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  1. jabele
    So an update: the guy went away for the weekend and had called me while he was gone. I didn't answer. He texted me earlier this week wishing me luck on my finals-- didn't respond. Today I got a text from him syaing: so are we not talking anymore? I don't know what to do about this. I definitely don't want to date this guy- I'm realizing how not my type he is and he totally freaks me out. Plus, I'm sort of interested in someone else anyway...what should I do!?
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    Hey wee - I just wanted to say that there's never "tmi" here on ENotAlone. Ok, well, I guess its possible...but never restrict your questions for fear of being too detailed. We all get a bit embarrassed talking about these things, but its good sometimes
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    Haha- like that movie "Boat Trip"
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    You have the remote
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    God, thats so true for me its unbelievable.
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    P.S.- I like your Rob Zombie picture
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    I agree with Kellbell in that you really shouldn't mix business with pleasure... At the same time, I think inter-office romances are common and can work out. I actually know a girl who's marrying someone she works with. Granted, no one in the office knows they are actually dating, but they live together and things are going great for them. I suppose it wouldn't kill you to try to get to know the girl better...you can see what progresses from there.
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    I most certainly don't blame you for dumping him. I'm sorry that that happened to you... You can do better!
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    Many of the men I know are somewhat intimidated by extremely attractive girls -- though I've seen some of them try to talk to them....well, ok, actually just one, even though he always gets shut down
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    Thanks Annie! Thats really sweet of you to say
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    This is probably a really dumb question, but I keep seeing people write "IMO" and have NO idea what that stands for or means. Can someone edify me?
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    I'm sorry to hear you are going through this. I'm seeing the same thing happen with a roommate and her ex boyfriend (who I'm also friends with). She told him that she hooked up with one of my friends and now all he sees is the two of them together. Did she come right out and tell you, or did you ask her or something?
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    I WOULD LOVE TO PUSH HIS FACE IN THE CUPCAKE! I just had the urge to put up the picture of that cupcake, because its from Magnolia- a renowned bakery, and its ridiculously tasty. Mmmmm. Now its just my face;-)
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    So would it be too assertive of me to assert that Corvidae is quite attractive ;-)
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    I literally have NO money -- so when he called me and asked if I wanted to meet up last minute for some dinner, I assumed that, like last time, it was sort of a date-type thing. If I didn't like him, I would have just told him: hey, listen, I have no money i can't go- but I was excited he called, so I quickly got ready and just went. He was acting sort of differently, and then at the end when the bill came, I saw he only put down his share. I was like: * * * *. So I put down my credit card, knowing that I had already gone over my limit. I didn't know it gets rejected though if thats the case...I figured they'd just charge you a fee. It came back, as rejected, so he had to put his card down. I felt REALLY bad, and he looked kinda annoyed- maybe? I apologized profusely and he said it was fine and it happens...I told him I'd take him out next time. He gave me a quick kiss goodbye, like last time, and wished me luck on writing my papers. I went online and sent him an email apologizing about it again...but then he wrote me back soemthing pretty nice: " no problem darling, these things happen to all of us so don't worry about it. Had a good time with you at dinner and I'll be in touch, my schedule is pretty touch and go for the next two weeks but we'll figure something out." Men are stupid. Ha!
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    Yeah, apparently I shouldn't get too excited yet, because I just went to grab a quick bite with him, and he acted TOTALLY different than the last time we hung out. He seemed sort of pretentious ( and seemingly uninterested in what I had to say. He didn't make much effort and the conversation didn't flow the way it did last time. I don't understand what changed? Also, he didn't pay for me-- not that that really matters, but it also sends a message (of "friend"). I'm confused by his behavior... Ugh.
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    Since you've been together for 3 years, a relationship tends to loose its 'freshness.' It's sort of like: yeah, been there, done that. There's nothing abnormal about it-- but if you want to spice things up a bit, maybe try new things. If it gets to be the 'same old' you might develop an affinity to just avoid sex all together. In the beginning, everythings new -- and hasn't been explored. I'd say try different things....tell him exactly what you want and what you think would improve your sex life. You may also want to try new things OUTSIDE of your sex life together...to keep it new and fresh. Hope this helps
  19. jabele
    Thanks everyone! I appreciate your help. I'll try to play it cool...;-)
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    Oh, I see...yeah. I've dated people and when I realized they had no sense of humor I was like "ohh..." Its a big thing for me too, so I completely understand. But is it possible that he was just nervous? Maybe see how it goes a couple more times...if you still feel he's "too serious" then thats okay...at least you gave it a shot!
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    I do a good amount of the "online dating" and I never end up liking 97% of them. However, I went on a date two days ago and I liked the guy...the feeling was definitely mutual, because he put his arm around me and gave me a small kiss goodbye. The thing is that, while I usually don't like the guys, whenever I do like them, I end up driving them away because I get so excited that I call and text message a lot...and then I never date them. I want to play it cool but I'm so tempted to text and say hi and stuff...should I just stop?
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    Yeah, possibly elaborate on this? I hate very serious people as well -- but I'm one big goof ball! ;-)
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    My good friend is going through a very difficult break up now as well. I'm telling him to do things for himself that make him feel good...and to call me whenever he feels he needs to talk. Do you have someone you can call to just vent? If not, writing is a great release...or maybe you have a hobby that helps you release stress. For me, its the drums..
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    Dako that is so funny! Bravo, just bravo. =D>
  25. jabele
    My feelings right now are that I am slowly, but steadily, becoming addicted to this site. Ahhhh!!!!
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