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  1. heythere1234
    Nope, not all hobbies are obsessive.
  2. heythere1234
    Oooh, I agree with what you said about friends with exes. I wouldn't want the ex poppin in while me and my hubby were sittin down to dinner or calling--ever. I don't know any married couples (honestly--none) that have the ex still in the picture. I'm friend-LY with some of my exes--IF I happen to run in to them while I'm out and about....But once it's over it's over. If I had a man still had his ex hanging around the picture that would not be ok with me. most likely I'd let him go. Obsessive about hobbies can be a problem too. Unfortunately, it can point to a deeper problem, covering up for something. Also, I think if a man is TOO involved with his mother it can be a problem. Not that it's bad to have a good relationship with her and all, but when it's way overboard, and she's difficult with anyone he dates and all that it's not a good sign.
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    Actually, I am a perfect size zero, and I'm (according to the American Medical Assiation, and my Physician) at the ideal weight for my height, which is 5'1" and 3/4. So it depends on one's height, as to what size they should be wearing. At my height, a size 12 or 14, might put me into clinically overweight or even obese.
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    Neo, i feel bad for you! my boobs are between an A and a B, depending on the time of the month and the bra manufacturer. But I am unusually small person, so they actually look pretty decent sized on me! I have always been quite happy with my boob size and in fact at certain times (like just before my period), I think their a bit cartoonishly big compared to the rest of my small body. So you should not worry! Do you know that with smaller boobs, you do not have to worry as much about them sagging? believe me when you are in your thirties, you will be so very thankful for that!! Also, you can wear cute summer dresses and halter tops without needing a bra! Don't worry about that other girl. I personally would not and never have wanted my boobs one bit bigger, I like them just like they are.
  5. heythere1234
    She might just be nervous when she's around you. I get nervous like that sometimes if I really like a guy. TALK to her!
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    Well I'm small so I can't relate with you capricorn, but it seems like he keeps bringing it up which shows he may be has a problem with it. Or maybe he doesn't and he is worried that maybe you do? That may be it. Try bringing it up and reassure him you don't have a problem with it.
  7. heythere1234
    LOL! ever hear of TMI??
  8. heythere1234
    I have your answer. Don't ask him out. Call his bluff. Next time you all are teasing and joking, say something to him like...I think you have a crush on me! Why don't you just get it over with and ask me out? you'll feel better. This way you haven't asked him out. but in a light hearted way you've opened the door for him to do so!! And if he doesn't ask you out, then it's ok, you can just play it off like you were just joking!
  9. heythere1234
    I think instead of trying to change the system, men would do better off to try to learn to work it. So, yeah what you said, galaxy.
  10. heythere1234
    I know it's true billy jean, and I find that same nerdy type (not erkel nerdy!) that you described attractive too!
  11. heythere1234
    Well you're not accepting the reality that most women expect you to ask them out, are you?
  12. heythere1234
    Best of luck!
  13. heythere1234
    Well usually I will wait until some form of contact has been initiated by the guy. That would give me an opening to guage what his intentions are, and if I think he's cute, I might then move into some of the flirting that galaxy mentioned. I wouldn't ask him out, if he doesn't get it when I'm teasing him then he's probably not that interested.
  14. heythere1234
    Ditto that. And add I would have a strong aversion to a guy who claimed to be nice. If it's true, there's no need to advertise.
  15. heythere1234
    Too bad that I usually agree with you!
  16. heythere1234
    Negative, the more they say it, the less it's true.
  17. heythere1234
    I don't know, I've always preferred sweet guys who were actually nice to me. and I've observed a direct correlation between those who claim to be nice, and their actual behavior.
  18. heythere1234
    Tyler is back, good I like picking on him!
  19. heythere1234
    Good luck with that corvida and steelwool, your buddies will be out on dates, and you'll have your pride to console you!
  20. heythere1234
    I just deal with reality, you might want to try it.
  21. heythere1234
    Is that really true monsuer... you've complained a lot on here about how disappointed youve been and how you've been treated...
  22. heythere1234
    awesome! good luck!
  23. heythere1234
    I don't know a lot of guys claim they don't think this way, and consciously maybe they don't. I'm just going by my own past experience. You know your situation better than me. Just give him a chance to ask you out when you call him. Maybe start with -so what's up? or something, that would give him an opening. I wouldn't want you to lose a date because of me though, it just seems to me a bit much for you to have to both call him and ask him to go out with you, too. Are you going to have to pick him up and buy his drinks, too? I wouldn't feel good about it, but maybe that's just my own preferences, they don't have to be yours, and if they're not, then you shouldn't feel wrong about asking him. Keep me updated. I hope it all works out for the best I'm sure it will.
  24. heythere1234
    I don't know. If that happens I'd be wondering if he's playing games or trying to manipulate you into persueing him. I don't know I mean you can do things however you want, but I think the guy will appreciate you more if he does the asking...otherwise won't he be like.. she's sooo in love with me...this is tooo easy!
  25. heythere1234
    I just act on what's natural. Maybe its you who's playing mind games.
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