wanderer

i'm 6'3" and my ex girlfriend was 5'10" so we were a giant couple... i think it's not so much the girls' issue as it is society's issue. did you notice at the presidential debates, george bush's pedestal was higher up on the camera so he'd appear to be the same height as john kerry? also, in the business world, taller men tend to indirectly command more respect. i don't know why this is, i guess it's just how humans are programmed. i know that personally, i'm more attracted to girls who are at least 5'6" because i don't want to have to sit on my knees to kiss her. but again, it's about preference. my 5'10" ex is now dating one of her exes who i'm sure is short than she is.

if you lay a short kiss on her, she'll know you're interested. she wants to kiss but she's probably timid or hasn't done it before. have confidence, she's asking for a kiss.

that's exactly what i was going to say. plus, it will show her parents that you do care about their rules and feelings, and in return they'll repsect you for being mature about it. they should understand how much guts it took you to talk to them about this. good luck man, you sound like you really do love and deserve this girl, and vise versa. i hope things work out for you.

personally if i have a naked girl in front of me, i would feel obligated to make myself nekkid as well. seems sort of selfish not to, i mean, she must be feeling awkward being the only one in their birthday suit.

i'm shy and more reserved, so if i see a girl i like, i do the basics like smile at her, maybe even make small talk with her while if we're at a party. for guys like me, it's best if the girl can reciprocate the flirting since guys like me aren't very good at it... let us know we're not making a fool of ourselves, lol.

you should be able to figure out who your closest friends are, the ones you can trust most. talk to them about how you feel. your best friends will always have your back through thick and thin. they want to help you. sometimes it does seem like the world is out to get you. it's tough to deal with, but as long as you're aware of it then you'll start to learn how to compete. but again, this is one of those times when you need your friends to help you out, and they will because they care about you just as much as you care about them. if you ever need someone to talk to, you can pm me and we can talk on aim.

i think both would be fun, but i've never had either yet i guess it depends on whether you're a morning person or not... i do agree with what readyornot said though, morning breath is bad and morning wood goes away really fast unless the guy takes a whiz first... at least that's what i've noticed

short and sweet is fine for now. if she receives it well, you can rest assured the makeout sessions will be in the future.

actually, reading these other stories makes me want to make sure my first time is special and not... sorry guys... wasted, so to speak.

yea dude, kiss those cute lips. make sure you make it a little smooth, don't just attack her with your face, not cool. good luck.

well i don't have any stories about sex but i can tell about my first experience with 2nd base... it was my first gf last year, and we were on a charter bus heading up to nyc for a school art trip... we got the back of the bus with the 3 seats cause we were two tall people. on the way back, we were driving through the lincoln tunnel with the lights of the tunnel flashing between the windows... we started kissing and it was really awesome... things got heavier and we really didn't stop until we got back home and the lights came on. great memories

i think the first thing you do is stop telling yourself that you're not pretty. if you don't think you're an attractive person, then you won't carry yourself and act like an attractive person, and he won't see an attractive person. work on your confidence, relationships shouldn't be just about looks.

the only dead body i've ever seen was in a casket at a funeral home. it was really weird to see someone i knew lying in there... it's a strange feeling that i can't describe. i think it's normal for you to react to such a sight the way you did. this poor man hadn't been moved yet, so i can understand why seeing it would be a little shocking to you. i would think that if you're still feeling shocked about it, talk to someone, preferably a psychologist, but again i'm not really an expert on this kind of thing...

as a fellow 17 year old guy, i can relate to your situation because the same thing happened to me, except my ex was cheating on me with an ex while we were dating, and she ended up dumping me because she felt guilty (she didn't admit that but it's what i gathered) i know it really really sucks, i'm not going to be one of those people to say "get over it, sissy" because i was where you are now about 3 months ago. when she goes to another guy so quickly, it makes us dumped guys feel terrible, like she didn't ever care. it also makes us feel bad that they're so happy with their new guy while we're left with nothing but memories. lots of people will say, "she doesn't deserve you, you'll find someone better" so after a while it will stop being helpful to hear it. one of the hardest parts is convincing yourself that it's only hurtful to tell yourself that she made a mistake, that she'll eventually see her errors and come crawling back to you. this sometimes happens, but not commonly. it sucks, it really does. i try to tell myself that even if she did come back, would i really want her back? do i want someone who could throw me out from another guy without seeming to have any regrets or concerns for my feelings? when people say "you can do better" they are more or less correct. you do deserve better. i can tell you do because if you weren't interested in loyalty and a strong relationship, you wouldn't have found this site. i can't say anything to make you heal faster... that's up to you, and it takes different amounts of time to do so for each person. i can do what others on this site do and offer encouragement and advice, but ultimately this is something you're going to think through yourself. it sucks, again, i know it really sucks majorly. if you want to talk, pm me and we can talk on aim or soemthing. good luck, i totaly know how you feel.

short and simple: where do singles go to meet new people? where do single people go if they're looking to meet a new guy/girl? i can't seem to find any new people; i go to malls, movies, plays and the occasional party with my friends but all i seem too see are couples or girls that aren't interesting (preppy rich girls) or wouldn't be interested in me. any input is appreciated. thanks.

ask the doc what he meant if it's unclear. he probably means just being social, goin out with friends, etc without really worrying about things like boyfriends or dating or whatever. just have fun.

forgot to mention... if you have a free hand, some guys like it if you also play with their balls. again, this should be gentil, and make sure you don't sqeeze! ouch! if you do it right, he should let you know somehow. if he doesn't like that, don't be offended if he asks you to stop that part, so just continue with your one hand. if you've never done it before, he'll probably help you figure out what he likes. hmm... i got really into this question didn't i? hmm...

start off slowly and make it really sensual. like a massage... work up speed over time to get the blood pumping (don't go too fast) personally, i say make sure you do all of this while making out. if he stops the kissing to like throw his head back or something, then you know you're doing well. if he says that he's about to cum, speed it up a little more to make the climax better. if he doesn't say anything, you can try to gauge how close he is from his body language - breathing harder, eyes closing tighter, kissing becomes a bit more rough, etc. just make sure you have fun with it (he definetly will be) there's nothing better than a handjob than if the girl who's doing it is enjoying herself too. good luck!

if you don't like it, then tell him so.

not really off topic... let's me know that i'm not totally insane, at least you're showing me that other people have been in this situation before. i'll give it time, see what happens. i'll update on the situation.

well she had the part from the song quoted and and the band name under it. then she had the line about truth and lies separated without a band name or anything. plus, i'm pretty sure she's never heard of yellowcard.

just go to her house or invite her over, and snuggle by the fire and watch the snow fall outside. that really makes me wish i had someone special this winter.

what are you waiting for? tell her what's happening! she deserves better than to have her boyfriend hit on her friends! he's not going to stop unless someone does something, and the best way to do it is to tell your friend what's going on so she can deal with him directly and give him the proper treatment for being a jerk. this guy clearly has little respect for his girlfriend or you.

thongs are super sexy. but not the sparkly neon flashy kind.

ok, so you might have my other recent post ( link removed ) about my ex girlfriend. i think at this point she's not carrying that act on anymore. yesterday i was online and i was checking people's profiles as usual, and my ex usually doesn't have anything in hers (we still talk online occasionally) but yesterday i checked hers after i put up my away message to leave, and she had put in a quote from some angsty song about with lyrics like "saying what i don't mean" and stuff. below it, she wrote "the truth hurts more than the lies". i read this, thinking she might have been referring to when we broke up and i found out about how much she lied to me, mostly about her cheating on me a few times. i came back later and checked it again while my away message was still up, and her profile was still there. i returned from away, and she signed off a few seconds later. today she didn't have anything in hre profile again. despite it being very bizarre of me to be taking so much stock into this, i can't help but think she was trying to tell me something with this. i don't have any intention of getting back together with her but it seemed to me like she was trying to communicate something she was feeling with me without directly addressing me. do you think she wants me to talk about this with her? up until today i had spent the last few weeks showing her that i'm better off without her, like i would see her at school and be kind of a jerk to her, but not entirely mean so she knows i'm just messing with her. what do you think she means by this message? does she want me to talk to her? like i said i feel like i'm better off without her but i still don't want to her to think i hate her or make her feel bad about our relationship.