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  1. I'm 23, she's 18 and we've been dating for a long time, about six month. God I try to keep my girlfriend at arms length so I don't get hurt, and it doesn't work. I try to keep them close and open up to them it doesn't work, jeez...
  2. Ok, I've been dating Kay for awhile now, and I thought things were going great, and I tried to be the best boyfriend I can be, I mean I've given her everything she needs on an emotional level, and a physical level, and whatever other levels there are, but God. Anyways, Kay and I always tell each other that we love each other, and I believed that, but now I don't know what to believe. Ok, so she has this guy friend, who apparently is her best friend, and he does have a crush on her. Now this wasn't a problem before because he was dating another girl. However ever since they've broken up, it just seems like he wants to be with her. I talked about it with her tonight, and well while she did have a crush on him when he was with his ex (this was before me), but she moved on. Well he broke up with his ex, and now they're talking again, having a great time etc. However, I think things are getting too close for comfort. I mean he's acting like he loves her and is just waiting for us to break up so he can have Kay. Hell he even asked her out when we are together! I mean my God, this guy pratically just wants to date her, to love her and probably have sex with her. Of course I don't say anything because he makes Kay happy and I want her to be happy, and I don't want to be this poessive psychotic jealous guy. However, now I just think he's crossing the line, he's saying stuff like "I love you as a best friend" and "I'll be here for you, if you and Sean don't work out, which I hope doesn't happen." So I ask her if she still has feelings for him, and she does, and I asked her if anything separates me from Mike, and she says, not really. I mean jeez, this is the same woman who tells me that she loves me, doesn't want to lose me, wants to be with me always, wants to move in with me, wants me to meet her entire family. I mean jeez, and apparently the only reason I'm dating her is because I came first. I don't know, maybe I'm overreacting, maybe I do have a problem here, I really don't know what to think and what to do....
  3. Yes, I do realize that they are strangers, but that's pretty much the point of me meeting them, so they won't be strangers, lol.
  4. Ok, so my girlfriend's family is in WA, and she's in NC with me. This June I will be going with her to meet her entire family for basically a camp out that goes from June 16th to June 22. We will be gone from June 14th to June 24th. Kay and I are paying for this trip ourselves with no one help. However my parents are concerned about me being away and be surrounded by strangers for 10 days in the outdoors. They would like to discuss it, however, as I see it there's not much to discuss. My girlfriend and I are adults and should be able to make our own choices without having to talk about it with the family. They know our plans, they know where we'll be at, and they know that we're paying for it, and in my mind that's all they should need to know. You'd think at the age of 23, my family would actually just say "Well, I hope you guys have fun." However nope, it's "We need to talk about it, don't make any reservation yet." I think my family is being a little over protective, and I would like for them to realize that I am now living my own life, and that I should be able to do things without having to talk about it with the family. What do you guys think?
  5. I enjoy my relationship with Kay immensily, I mean she is really just a great and wonderful person, and I enjoy being with her, going out on dates with her and cuddling with her in bed. However, it seems like even though we're in a relationship, and we do help each other and support each other, and we'll do anything for each other, we'd somehow like to maintain our indepedence. I don't tell her what to do, and she doesn't tell me what to do, unless it interfears with our relationship or could cause problems with the relationship. Now keep in mind I'm not complaining, but I'm just wondering how this is even possible. I always thought that when you're in a relationship, you can't be independent and in a relationship too, you have to choose one or the other. What do you guys think?
  6. Actually it's only been once or twice, not constantly, and she reassure me that she likes me for me, and maybe someday will love me for me, and so far I have no reason to distrust her. You know, my guts says that I'm making mountains out of molehills here, and I'm going to have to go with my guts, there's no problem here, I'm just making mountains out of molehills.
  7. Yea, I actually have a good thing going here so no.
  8. No she hasn't completely moved on, look, I'm not going to pretend to know what's this love is like, God know's it's powerful. All I'm going to do is to try to be supportive, to be there for her, to care for her and to someday love her. That's all I can do.
  9. Ok, so I am dating this wonderful girl Kayla, and I do mean wonderful! She is smart, kind, loving, caring, etc. and really, I haven't been this happy in a long time. Also being with her has helped me improve myself, I am actually trying to keep this relationship going and I am totally committed to her, which has not happened to me since Middle School to be honest. She is just everything I look for in a woman, however her friend is alittle concerned. See, back when Kay was 15 (she's now 18) she knew this guy name David, and well, Kay fell in love with him. Now David was gay, so I don't know how to classified this love. However, David was her first true love, and it was really powerful. However David was killed by this guy because he was gay. This shattered Kay's heart, and well it had a pretty devistating affect on her. Now fast forward to Kay and I, and we're getting along great, neither one of us has never been this happy, and I really do mean happy. Both of our sets of friends never saw us this happy. However, her friend Jess, is concerned because well, she thinks that Kay is trying to replace David with me. Now it is true that I do remind Kay of David and she says that sometimes I do act like him. She also wrote in her blog that "...it's like having Davey back..." However, I really don't have a problem with this. I have talked to Kay about this, and she assured me that she like me for me, and will love me for me. She even wants to love me like she loved David. Look, I don't know if she is trying to replace me with David, and honestly I could never do that. I mean David was a pretty important person in her life, and I understand and respect that, and I have no problems with him always being her first true love, and really, I hope that I experience that type of love too because I never have. I just think that when Kay does talk about how much I remind her of David, she's just noticing how I share some of the traits of someone she loved, and I don't see that as a bad thing. What do you guys think?
  10. Ok, so I am about to make love for the first time with a wonderful woman, and we both decide to use birth control (for her) and condoms for me. However, I have never done this before, and I would like to know how do I find out which condom size is the right one for me? I also have a question on the woman's G-spot. How do I find the G-Spot and what is the best way to simulate it? By the best way I mean I would like to really really please her by simulating it if you know what I mean. Finally, I would like to maintain my erection for at least five minutes. However I've noticed that when I masturbate or get one in public, it doesn't last for very long. All I'm really asking is to be able to maintain an erection until the job is done, so any advice on that? Thank you all for your advice and help.
  11. Ok, so tonight I had a rough night. First off my ex got mad at me because apparently her friends told her that I bad mouthed her to them. Which I never did! You can ask anyone around here and they'll tell you that if I have something to say to someone, I will say it to that person and not bad mouth them behind their backs. Now after we exchange some heated words, I then have to try to talk to her out of killing herself (mainly for her (and mine) friend) and before she went away for the night she was talking about how me and her friend should hook up (Her friend does like me). Now keep in mind she's talking like she wants us to hook up like saying "You two should be together" "You two together, it makes sense". So I said "Well it's a possiblity." What happens, she goes nuts again, and then goes and tells me that I'm just like all the other idiots she dated, and that I was just using her to get to her friend and basically told me to off. God, I just cannot stand women sometimes. God I helped her and this is how she repays me?! I mean first she says that we should hook up, and then this. God that has got to be a trap.
  12. I don't really care what you believe in, you can believe in the Spagetti monster for all I care. All I ask is that you respect my beliefs and values. I will respect yours and no I won't ask you to convert. I know that Catholicsm isn't right for everyone, but it is right for me. Sorry for the generalization, but I'm just going on personal experiences here.
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