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  1. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Well if you really like her then go out with her. After another couple of weeks tell ehr that you want to start something. Take it from there. You cant let her yank you around like that. If she's unsure of her feelings, it's unfair to both of you to be in that relationship. Tell her how you feel. You need closure, wether that means starting a new chapter with or without her. You need to know.
  2. smilelikeyoumeanit
    I'm going to cry after I read that last one. That so sucks if it's true. But today he seemed semi-nterested which is more then i can so for the other days this week. There may be hope for us yet........ Oh, and afterschool I hung out with our friends again but my bus came first so I didn't get a chance to ask him....
  3. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Hey, how did it go? Sorry I went offline last night and didn't get to see your reply to my last post. Get on here and tell us what happened! lol.
  4. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Lol, no it's not stupid. Yah that would be fine. It doesn't have to be in a secret room filled iwth candels, just somewhere where you have semi-privacy. Enought to talk to her without getting interrupted. You want to be able to make your point and have it go smoothly
  5. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Don't tell her over an email. Things are too easily misinterpurted when you do that. Don't do it over the phone either beacsue, once again, she can't see you body language and tell that you are entirley serious. If she's expecting an emial tonight you can tell her that you are going to tell her tomorrow becasue the secret is one which you would rather tell her in person. Then, tomorrow when you see her, pull her aside (make sure no one else is around) and tell her that it was really important that you tell her this in person becasue she means a lot to you. Then tell her that recentley you have developed feelings towards her that are much more then friendship. Tell her that you really like her and that you want to become more then friends.
  6. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Ugh, nothing happened today. He was leaving with his friend when I got to where I usually meet up with my group of friends so whatever. Yah....... Is it possible he thinks I'm going out with someone and is pissed off? I don't know why I thought about that but I was just wondering if it was a possibility..... I keep my personal life very personal to the point where no one ever knows who I am or have gone out with (my close friends know becasue they are my close friends, but most people don't....) I have heard rumors that I'm going out with 3 different people right now, but one of them is him and the other is his best friend, so he would know it;s neither of them, but the other guy it is possible that he thins that.... I don't have any proof of this though, so it could very well be that he just doesn't like me so that's why I'm not feeling anything coming from him..........what if I did wait too long..............
  7. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Personally, red hair has been my favourite hair colour since I becme aware of guys. My decision wasn't influenced by any specific person, I've just always thought it was soo attractive. That's not to say I don't like other colours of hair beacsue I do. It's just that is my personal poreferance. I do know of people who can't stand red hair, which I think is sort of stupid. Oh well, just know that red hair is the greatest thing and if people can't get over something so completley superifical, then they are far too shallow to deserve someone with red hair! lol, just kidding. LOVE THE RED HEADS!
  8. smilelikeyoumeanit
    i'll try my best
  9. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Well its more then just risk our friendship. His best friend is one of my best guy friends, and I don't want things to be weird wth him. Oh well, I don't know. I've decided to do a bit of a mini spa thing tonight, which when I'm done always makes me feel more confident, so I'm hoping tomorrow I will have the confidence to ask him out........
  10. smilelikeyoumeanit
    In a normal circumstance I would say that was a great idea. But the problem (aside from the fact neither of us drink coffee, lol, but I now what you mean, I'm just joking around) is that were the type of people who talk after school but who never have done anything outside of school property pretty much. It can't jsut be a casual thing, unless I invite all of his friends along, which I don't want to do. I either want to start a relationship or not, I don't want any grey area inbetween for him or I to miss read. I would rather not prolong the rejection.
  11. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Alot of girls, even the sweetest ones, are completley different around the girls they can't stand. Guys, unless you have seen an angry girl then you have no clue what her true colours are. It's scary the first time you see it. Some guys, after they have witnessed this horrible event, look at the girl in the next 30 minutes who is laughing and smiling with her friends and wonder what the hell just happened. You can never fully understand.........
  12. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Oh, it very well could be. I'm just not feeling the push though. It's like mentally I know what would be gained from a relationshp with him but that just doesn't seem like it would happen in reality. I think he may see me as one of the guys, even though I make them speak with extra respect around me becasue I don't think it's proper to talk in really vulgar ways in front of me. I'm not a * * * * * to them but they know I don't appreciate certain words being said in front of me. I know they're guys but even with me standing there they still say some pretty bad things, so im not sure if I want to know how they talk when i'm not there. So I guess he wouldn't see me as one of the guys then......... But I'm really not sure that he sees me as someone he could go out with either. He may have in the past but i'm not so sure about now. I don't want to ask him, have him say no, then never be able to hang out with them beacsue things would be too weird.
  13. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Today I just got no feeling tha he liked me at all. I've been getting that the past few days. Looks can be purley pleutonic. I don't think I should even bother anymore........
  14. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Alot of the time it is becasue they don't want to loose the whole realationship with someone, they want to loose the dating part, so the words that come to mind are "let's be friends". It is entirley possible to remain friends with the guy you break up with, depending on how bad the breakup was. If the person still harbour feelings for you one of two things will happen. It will either be too painful to continue being friends with someone you want to be more with, or they will realize that this is the onyl type of relationship they can have, so they push all feelings down. They would rather be friends with you then be nothing.
  15. smilelikeyoumeanit
    I got a specific strand os food poisoning when I was little. Do not ignore it. Go see a doctor right away even if you're feeling better. It could lead to more serious things. I went to a doctor and ended up in hospital, was released, and had to go back into the hospital a few times. It attacked my immune system and ended up causing my kidneys to fail. I also had to have blood tranfusions adn almost had to start dyalisis. Now, not to scare you, there is a very small chance of that happening, but you need to go see a doctor anyway so that he can do some blood work and determine what strand of food posoning you have so that he can proceed with the proper treatment. More often then not you will just deal with it for a couple more days in the same manor you would deal with the flu. Take the time to recover, don't rush your return to work. GO SEE A DOCTOR. It's better to be safe then sorry.
  16. smilelikeyoumeanit
    I didn't like him in that way enough to want to get serious, so I broke things off. We went back to being the exact same friends we were before we 'went out'.
  17. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Well I talked to him and his best friend for about a half hour after school again today, like most days, but it was sooooo cold (we are currently in day 2 of what promises to be a 5 day snow strom) and snowy that I just was not in the mood to do so. We only met up (his friend and me with him) as we were heading outside to wait for our corresponding buses, so I couldn't ask him while we were out there. Plus, I was pretty much crying from the wind whipping by my face, so I didn't exactly look my vest, even though he kept looking at me.......... So no, not yet
  18. smilelikeyoumeanit
    lol, thanks for the advice. it's actually been 18 months but that doesn't help my case anymore then it would if it was only 5.......
  19. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Alright, if you have read any of my past posts, you will know that I really like this guy and have for the past year and a half +. Information has recentley come my way saying that he might be asking someone out. This is pure speculation and I don't know for sure if this is even true. I'm basically thinking this becasue I was there when his friends were talking and his best friend basically leaned over and asked him if he had "done it yet", (quietley) but in the same tone he used to use to ask me if I had asked his friend out (same guy) yet or not, and using the same words. It could have been pretaining to something else though, I don't know. He answered "no I haven't" quietley, and when I looked at him he kind of made some joke that he hadn't watched some show or something yet, which was so obviously a joke trying to downplay what his friend had just said (he even laughed in a way that he was trying to make sound fake). So tomorrow I will see him for the first time in over a week (exam week was last week) and I don't know what to do. Should I wait for him to ask me out, or should I ask him out. Oh, and I've been trying to ask him out for the past 5 months, but haven't been able to work up the courage yet. I just don't know what to do.... And school starts in about 12 hours so immediate input would be extremley helpful. Merci beaucoup mon amis. Thanks.
  20. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Sheyda, I have to say that I started crying when I read the paragraph about your most romantic time. That is almost unbelievably perfect. You are so lucky to have found someone like that. You seem smart, so I don't think I have to tell you not to let him go I hope you have such a great future together. Congragulations!
  21. smilelikeyoumeanit
    I've been putting asking someone out off for the past year and a half, because i'm so scared of the answer being no. I really like this guy, and i just don't want that feeling to go away. But I know if I do ask him out, and he says yes, then the feeling will be that much greater. *Smile*......... I just don't know what to do. That story just made me think so deeply about what is going on with me right now. I know that I should, I just don't know if I can...... Why did you keep putting it off? Maybe it's the same reason that I have. I just don't know what to do.......
  22. smilelikeyoumeanit
    Since it's your first intimate relationship, and beacsue you are 17, it'll be hard to feel completley comfortable with a girl while doing an act so new to you. I would be worried if you didn't have performance anxiety the first couple of times at least. If it helps, no matter how confident she appears, she is just as nervous about her performance as you are with yours. Over time i'm sure the stress will be relieved and you will both feel more comfortable with eachother. It may even happen tonight if you are relaxed enough. Just know this is normal, and only time will help you to get over it. If you are comfortable being this intimate you can try to discuss with her the way you are feelign and you might find she recipricates the same feelings. Try having her help you along. Over time you will build up stamina and be able to do this without the nervousness. I wish you the best of luck on your venture tonight! lol
  23. smilelikeyoumeanit
    those r just other terms that mean making out (pashing=australia saying, snogging= uk saying)
  24. smilelikeyoumeanit
    I was just wondering, what exactly are guys favourite things to do whilst kissing (making out, pashing, snogging, what have you) a girl? What do they enjoy doing for/with the girl, and what would they like from the girl? Thanks guys
  25. smilelikeyoumeanit
    I'm a girl and this happened to me like only a couple of weeks ago. I was really perturbed and some of the advice given to me stated that he was doing this as a way to impress me. People said that he might be trying to appear more outgoing becasue he usually acts in a shy fashion. As twisted as this is, it makes sense, and could very well be why the person you speak of is hitting on other girls.
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