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  1. heythere1234
    You're right markers, Me and my friends go out and about and sometimes guys look at us but don't really talk. Or they make some type of catcall or say soemthing undertheir breath about she's hot or whatever. the other night we were all out and this guitarist in the band kept looking at me. Well, when they were on break he came up behind me and said something about me being fine and i said thanks, and since I thought he was cute hoped we were going to talk, but he just ran back to his buddies. Guys need to initiate REAL conversations, Staring and making catcalls doesn't count for much of anything. What are we supposed to do with that? We didn't REJECT them, we just weren't really given an opportunity.
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    I think if you really are put off by it then your feelings SHOULD be a consideration. I don't really know why people are telling you they're not. You're the one who has to get busy with him as it were. Not to mention that other people think it looks bad, too, so you're doing the poor guy a favor. Why should everyone pretend? You ever read The Emporer's New Clothes? It sounds like you are telling him by positive reinforcement and in a gentle manner already. You just have to decide how important it is to you. I once had a BF who always wore these slacks that came up high and had sort of a 'yoke' at the top and were belted. And the legs were tapered to come way in at the ankes. Anyway you'd have to see them; they made him look like he had an hourglass figure like a woman. It was a serious turn off. And he'd wear them with a dress shirt tucked in and with these little dress shoes. Don't get me wrong I was hot for him, when he'd just wear levis or other normal clothes he looked fine. But this outfit drove me nuts. The worst part was that our friends would say he looked "nice". Well people say that when you wear something different. he just looked dressed up, but the shape was very unflattering on him. It was tough. I feel your pain.
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    I am allergic to cats too. I wonder why your dad bought you a cat when he must have known your mom was allergic? Maybe that's another post? Any way, they can be a lot more than simply watery eyes and sneezing, (already pretty unpleasant). I've had blisters, severely swollen limbs, aching joints, constricted lungs. If your mom is allergic to cats then I don't know why you'd even consider having one around her? I'm sure you love you mom a lot, but this is a no brainer.
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    You'll be on your own soon enough, then won't have to worry about stuff like that.
  5. heythere1234
    Ahh, hence the username? Good compromise, and Happy ending!
  6. heythere1234
    No. In the context that we are discussing here, it is not about a female literally physically running away, and the man literally running after her against her wishes. It is about him making the first moves, and not being too sure whether he will be successful.
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  8. heythere1234
    I'd have to agree with that.
  9. heythere1234
    My attraction to him would be affected alot by his to me. If you don't want me enough to go for it, then I'm not interested, not that I'm holding back, just plain not interested.
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    Maybe you're coming accross as insincere? who knows, I can't say since I don't know you and can't see you. I know girls like guys who are just guys. Not total slobs or anything, but not too over-groomed. I haven't met too many girls, (Ok, not ANY) who like muscle bound men. So, I'm not sure where men get this idea. Men seem to like muscle bound men alot. But unless your homosexual, that's probably not who you're looking to attract. Part of the muscle bound thing is not only how it looks on men, which is unappealing to a lot of us women. It's also the thought of you all setting in front of the mirror checking yourselves out and all. That's just a feminine trait. I go to the gym every now and then just to get some extra tone going, obviously not to get bulky or muscular. And I don't find any of the men I see there attractive, They stare at their own bodies in the mirror and grunt and obsess on their appearance like a woman. It's really a turn-off. JMO!
  11. heythere1234
    It's sooo true!!
  12. heythere1234
    yeah teacup and boricua you have it right!
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    teacup drop #1 and # 2, I tell you I've had countless creepy guys do that same thing to me. I like their friend, and they think they own me or something, even though I don't even like them. It can happen even on as small a scale as guys you don't even know where you're out at a club and you think one's cute and don't fancy the other one, well the one you don't like is jealous of his friend and drives that wedge between. So my advice to you is this, I totally understand your frustration with the situation. Remember, a guy who cannot think for himself, and whose gonna let some other guy bully or talk him out of dating someone with out figuring it out for himself is a wimp and a pushover and you wouldn't want to date him anyways, would you? A real man can make up his own mind and goes after what he wants without his friends telling him what to do.
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    So Abbett, Now I'm curious, can you please describe some of the girl's actual behaviors so we can get a feel for what she does that so out there?
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    Yes, some girls I know go for that self-labeling; I say, show me don't tell me.
  16. heythere1234
    It's hard for a lot of us, maybe try learning golf?
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    People who tell me to "smile!" when I'm perfectly happy and unlike them, don't emote phoney emotions just because some bozo walked up to me and commanded me to. Same as above, only insert "relax!" instead of "smile!"
  18. heythere1234
    So are you in love with these multiple girls all at the same time or what?
  19. heythere1234
    Kile, I think it's kind of ironic you writing that on this thread, don't you?
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    Auss, who are you completely disagreeing with, because I thought that was kind of the whole jist of my original post? are you disagreeing with someone else?
  21. heythere1234
    well she said she was seeing someone, but then disqualified it by saying it wasn't that serious. so, i guess I'd be confused too. You might need to confront the issue directly and ask her if she might like to go on a date sometime. If she doesn't just don't act all bitter and jerk-like about it, you know what I mean, it's not her fault if she doesn't dig you that way.
  22. heythere1234
    I can't speak for others but I don't like the metro thing, I'm not attracted to men who are in any way the slightest bit feminine, talking, dressing, mannerisms, sitting with their knees together, anything. Sorry but it turns me off real fast. BUT, I also don't like men who are fat, or saggy, or hairy monster types, either! Sorry, just can't dig that. Men should discretely tame their looks, but if they're actually getting manicures, pedicures, or whatever, no way for me, I couldn't handle that.
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    true njron, no doubt!
  24. heythere1234
    I think a lot of girls kind of expect guys to approach them. It might not be politically correct, though, but it's kind of true, so if i were you you should just go ahead and try to say hi or somehting, if they blow you off, just move on.
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    Me too. But diggity, to be honest I'm starting to think this monseur is actually feigning his inability to grasp every simple concept because it is an attention seeking mechanism for him, and he somehow enjoys arguing. I'm just gonna ignore him if he keeps being so odd and obstinate.
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