Jabe

This is like the 100th post about this question. Just take a couple minutes to look on your own. Dont be lazy!

Yes, I agree with Runnergrl. My sister and her boyfriend have been away frome achother alot because of school too. But when they do get to see eachother, they are always together, still having fun. Don't let college get in the way. What you have is hard to find. Keep it as long as you can man! Good Luck! - Jabe

Hello, Sorry for the length (I have an example tucked in there, lol) I've been going out with this girl for almost a month and it seems she has alot of mood changes. I think she has alot of problems at home with her family, but she doesn't want to tell me them. She is 2 years younger than me, and her friends say that she just isn't used to having a boyfriend that is a friend as well as a boyfriend. (if you know what I mean) Anyways, this really bothers me, that she can't tell me her problems. I just find out everything from her friends. She also doesn't like telling me if she has other plans. For example: She told me to call her after I got of work (5:00 pm). So I call her, there's no answer, but then she calls right back. It's around 5:30 and usually when she eats dinner. So I asked if she was eating, and she said yes, so she said she'd call me back after dinner. It's 7:30pm and still no call. So I call her and her mom says she went to her friends. Why couldn't she have just told me that in the first place. If she had of told me that, then I wouldn't have cared. I would have made other plans. But when she doesn't tell me this, I'm sitting at home waiting. And then I bring it up and she tries to deny every little detail and wonder waht the big deal is?! Is she too wrapped up in herself? Another thing is she likes to hang out with me, but she rarely calls me. She will tell me she'll call me, but she doesn't. So I end up calling her and we hang out, and she wants to hangout n' everything. Is she afraid to call me or something? Some days she's fine and others she just seems so bummed out. And seeing her like that just bums me out, and I don't have the slightest clue what's going on. Her friends say she lies alot and acts different alot, and they say they just get used to it. But I can't just get used to it. It bothers me alot and I like her so much, I don't want to end things. I want to help her and build up our relationship, but I just don't know how! And i feel that I'm always b!tching her out for things, but I just want to help the situation and get past these problems early on in the relationship, so we'll be fine in the future. Am I doing things wrong? Am I getting to ahead of myself? Has anyone seen anythign like this before? Any help or advice is very much appreciated! Thanks in advance - Jabe

It's because she doesn't feel attracted to you. You can't force attraction or decide who you want to be attracted to. She may have been early on, but since you guys became friends, real good friends, then the attraction may have slipped. And a woman is not going ot go for a guy who she is not attracted to. She needs that spark. Once you are in as a friend, it's extremely hard to become more then a friend. Time off from this girl may help, like evepm said she will come back to you if you become less friends. And once that happens you can come back to her not trying to be her friend, but trying to be more then that. Then maybe you can get that spark back. Hope that helps in some way.

This was my first question about this topic ever! I have asked tons of other questions and this just came up because I heard some girls talking about it. This same quesstion was asked by a girl and she got responses. Not some b!tching session from you! This is a forum for answers and to help people, not make them feel like sh!t for asking 1 question that may not appeal to you . The girl I'm going for probably doesnt care, but it be nice to know what girls think. Thanks alot

He didnt ask what the bible thought of it. He wanted to know ways he could make it better for his girl. Stop preaching. Did it ever occur to you that not all of us believe in God? cheers to that

girls please, what do you prefer ... shaven completely, trimmed, or growin wild for pubic hair? or do you care? .. what about hair that is growing up on the shaft of the penis? or hair on balls? i know alot will say its not necessary .. but when talking with girls or over hear them talkign, i heard "if only all guys shaved" .. guess it depends on the girl .. but i don't want to ask this girl what she prefers .. she'd probably say doesnt matter even though she probably does care.... or maybe not .. i donno.. thanks

it's natural to enjoy or get horney off of other girls .. especially at a strip club .. nothings gonna happen between him and a dancer .. he's going there with you, not with the dancer .. i wouldnt worry about it, and that's even if you go to one .. you can probably persuade him out of going, if he really watns to go that bad .. tell him you'll put ona show for him

as long as it aint growing wild .. keep it trimmed up, all shaved, doesn't matter .. as long as you maintain it in some way

hey, just wondering or the guys out there .. if your g/f is sucking you off .. how long does it take you to ejaculate ... and if it takes only a couple minutes .. what do the girls think of that ? thanks for any help

sure glad I dont have one of those

I gottem there too .. no complaints yet

Hey, ok so me and this girl have been having a real great time together and we've been hanging out lots, etc. So I ask her out and she says yes .. we still haven't kissed yet. I heard that the first kiss is a big one and I don't know how to do it. Should it be while we're alone? or with a few friends swimming or what? any help on that would be great thanks. Also .. how much is too clingy? I dont want to be, but I just really enjoy hanging out with her.. When i'm not with her I get this feelign in my stomache.. you probably know what I mean. Also .. is calling everyday .. to talk or make plans to much? Thanks for any help! PS. She is 2 years younger then me .. so she has different friends than I do .. any suggestions on that? Should I try n hang ou twith her friends more n such? Thanks again - Jabe

teasing is real good .. girls love it even if they don't show it . plus if you tease them you'll prolly get a hit on the arm or somethign .. then that gives you a reason to spank her @ss .. good luck

ok, thanks guys!

Hey, I've known this girl for a lil while and we've really been hitting it off .. we both liek eachother .. and I'm just waiting for the right time to make it official between us .. but she acts a little different then I would hope .. for example .. her n her best friend picked me up from work the other day and we went to ym friends house .. he had bout 30 ppl over .. anyways we are sitting on the couch together .. then she all of a sudden moves over to sit with her best friend .. understandable .. I didn't mind .. then a bunch off ppl came in and filled the couch they were on .. and an empty spot came up beside me .. so I kind of gave her a point with my head to come sit beside me .. I could tell she watned to come by her facial expression .. but she didn't ... then her friend watned to leave (she always leaves parties early, and shes her ride so she hasta go with her) .. so anyways thats kind of weird .. then tmw we were supposed to go to another party together but now she says she isnt going .. I think because her friend isnt goiing? How do I get her to come to parties without her friend .. it's liek she has to be with her .. but then she bought me a ticket for her school dance and wants me to go to that .. So I'm thinkin she wants to be with me .. but only when she has a friend there with her .. I'm really confused and not feeling the best about this .. can anyone give me some ideas here .. or if things are still goin well .. THANKS for any help!!

You could ask her? Or maybe play with her hair .. watch how she reacts ..

It could mean she is just friendly. All my chick friends play with ym hair and every other guys hair .. just cuz we're all tight. So it could mean that or that she wants you back ..

yeah i'd say the majority don't .. One of my good friends loves it and we masturbate over our cams lol ..

for example .. if it takes me 10 mins ot cum while masterbating .. will I cum in 5 mins with a girl giving me head .. or longer? .. or can it depend?

yeah I didn't think it would .. just good to hear you guys are with me. thanks!

alrighty .. saweet .. thanks

I would say it depends where you are. For example, one night I was laying on a couch with a girl .. I was laying agaisn thte back and she was layign infront of me .. So I just started rubbing and tickling her belly .. and moving my hands along her legs .. and then I would slip my hand uner .. then come back out .. get her to want you down there .. slip your hand down there a couple times .. then go further down .. then it's time to unzip her .. or if you get her really wanting it, she'll unzip it for you. then once you have her unzipped you can go under her underwear .. But if you are on a bed with more room .. you could always take her pants off and then her underwear .. all depends .. but I suggest you tease her with your hands before going down. Hope this helps!

Hey, I just started dating someone who has had much more experience then I have. She has had sex with ther last b/f, they broke up a while ago .. but I don't have much experience at all. I told her I've only been with a couple of girls and she said that was a good thing (also im a virgin) .. So I'm getting the feeling she doesnt care at all .. but any comments from girls or guys would be helpful .. Thanks alot!

alright thanks a lot!