Sherlock

Ladies, if you want to know the depth of my hurt and mistrust I recommend searching my past DestructoBoy posts....starting with the first, which can be a bit dizzying. And I apologize in advance. I love the care you have both shown and for my deeply rooted past hurt. it takes a very observing person to see this and read between the lines. Thank you both for your replies. If you will, please read my past DestructoBoy posts and tell me your analysis/opinions. I'm very interested in hearing what you think. I've been posting here since 2003. When Avman was my savior and voice of reason. (Before becoming Moderator extrordinaire) As a side note...that mother trucker (Avman) has done A GREAT job keeping this site civil. Many props to Avman! And he still, without fail, responds to any post I put on this site as DestructoBoy. Yet....KNOW ONE knows I have been Sherlock for quite some time....which, in itself, is a bit of an alter ego if you will......and I can tend to be a bit surly and off-the-wall. Again, I know that you Ta_ree_saw had not visited wikipedia at the time, if memory serves me right? I hope you have since referred to the site on many occasions because it has EVERYTHING. And I'm such a knowledge freak I can't stop!! And to you Beyondthesea....you were very caring in your response and it touched me deeply. To let you know, I'm a very sweet caring indvidual (Astrologically Cancer) and have always been very open with my communication that My heart is wounded deeply. Yet, I've found more women feel they are the ones that can "Fix" pain? They insist on trying but it has never worked and they have all been wonderful intelligent/attractive women....but Only I don't feel that anyone can help me with my demons, aside from myself. thereforeeee, I make this known from the start. I don't play games with the affairs of the heart. Thank you and please reply again! Don't let my thread die....for i will not return.....EVER

What's up ya'll! I will assume no one will remember my past wiki-weakness..... Well....it has resurfaced with fury. I have since had three "casual" interests pass through and leave due to my wiki-wackiness. They have all said they loved me, though they never even knew me?? I told them I had issues but that seemed to attract them more? Why is it that the ladies chase what I run from? Seriously though....wikipedia is not the problem. I mask my relationship problems behind my thirst for useless knowledge. I'm sure many of you have seen that in my past wiki posts.... besides shysoul (who was a thread killer in my opinion) The gal I'm seeing as of the past few week (mind you I'm moving back East) asks why I don't want to commit to her. I had only one surly bastage response..."sorry darling, I have yet to meet a woman that I will succomb (sp? sorry a bit saucy and surly) to all her desires and inconvienient requests." I have given myself emotionally to only three women in my life. Many hard lessons learned and am VERY picky now. In the past I've been known as DestructoBoy....but I've been resurrected.

Have you ever been to a nice restaurant where the waiter uses the big wooden pepper cracker to give you a variety of freshly grinded peppercorns onto your meal? If you have, think about the physical motion used to grind out those naughty little peppercorns. Does this help or should I continue?

Ah SnOman......I know you remember the old days!! At 16 or 17, oral is like - foreplay, sex, and scoring the winning touch down wrapped into one experience! But you're right about it taking longer than 4 mins. My first couple rounds at oral at that age left the poor girl with a very strong jaw! If you really want to freak the young guy out.... I recommend the "Pepper Grinder" Technique. I agree with the s-man about it usually only being foreplay though. You'll eventually lean this after a few more jaw aches!!

It sounds like this dude has a few things going on behind the scenes?? My advice...Be very wary of this guy Cassandra. Keep your guard up. I don't know enough about him to lend my "dirty bastard" expertise (of which I'm fully certified and bonded.)

I agree with the medication theories....proof from studies or not. My mom took Zyban (which is Wellbutrin) to quit smoking. She told me that she went from her, happy-go-lucky, content self to a very depressed, Hyde-like, person with abnormal suicidal thoughts. My mom is so "oblivious to everything" happy that it really worried me to hear this from her. I've never heard her talk like this, and I was a very bad boy that took her to the edge of insanity MANY times through my younger years. Since then I've heard this from other friends that have taken it and they were only using it to quit smoking.

If you really fear this is imminent I suggest you stay with him at all times or as much as humanly possible. I know that sounds over cautious but if it is really that serious stay with him until you can get him somewhere to talk to a professional. Is he suffering from physical pain or mental anguish? If I may ask...how did you find out?

Very well put BlackGoaty!

Very sneaky of you to create so many different identities all for the purpose of coming on to your guy. You're both deceiving each other...... I think it's absolutely ridiculous. Seriously!? He left his ad up a few extra days and you go out of your way to trap him? You said he ended up taking it down...right? Then YOU IM'd HIM as one of your made up persona's? You didn't even wait to see if HE would initiate the contact with you. Nope....you jumped the gun and started in on him after he took the profile down. All of your pseudo "single women" contacting him at random times, yet all at once!? Come on! I bet your guy has NEVER had that much attention at once. We ALL love attention from the opposite sex. It feels great to have someone that is interested in you or attracted to you. I really wonder what it would've been like had the roles been reversed? What if he pulled something like this on you before you took yourself off the web site? DO you like being flirted with? Of course you do.......... I think this is very scandalous. Yes, he's a lying bastard...but I can't put all of this on him. If he would've taken his stupid profile down and THEN contacted one of your made up tarts THAT would be grounds for going through with your devious plan. Why did you decide to be so deceptive in the first place? What kind of future do you see with him after this? (not much eh?) I can't believe I'm the first guy to respond to this!? You're all killing me with how you're planning this whole thing.

More people have overdosed on cheese than marijuana.

Your fantasy couldn't have been that bad if this guy is suggesting "gang-bangs" That's totally messed up!! No respect whatsoever. Annie's right. There are SO many other guys out there that would enjoy their girl telling them their deep dark sexual fantasies. There are a lot that would love to participate and make your fantasies come true without ridiculing or demeaning you. Forget this clown!! Don't let this jerk treat you this way.

Simply approach her and ask!! You have nothing to loose dude!! Sounds like you she likes you and would most likely say yes. I know it's not easy to do but just suck it up and approach her. Your confidence will be an attractor to her! Now I have my own question..... What is Fiesta Texas? Do you live in England? You have a Texas themed amusement park? I find that hilarious! I need to hear more!!

Cardio is very important if you're looking to tone up. Sounds like you have that pretty well covered by the distance running, sprints, and hockey. It's also good to do the cardio before weight training to get your blood flowing. Healthy eating is more important than anything I think. Get your protein intake up and keep with the fruits and veggies and grains. Don't cut out the carbs altogether though. You'll need that energy to help you with your hockey! A decent diet to follow is the South Beach diet. Check this free site out link removed I use it to help with eating healthy rather than weight loss. I'm in the same boat as you. I'm not completely out of shape just need to take it up a notch. Good luck! oh yeah.....hitting the gym 3 times a week should really help. You need to let your body rest in between. However, I suggest keeping up with the cardio every night.

I'd say that he genuinely enjoys your company and likes you. Have you overheard him telling his friends or does he tell you about his bragging?

Are you just telling him that you're going to go out after work to see if he gets upset? Same thing with telling him you are "gonna be with someone else tonight"? From what I've read you are most definitely due to go out and have fun!! You don't need to hear about him going out all the time. You're right.....it's time to live your life without worrying what he thinks. However, I don't think you need to rub his face in the fact that you are going to be with someone else tonight. If you are going to just do it. No need to tell him. You don't need to report to him. It seems to me that you are satisfied by knowing he's getting upset? Could this be because you want to know that you're not the only one that is getting upset?