aqward and days wee its been less aquward but its still been weird. And we still haven't talked about this since that night. I guess I should mention that i've recetnley become pretty good friends with him (last 3 or 4 months). So my question is why can't we seem to talk about this? Why is he not asking me out. I know that one of his other friends likes him but when she asked him out a while ago he said no becasue he doesnt feel that way. When a mutual friend of ours was talkign to him and asked him why he hadn't asked me out yet he said he had his reasons, and said that his reason was not that he was worried abotu ruinning "our friendship". But it's not liek he can not date anyone forever for fear of hurting his friend? I was also thinking maybe not to persue this anymore because I am an aquaintacne with his friend who likes him and I don't want her to hate me becasue we get along prety well. I don't know what I should do........ Thanks for any perspectives you might have.

Don't put much though into it. The same thing happened to me when I was writing a blog about how I was cofused with what I want for my friends during a break becasue I knew they would check it but we we're all scattered an kinda on vacation. Sometimes people just like checking up on people from their past and seeing what they're up to now. Oh well, I just ignored it and nothign has ever been mentioned of it again.

Did you say anything about just wanting to stay friends with her?

I think it means you respect her and her wishes so much that you can't even begin to think about something that might upset her in any way. I think it's cute.....

long... let it grow out a tad more.... but guys are lucky, when they want their hair to be "long" they just have to wait a couple of months for it to grow back... for girls its nearly years

I love these things too! I would not mind having more of these on this board *hint, hint* Lol, and sorry in advance for the spelling... Age:16 Gender 1. How many relationships have you had? 2...esque 2. How many times have you been in love? none 3. How long was your longest relationship? What went wrong in the relationship? lol 2 weeks we thought we could cross the line from friendship to dating....it turns out we were jsut really close friends but didnt liek eachother in "that way" 4. How short was your shortest relationship? What went wrong in the relationship? again like 2 weeks..... vacation thing and long distance afterwards didn't go on for that long becasue we weren't all that commited 5. Are you currently in a relationship now? How is it going? Nope.... 6. Have you ever been engaged? How many times? No 7. Have you ever been married? Are you still married? How many times? What went wrong in the marriages? Do you ever want to be married? Yes i do want to be married 8. Do you have any kids? How many? Do you even want kids? Non 9. How many of your ex's have dumped you? Why do you think they dumped you? None 10. How many have you dumped? Why? Dumped is such a hash word.....1 mutual and the other i ended it beacsue we were still just friends 11. If you can change one thing about yourself, what would it be? Hmm... i don't know, im kind of happy with who i am.... ooo, id love to speak aanother language! 12. If you can choose one quality in a man/woman,what would it be? I would want them to be sensitive, romantic, and still have a sense of humor (i know it says one but this is a quiz, not a federal document) 13. What is the worse thing a man/woman can do in a relationship? Decieve me 14. Whats more important, looks or personality? Personality.... tht's not me tryng to be all politically correct, thats me thinking that unless im intelectually stimulated i will run away 15. Describe your ideal life partner. The person I love will be my ideal partner... i can't pre-design him. 16. What is one thing you regret and can't take back? Not going to say.... 17. Are you a virgin? If yes do you think you lost it too young or too old? If no when do you want to lose your virginity? Yes i am. Um, when the time is right. I am still thorougly confused on this matter. I don't know if I will wait for marriage or wait until if feel ready... my goodness being a teenager is confusing...lol 18. Have you ever had a one night stand? How many? Would you ever do it again? Noo 19. Finish this sentence: Love is_undefinable____________________ 20. Where do you see yourself in 10 years? Happy. Thanks !!!!

Food, i love food and sleep. They make me so happy im going ot eat food really soon............ of course my friends, sports, art, odc, my favourite shows, hanging out and doing our thing, just the time i spend with people, the idea that one day i will be in love...... that i will one day be with someone who means the world, oh and all of those stupid inside jokes......lol i judt thought of the funniest one. you gusy wouldn't get it though...lol, lion cat

lmao, dressed up like clowns...... nice idea for a sociology ecperiment I personally could care less if a guy wanted me to wear more makeup, but i dont associated with guys that shallow (i love the guys i know, they're good people who you can tell actually have a heart and a sense of decency) Also guys are really polite at my school as almost everyone is......... jsut wondering if its the same where you guys are,,,,

You are so damn lucky...........

Wow, different end of the scale there. No guys have had nay input though...Or do you jsut not care? lol

Sweetness, welcome dude!

I was just curious how much time women spend on your hair / makeup and guys if you really care that much. I am in my third year of high school and I was talking with my friends and we don't really wear makeup. Personally i'll wear maybe some mascara if I have the time and chap stick (lol) but i'm more into the natural look. As apparentley are my friends. We were discussing this with our guy friends at the same tables and then they started looking at us and realizing for the first time that we don't really wear makeup. I was jsut wondering if this was a general concensus that guys like girls who wear a little amount of makeup like the majority of guys at our school. We are well put together I guess you could say, we jsut all seem to agree that girls look better more naturally then with a bunch of stuff smeared on our faces. Just wondering other peoples thoughts, guys and girls. Most of the girls that wear alot of makeup are considered to be sort of slutty and unattractive.

Even though it may suck that you two aren't going out rght now, you can' make a proper decision until you give yourself time. Let yourself settle a little more and then try to see if you really want to be with him anymore. From the way you're talkign it sounds like you two have grown to be friends and not more without realizing it. It would probably bet better if you two just remained friends.

Thanks for the perspectives, but about the whole asking him out thing... if i can't even say a word about the weather, how am i supposed to ask him out!?!? And also do you think it could be that maybe hes just uncomfrotable in front of girls? But i have known him a while.... Should I see how he acts around other girls too?

Alright, I like this guy, have for a bit, am semi-friends with him. So we were walking together with our friend to the bus stop when he (our friend) was like oh, there's my ride by. And he left us. The thing is there is ALWAYS someone else with us. So there we were, still walking and honestly both of us stopped talking and kind of froze and looked around (while still walking). We knew our other friend was around somewhere... the only thing that could save me from this akward silence. I saw him and said "oh, good, there's ***. And he said oh where. I said there. He said oh i was looking for his jacket couldn't see it. I said oh yah me too. and he said beacsue he always wears the whatever colour one(at the same time) and then laughed nervously. At which point there was another long silence so I yelled out our other friend's name. SO basically im wondering if the akwardness was due to some feelings of sort or because hes sort of shy (but i have know him for about 2 1/2 years). So yah.... I don't know what to make of the akwardness. Yesssss. Help? lol. Thanks

Stop caring about what other people think. They're the ones you're afriad of looking stupid in front of. Do what you feel comfortable doing.

Yes, I would definatley say that she seems to be trying to act maybe more girly and different so that you'll see her in sort of a different light. A sort of "Oh, she is a girl that could be a girl friend, not just a friend who happens to be a girl" sort of way. That would make the most sense. You could always ask your friends if they have noticed her acting differentley when you are not there versus when you are there.

Lol, no I saw that movie a while ago and then your picture reminded me of it and then I had a dream about him where he and the creepy guy who tortures women until they scream and then rapes them were like the same person.