wanderer

oh really, where's that? lol j/k.

i'm talking about any girl that wears a hoodie, not just skater girls (a breed of female i don't think i've ever seen before anyway ) keep in mind that i just happen to think those look good on a girl partly because it's cute and partly because it shows they don't feel like they have to wear tight clothes or revealing clothes to be attracive. hoodies tend to hide your figure, particularly the boobitage area.

that sounds about right. but do you girls want us guy to walk up and start talking about dreams with you? i think he's asking what can guys talk to girls about that's not boring or smalltalk. or maybe i'm just wondering that...

if you're talking about what attracts a guy at first glance, here are my answers: -cute face and hair -tall, slim figure (cause i'm tall and skinny) -cute clothing (girls in hoodies are so cute) if you mean what do i look for in girlfriend material: -a girl who respects her body and her mind - this is by far the biggest thing for me. -honesty i don't think i ask for much as far as girlfriend material goes. as long as you possess those two things above, i will see a beautiful girl.

you know once he says "crawl into bed with me when i'm sleeping" he's going to be taking more naps with the sole purpose of hoping you take him up on the offer. that might be one scenario, the other would be he was just joking in response to you saying you guys should nap together, because he's probably never heard of anything like that before. at least i haven't

my ex had no trouble lying about little things. eventually she had no problems lying about big things, HUGE things like cheating on me and such. i never knew of any her of lies until after she dumped me though.

that great that you bother love each other. however, i think you know it's best to give her time to get over the last relationship before you think about starting a new one with her. be there for her, but not in a way that suggests you want a relationship. that can come later, but right now she needs you for support, not as a new boyfriend. but you seem like a smart enough guy to know this already, i'm just reminding you for the sake of it. good luck, she's lucky to have a nice guy like you to lean on, so let her utilize that. take things slow.

a month's not long... you just need to give her time to see that there's nothing wrong with you having a girlfriend. if nothing that she worries about becomes a problem, she should stop worrying about it eventually.

she's just being overprotective... it's annoying but it's not like there's anything "wrong" with her. most of the time it's the girlfriends' parents who are like that, i guess you just got unlucky there. i think she'll calm down with time (don't know how long you've been with the girl) as long as you don't give her any reason to act like this (getting caught doing something, or disregarding chores or other responsibilities cause you were visiting the girl, that kind of thing)

i would interpret that as respecting yourself, which i find very attracitve in a girl. i wish my ex had more respect for herself...

agreed. i meant you have a talent for finding single girls, and getting them to go out with you. i can't even find any outside of school.

frown. i have trouble finding one date, much less 5 in a week, with 5 different girls. you must have some real talent for that. use it, but don't abuse it.

you rock. good luck.

go out with your girl friends. ask them in advance to make it a GIRLS event only... no boyfriends allowed. go somewhere where they aren't many guys. this will help take your mind off of guys, and you can have fun with your friends with no pressure.

this is where it gets hazy. i've heard a lot of believers say this, but honestly, if someone starts believing in god "just in case", then guess what? he's not believing in god truly, and thereforeeee is gong to hell. and i understand why you wouldn't "know it for sure" because nobody does, and nobody can. your pastors do not, i do not, you do not, george w bush does not. let me also say that i am an athiest who, if i did start to believe in a god again, would do so but definely NOT in any organized religion. i refuse to follow a faith whose doctrine states that my best friend is going to hell because he is gay, or my other friends who are jewish, muslim, and hindu. and on that note, i am not in this conversation anymore, it's going to get too heated for me.

i really don't want to get that involved with this discussion because i am an athiest and tend to only piss people off with my views. but here's a gib one: the bible says god is unforgiving and melevolent to those who disobey him: "I will not pity, nor spare, nor have mercy, but destroy." (Jer. 13:14) "Now go and smite Amalek, and utterly destroy all that they have, and spare them not, but slay both man and woman, infant and suckling." the bible says god is merciful to all of his creations: "The Lord is very pitiful and of tender mercy." (James 5:11) "For his mercy endureth forever." (1 Chron. 16:34) "The Lord is good to all, and his tender mercies are over all his works." (Ps. 145:9) "God is love." (1 John 4:16) here's another smaller one: PRO 26:4 Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like unto him. PRO 26:5 Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own conceit. and there's other stuff; god created man, then beast. but it also says somewhere else that god created beast, THEN man. it also says that bats are birds, which obviously has no relevance but it still funny.

hmm, about simply making out? i would assume most of us guys like a little groping while we're kissing you, in which case you don't have to do anything but let him touch you. make sure comfortable with this of course! if you're not ready for it, he shouldn't do it. i wrote something of an essay about giving head actually (yes, from a guy's perspective)... i'll pm it to you, cause i wrote it for someone else a few days ago. and when he fingers you... just keep your legs a little bit open so he can actually get his hand down there... other than that, there's not much to do besides enjoy it! maybe clip some of the hair if you haven't already. personally i like a clean shaven vertical smile, but every guys is different on that issue. if you know he'll be doing to tuning up down there, try not the wear the cotton power rangers underwear... wear something sexy that doesn't cling to your body like tighty whities tend to do. hope this helps.

yea, girls become way more attractive if you're really into their personality. i like that neck-length brownish blond hair that frays out at the ends... that's so cute

a cute face, non-smoker and can think for herself and i'm all set.

definetly. good thinking.

do waht stand up comics do... think about something funny and come up with a little routine for it... act out something and make people laugh. if you talk about something that peopl can relate to, then they'll continue the conversation on from there, and now you have a dialogue going. good luck!

my ex and i once made out on a pool table (when we were together that is )... her back was sore for a while afterward cause she's was leaning back on the 9 ball

personally i think the question is how is she not flirting... she may be a huge tease but i think she means what she says. good luck with this, man.

i just want to know where you found a 6'6" woman... not too common.