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  1. Jabe
    thanks guys, thanks alot. bad news however, I left for hockey and she left a message on my pm, saying that she signed on and like 10 people asked her why she's trying to kill herself!! .. and everyone is spreading it, that's what this town is famous for. This can only be worse for her. I guess the only thing I can do is to spread that it isn't true??
  2. Jabe
    Hey, ok here goes. My ex and I while going out were having some problems, we've stayed pretty close and recently we've been talking alot more (on the phone lots, spending days just talking), because I'm one of few people that she can actually talk to and trust. She told me that a few years ago she was suicidal and takes anti-depressants now and has appointments once a week with a therapist. Usually when I'm around, she feels alot better and she was actually getting better when we were going out, but then she stopped taking her pills, and that's when the problems started. Other then her parents, there's me and then she had told her "good" friend. Her "good" friend told more people and now they are making fun of her at school, by fake cutting their wrists and laughing and just horrible horrible things. She is obviously not friends with this girl anymore, but now there's 4 girls who are making fun of her, and for no reason. She is scared to go to school now and she's just always feeling depressed. I'm trying to be with her more and want to work on getting our relationship back, but it's hard, because right now I just want her to be happy and not have to worry about these girls. Is there anything you guys can help me with, things to say, things to comfort her? etc. Any help would help me and her out alot!! Thank you - Jayb
  3. Jabe
    Im not that stupid. Of course I asked her. She say's nevermind, it's dumb.
  4. Jabe
    Hey, ok my ex that i'm trying to get back with says. She doesnt hate me. but she hates.......me. that's how she typed it in on the computer. what in gods name does that mean?!! thanks for any help
  5. Jabe
    haha yes, us canadians dont know what the hell you're talking about. anyway, i don't think 2 years is bad at all. At my school it happens all the time. Moslty younger girls with older guys. Maybe because girls mature quicker then guys or w.e. I am with a girl 2 years younger with me, because I really like her and when I'm with her I don't think about how old we are.
  6. Jabe
    Hey, here's my short story if you want a brief history link removed Anyway, I really wanna get back together with my ex, but she won't give me a yes or no answer. So I'm trying to not contact her as much and I am "dating" this new girl to get my mind off my ex and to get my ex thinking maybe she should give me an answer now. Anyway, I think she is really mad about it all and I don't want her to be upset. Why is this makign her upset? DOes that not mean she wants to get back with me? Or is she upset that her backup (me) might not be there anymore? Any ideas? Thanks alot -- Jabe
  7. Jabe
    Nah you don't need it. Just pop it in your mouth and get it all wet.
  8. Jabe
    I don't believe dreams have any affect on our lives. The amount of times I've had messes up dreams that don't make sense at all and have nothign to do with my life. Anything can trigger a dream. If you saw a movie that day with a sex scene in it. Anything. Is it true cheese makes you have weird dreams?
  9. Jabe
    They don't necessarily lie. They "think" they want a nice guy. They don't look for the number one jerk and go out with him. It's all about chemistry, sexual tension and attraction. Nice guys just simply aren't attractive to girls. She has to respect you. Girls don't respect wussy's. A wussy is another term for nice guy. The nicer you are, the more easily you will fall into the friendship category.
  10. Jabe
    So if you are udner 18 you don't have feelings? Obviously she likes this guy alot, how about give her some advice, rather then being a prlck. Sorry I can't give you advice on this subject though, I'm kinda in the same boat as you.
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    I guess it would depend on how you are saying it. If this is how you normally act, then she may know you are just kidding around. Maybe she's even just joking/flirting around with you?! You know bustin ur balls. You never know. I think girls have different definitons of the word "c0cky" because I've had girls and g/f's say that I was c0cky, but they couldn't think of any times i've been c0cky. I donno, maybe it's just a feeling that they get towards you. "C0ckiness" can come off bad but if you use it right with the right amount of "c0cky + funny" it will work wonders.
  12. Jabe
    Oh alright then, that's understandable. Sorry. No worries about not being able to help, lol. Let's just hope someone else can
  13. Jabe
    If you got them that long ago, could he not of booked that day off or cleared his schedule? Anyway, I still think it's a great idea! It would definitely sheer me up. If you don't mind may I ask a question from you guys? Me and my ex are still friends and things are looking pon the better side to getting back together. We saw a movie a lil while ago and it's coming out on DVD soon. We saw it before I asked her out but I still think of it as our "first date". She's seen it multiple times at theatre and I know she loves the movie. I would really like to buy her this because she's been saying how she's gonna buy it and it would really make her happy. Do you think she might take this as me trying to buy her back? Since there isn't really a special occasion? Could it be I just want to see her smile?! Maybe it woudl remind her of the great times we've had together?! What are your thoughts? Thanks alot!
  14. Jabe
    Well today at school went well. We hung out at lunch. We are hangin out Friday night after work and I was gonna invite her to a friends Saturday, but I think I better not. GOtta give her that gift of missing me. WHich is tough, but if that's what will get her back.
  15. Jabe
    Ok thanks alot everyone. Heres a story for today. I work just behind where she works and she told me to come visit her before I go to work. I said that I might depends if I'm busy before. She seemed like she really wanted me there. So anyway I end up not going, even though I wanted to. SO anyway, at the end of my work, one of the workers from where she works just got off and came over and told me that my ex (lets call her S) really wants me to go visit her where she works. So I'm thinkin.. .why does she want me there so badly. So I go over and we talk and she seemed in a bit of a pissy mood and she said she wanted me there to cheer her up blah blah .. so that was good I guess. Also, there's a guy that she works with that I think likes her. Did she maybe want me to come over there as a way of telling the other guy to stay away? because that would be good! Well that was a good story eh?! lol. Well it cheered me up so there. anyway, edudlooc13. You said How did you make your first move to hold her? Like, I don't know how she would react in a situation like that. However, we do touch eachother often. You know grabbing stomaches and she'll come and sit on me if I'm laying on the floor. Or she'll grab my head or whatever. Or I'll come up behind and rub her shoulders. TO me, these are signs. So why is she so darn confused? Thanks guys! -- Jabe
  16. Jabe
    Yeah that's what I've been trying to do. Even though I want to hang out with her all the time. I did hint about another girl who likes me and .. we've kinda gotten "closer" at parties n stuff. But I just force myself not to like her because I want my ex back. And my ex said she was upset when I told her about this new girl. But last night I kinda told her "I didn't like this other girl anymore and I liked you". Stupid. Stupid. Stupid. lol PS. thanks for replying to me
  17. Jabe
    True enough. She does all the things someone would do if they liked you. I just wish she liked me with no confusions or whatever. Like, I don't know what she'd be confused about.
  18. Jabe
    Me and my ex have been broken up for about a month now, but we hang out often and enjoy eachothers company n that. I like her alot and want her back and when we talk about how she feels, she says "I just don't know" What is she saying here? I don't know what to think or do. I like her alot and don't want to lose her. I think shes mad now that I've been askign her all these questions and now I regret askign them. I just want to know how she feels. And it's weird when we hang out because I don't know how to react all the time. I want to react as a b/f would or whatever, but I don't know if she wants that. And help or comments would be great. Thanks
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    that's great news. actually gets me thinking about my moms friend. She met her husband on the Internet. Recently after a divorce with her ex. She packed up leaving her 3 kids with he ex husband, moved to Australia and got married shortly after. They are no wliving here with a kid. They've been together for ... it's gotta be 5 years now. what we'll do for love eh!!
  20. Jabe
    Hey. I'll start out with a brief histroy. We went out for a month when things started getting confusing. We went ona break and I had enough and there was another girl that liked me so I starting hanging with her more and me and my girlfriend split up. She said during the break she liked being my friend more then my boyfriend. What does that mean? Anyway, her friend came up from her childhood town. I talk to her friend online lots, and we wanted to meet. So we hung out 2 days in a row and had a great time. Anyway, during this time, it felt like we were going back out again and I'm wanting it again. I've talked to her about this and she feels the same way. But when I ask her what this all means. She says, "[my name], I don't know" What's going on here? Thanks for any help. I really want her back.
  21. Jabe
    "i dont want a b/f right now" - lol a girl told my friend that, yet hooked up with someone new that night! "you're too nice of a guy for me, I dpn't want to hurt you" - bahahaha
  22. Jabe
    my girlfriend said that to me and we've been goin out for a month now .. but it was kinda for a different reason .. but she tells her friends she really really likes me .. it may depend on the girl or the situation .. I just realized this probably didn't help you out at all .. sorry
  23. Jabe
    Hey, My girlfriend and I hang out with other couples often and watch movies. the others are always making out n such, but I just don't feel comforatable doing that infron of other people. I know my girlfriend wants to and doesn't care about them. What should I do? I think she's getting the wrong imnpression of me because of this. Should I just forget about how I feel and go for it? Also, many times we'll be laying on my bed and she'll be infront of me with the back of her head to my face .. (spooning position.. lol) how would I go about starting to kiss her. Should I kiss her neck or something, and then hope she turns my way? or Should I flip her over? lol .. Also, we haven't kissed alot yet, and she told her friends it is bothering her .. but she doesn't give me chances to kiss her .. Am i supposed to chase her n run after her for a goodbye kiss or something? Any help is appreciated! - Jabe
  24. Jabe
    why are you smelling used condoms? and why do you care it smells bad?
  25. Jabe
    man, I know exactly how you feel. It's happening to me right now. I have lots of friends and hobbies, but when I'm not tiwth my girl, I'm not in the mood to do anything. Sorry I can't help you out, cuz I have yet to find a solution.
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