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I work with her tomorrow, so I guess itll be a telling day too see how see reacts to me. If she acts distant and seems to avoid me, I guess ill have my answer.

My gut is split. I either think that she likes me but as she said maybe doesnt want to rush into a relationship right now, or make she likes me as a friend and isn't interested in a relationship. I'd be so much happier if I knew either way. Like she acts differently around me at work, at least I think, and theres lots of eye contact and good body language. I flirt with her alot too but maybe im reading to much into it and she just wants to be friends. But it also seems like she could not be interested in me, and just wants to let me down easy.

We'll she said a couple days ago she didnt have a BF when herself and me where on a break at work. I basically said that maybe the guy should make his move but it would be even worse if he got rejected cause they work together. then she made the comment that yeah, and im kinda seeing someone right now but its not really a boyfriend. I told her thats good, she should go for it if he makes her happy, And then she told me she doesnt really wanna rush into anything either. Suffice to say im very confused lol I feel like a retard posting on here, but I've gotta let it be known somewhere or else ill go nuts lol

Thats the thing, I flirt with her all the time and she reacts. We talked for 3 hours the other night, where we repeated flirted and stuff, and she reacted in a good way. The convo I just had was over msn too, not in person. I figured she knew I had a thing for her, maybe she does, but im not sure if she was just saying she was seeing someone because she doesnt want a relationship now, or maybe she was trying to let me down easy and didnt wanna hurt my feelings. I just hope I haven't * * * *ed it all up my saying what I said. So I've either been Friendzoned, She likes me but doesnt wanna rush into anything, or she likes me enough to wanna let me down easy. Im wracking my brain trying to figure it out. The thing is, we work together, so I see her everyday too.

okay we'll I've been trying to move things along with a girl whom I think about more than you can imagine, and I had a interesting convo with her today, where I kinda made my intentions known but im not sure how to interpret what she said. I basically said that I knew someone had a thing for her, but he was prolly waiting to see if she was interested in him before he made his move. This being me of course, but I'm pretty sure she assumed that. She then made a comment that she is kinda seeing someone, not a bf, and that she doesn't want to rush into anything though because she just got out of a long relationship. We talk all the time, and I had thought she was interested in me, but maybe I Was wrong. Does this sound like she was tryign to let me down easy, or maybe she just isnt ready for a relationship yet.

everything sounds date like when its just two people though lol How about inviting her to come out with me AND my friends to a movie.

Okay so ive had a huge crush on this girl at my work for a long time, we always joke around together, and stuff, and sometimes she catches me starting at her, and usually she stares back, which im assuming is good. Ive never heard her mention her boyfriend, and we always talk about what we are doing that night or on the weekend, so Im sure if she had one she woulda mentioned it. tomorrow, given the opportunity I thought I would try to get her out to a movie or something, but pass it off kind of as casual friends to see how she reacts. I was planning on saying something like, " Why dont we go check out a movie? We never really get a chance to hangout outside of work." If she says no, then I can just your loss or something funny to pass it off. If she says yes, it might prove to me she IS interested, at least to some degree. Opinions?

Never thought of that, i'll see how it goes! Wish me luck!

Okay, here's the deal. There is this girl (of course! ) who I work with and I really like her, but of course, I doubt she knows it. I vaguely knew her in high school, but we were never in the same "crowds". (we are in college now, wasn't long ago). I haven't had alot of relationships, so my self-confidence isnt exactly skyrocketting lol, not to say I don't have any, but I really haven't been able to get the nerve up to ask her out. We talk alot at work, and the conversation is pretty good, but there always seems to be an awkwardness about it, Im not sure if thats just me cause I have feeling for her, or maybe she possibly likes me as well, it's hard to tell from my POV. If I knew she was interested I would ask her out in a HEARTBEAT, but the threat of rejection coupled with the environment which we know eachother would make it kinda rough. One of the reasons im hesitating is because we work together, now if I asked her out and she said no, of course it would suck, but it would make it very awkward at work, and of course it wouldnt be long before word got around she rejected me which would be kind of embarrassing. I'm not sure what kind of advice im looking for, I just need to figure out if I should try to pursue this or not. Thanks in advance.