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Well, i have briefly given oral to my girlfriend a couple times. the reason for it only lasting a short time is because i find it difficult to stay down there for very long at all. Now don't get me wrong, I really, really want to do this a lot and do it as long as she wants me too, but i don't know if i can. It just tastes really bad. she is on birth control and i thought that i read somewhere that the pill can make thick, bad smelling fluid come out of the vagina. does anyone know if that is right? I just don't know what to do, i want to give her oral. If she kinda washed herself beforehand would that make it better? and if so, how the hell am i supposed to go about asking her to do that? ....."your vagina stinks, so wash it"...yeah right. no matter how i say it, that's what it's gonna sound like. i don't know how to go about it without hurting her feelings or making her feel self conscious about it. can anyone help me? thanks

does it taste horrible when you do oral on a girl? I think i will be doing that soon, but i'm wondering if it's going to taste disgusting or not. Any input would be great, thanks.

Like I said, I am extremely freaked out right now. well, my girlfriend and I have had sex a few times now and it has all been great, except that the first time, the condom broke. She is on birth control also, so we thought we'd be alright. But, she feels that she should have gotten her period several days ago and that is really scaring us. She has been having some bad cramps and feels like she is going to get her period soon, but it hasn't come yet. It's been about four or five days. She told me that when a girl is about to get her period that she can kind of just tell and it feels like she is going to get it and my girlfriend has been sure it was going to start and went to the bathroom to do what she needs to do, but it hasn't started. I just don't know what to do, i have never felt this scared in my entire life. We are both totally freaked out and I have no idea what to do. I also heard somewhere that stress can kind of throw a girl's cycle off and make it do weird things, is that true? Because she is under a lot of stress right now with everything and worrying for a few days about being pregnant. She has just burst out crying a couple times and i have felt like i was about to and I am so freaked. If anyone has anything to say, anything, whether it makes me feel better or if you tell me that it sounds like she's pregnant, PLEASE tell me. please.

okay, well my girlfriend and i have been having sex for a while and i've been hoping that we would eventually have oral sex, also. She is pretty open about sexual things and i guess i kind of figured that she would be into that along with me. But, her and I were talking the other day and she was getting many things out that she had been keeping inside for a pretty long time and I felt really great being able to be there to listen. At one point, the subject of her past relationship came up, that he asked her to do many things that made her uncomfortable, and she ended up telling me that she gave this boyfriend a blow job and she hated it. Right about then I was thinking "crap, I'm never going to get to experience a blow job". Now don't get me wrong, I respect and love her more than anything and I would not let a stupid thing like this get in the way of our amazing relationship, but I am very disappointed. Her ex was not a good guy, though, and she gave him the blowjob only because he kept telling her that if she loved him, she would do it. she thought she really loved him, which she now realizes that she obviously didn't, and was clearly taken advantage of. I was just wondering if the reason she hated giving head could possibly be due to the negative context of the only time she has done it. I mean, i really, really would like to experience that and I am really hoping that I can, since i think that we will be together for quite a while. Also, sorry if i'm boring you and wasting your time, but i have another question. If she doesn't like performing oral sex, does that mean she doesn't like receiving it? I would like to do it for her (and for me), but I don't know if that would make her uncomfortable also. It seems that I should just talk to her about the whole thing, but I don't want her to think anything bad about me, especially give her "flashbacks" of her ex. I don't know, I just need some advice. anything would be great, thanks.

well, my girlfriend and i have had sex twice now and i would like to try oral sex, but i don't know if she wants to. she is pretty open and seems like she would be willing to try new things, but i'm not sure about this. I mean, how many couples have oral sex also? is it as normal as it is made out to be? I really want to do it, but i don't really know how to go about initiating it and knowing whether or not she wants it. also, do many girls think that performing oral sex would be gross or disgusting? i don't know, i just need some tips and advice from people who know more than i do.

Okay, well i recently had sex for the first time and i have a few questions. First of all, the condom broke, which doesn't scare me too bad because she is also on birth control, but what measures can you take to try to prevent breakages? I think the condom may have gone on without leaving much space at the end and the hole was on the very end, so does that probably mean that was the reason? Also, i am uncircumcised and when the condom went on i didn't have my foreskin pulled back. i really couldn't feel all that much during sex and i was wondering if that was a reason. Would using a lubricant help to prevent tears or rips in the condom and does it make it more pleasurable? (it did get a little dry after a while). thanks a lot

my girlfriend and i had sex a couple days ago and when we were done we noticed that the condom broke. she is on birth control and is pretty sure that she wasn't on the ovulating days of her cycle. is there still much for me to worry about?

okay, well i just found out the other day that my girlfriend takes birth control pills. I think we may have sex sometime relatively soon, so i'm wondering if i definitely should use a condom along with her taking the pills, or what. I mean, what's the statistic on how effective pills are? As far as std's go, i have nothing to worry about, so my only concern is pregnancy. Could anybody help me? Thanks

okay, i am pretty inexperienced at a lot of stuff, so i have a question. my girlfriend and i (we've been dating for about a month) regularly have pretty extended make-out sessions, but i don't know when to go any further than that. further meaning "feeling her up" and stuff like that. how do i know when is the right time? i don't want to do something she doesn't want me to do. any help would be greatly appreciated, thanks.

okay, i'm an uncircumcised guy and i don't know whether or not to be afraid of what a girl will think of that. do girls think it's gross or anything? it just seems that circumcision is considered so normal that i don't know if i should feel self conscious about it or not. i don't have a problem with being uncircumcised and i realize it's how a penis is supposed to be, but do the majority of girls think that? help me out if you can, thanks.

Okay, first of all i'm glad that I found out about this site because I can't talk directly to people about some things. Well, I have never been in a sexual situation with a girl yet, but I am worried that when she finds that I am uncircumcised she will be grossed out or something. Hopefully I am just worrying too much, because I don't think it is that uncommon for guys too be uncircumsised. If any girls with their opinions could let me know whether I should keep worrying or not that would be great. Also, if you feel strongly on the negative side of this please don't respond; it will not make me feel any better.

Okay, well, besides asking girls out by aking them to go to a dance, I really don't have a clue how to do it. I don't have my driver's license yet and I live in a town about an hour from anything interesting, so I can't ask a girl out to the movies or something like that. Besides just asking " will you go out with me?", which seems to sound kind of dumb and be a little bit too straight-forward, how do I do it? I really need some advice because I don't have a clue.......

I am a junior in highschool and I was wondering if me dating a freshman would be bad in any way. I see tons of guys my age and older going out with freshman, but then again they aren't exactly role model material so I don't know. If a few other people could tell me their opinions that would be great. thanks

I have only asked a girl on a date once, so I am pretty inexperienced. There is this girl that I am liking more and more every day and we are starting to talk to each other a lot more and I want to ask her out so extremely bad, but I don't know how to go about doing it. she seems so amazing and I don't want to make our friendship stop and seem weird because I ask her out and she doesn't want to, but then again I won't get anywhere just sitting around thinking about her. I would really appreciate it if someone could give me advice or let me know if I should elaborate a bit on the situation first before I could get advice. thanks alot