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  1. Jabe
    Yeah, I am working over Christmas so I can buy her and my family gifts. I'm just saying the hotel idea would not work out.
  2. Jabe
    I'm in college and have 0 coin.
  3. Jabe
    lol, well I was thinking about asking my parents just to leave for the night haha. Or I'm sure they will be out for Christmas parties too, so I'll get something planned out I guess.
  4. Jabe
    Hey, My girlfriend's Semi-Formal dance is coming up (pretty big thing around here) and I won't be able to make it. I am coming home for Christmas and I really want to get some love songs on a CD so we can dance to them. The thing is, our parents are always home and I was thinking about parking somewhere and using my car stereo, but it's freezing outside this time of year. I don't think she'd enjoy freezing her butt off. Even if I did try my best to keep her warm. Any ideas? Thanks alot! PS. I want to do something really special for her this holiday, so any romantic ideas (with low budget) at all would be great too, thanks!
  5. Jabe
    Well no. She does a lot for me to show she loves me aswell. I do make her feel safe, cofmortable, loved, etc but she makes me feel that way too. That is good is it not?
  6. Jabe
    There is no way I can let her go. I need to get hypnotised outta this or something, haha.
  7. Jabe
    Hello, I've been going out wiht my girlfriend for 6 months. We went out for a month over almost 2 years ago, and things didn't work out. Anyway, during that month, she had cheated on me once. She was drunk and made out with some jerk off. I know it didn't mean anything though. I am jealous by nature I guess, but with her I am even more jealous. I don't know why and I can't stop thinking about her cheating on me. It feels like I have a disease. All I think about is her cheating on me when I'm not with her. But at the same time, I know that she would never cheat on me. We are in love and I know she loves me soo soo much, but I just can't stop thinking about it. It's getting to the point where it's getting in the way of other things in my life. I actually get jealous if one of my buds gives her a ride home from school, or even if she's talking to guys at school. It's soo ridiculous... but I can't help it. Is there anything that I can do to help this? Thanks so much.
  8. Jabe
    me and my ex did that for a while .. but then i got more serious with a new girl, so i called it quits on her. she thought it was weird that it was me callin it quits and her begging for it.. but im happier now with my new girl and as for my ex .. well lets not talk about that.
  9. Jabe
    Thanks for all the advice everyone. It appears its all in the mind and I just gotta take my mind off it. Thanks
  10. Jabe
    Hello, well I am a 17 year old who has probs gettin it up. I can get it up fine on my own. but with my gals, it takes forever to get it up .. and when they toss on a condom, it will go soft by the time it's on. This sucks and my girlfriend thinks its cuz im not attracted to her, when I am soo attracted to her. I told her its not her fault and it must just be the way I am ... I heard something about it could be from "over masturbation" like if you started masturbating early .. I was probably around 10 when I started. Am I screwed for life now? I can't bring Viagara to college and carry it with me at all times can I lol. This sucks so much.. Argh!!! Any help please?
  11. Jabe
    Thank you very much both of you. Appreciate it.
  12. Jabe
    Hey, me and my girlfriend are def. ready to have sex. It will be her first time and she really wants to lose it to me. There is no question there. We've done everything else and are totally comfortable with talking about sex, etc. Anyway she is just scared that it's going to hurt her alot. I told her that we'll go at her pace and to tell me if it hurts, but she is still nervous about it. Is there anything that helps in the process so it doesn't hurt as much, or does it even hurt that much? I've never had sex with a virgin before, I've just heard stories of it hurting.. alot! Thank you!
  13. Jabe
    I really enjoyed that. Good stuff!
  14. Jabe
    Well what I thought should have worked like a charm .. didnt for me haha. I got my gal to suck me off first, I came and then I went down on her and then we were gonna have sex, but since I just came previously, I couldnt get it back up and neither could she! lol the good thing though was that it wasn't embarrasing cause she is rteally understanding but we ended up layin there trying to get me back up and we couldnt lol, and then my parents came home and we missed out on sex for that night lol. That was this weekend. NExt weekend I guess I'll try somethign different. I suggest you just talk to him about foreplay and that its important that you use it and if he cares about you coming to orgasm then he will go for it.
  15. Jabe
    What about hair on your sack? My buddy said he uses a razor for that too, but frick .. I am too scared for that. What's the story here? When I use a razor on my other hair down there I get stupid red bumps lol .. I think cuz I go against the hair growth or whaever. But I have to, to get it close enough. I use a lotion afterwards too. Still doesnt help.
  16. Jabe
    I just broke up with my girlfriend and I can't stop crying. I am the one that broke up with her, because A. I want to be free and single in college this September and B. I have feelings for my other ex again and we are havin a good time togehter. But the thing is, I don't even know if these feelings are as strong for my other ex then they are for the girl I just broke up with, whom I loved. Why am I doing this?! It feels like I am doing it because I need a change, I don't know. Alls I know is we are both effin devistated.
  17. Jabe
    So I hung out with girl 2 again tonight and had a blast as usual! My girlfriend got all mad that I wasn't with her which kinda got on my nerves. I think I am just going to tell her that I don't want to move this quickly and I'll be goin away so I don't want to get too attached and see how she reacts to that. If she can't handle that then so be it. I am young and have plenty of time. As for girl 2 I am going to tell her what I am doing with my current gf and tell her that me going to college ma affect us and that I will give it a try, but I can't guarantee her anything. If that's cool with her then bonus. If not then I guess I have an interesting summer coming up as a single guy headin off to school in the fall.
  18. Jabe
    Or rather then looking at all the negatives. You can look on the positive side. You will never know anything if you don't try. Everyone gets their heart broke and you'll never find the right girl for you if you always think, well what if she goes back to her ex? or what if she stops liking me? Go for it and give it a try man! What do you have to lose. If she does end up going back then move on with your life and meet someone new, and use what you've learned from that relationship to help your new relationships. If you really like this girl, then go for her!!
  19. Jabe
    Yes, I think it is guilt. But what do I say? I want to be with girl 2 until I go to school in September. And she knows that I am going off to school .. And I'm with my girlfriend outta guilt, I donno how I could talk ot her again and she hangs out with all my friends, etc.
  20. Jabe
    Hello, I am stuck in between 2 amazing girls at the moment. One I am dating now and have been for aobut 4 months. She is awesome but is sooo wrapped up in me and talking about marrying me and talks about way down the future and we are only 17! I am going off to college next year and she is all not wanting me to go, etc. Then there is girl 2 who I've know for a year, we went out for a month of that, but she's liked me since day 1. She went through some hard times and still battles a type of depression. She is amazing and I love being with her. I like being with girl 2 more and have more fun with her and my girlfriend is cool with that because she knows that girl 2 needs me to be there for her.. But now I like girl 2. If I break up with my girlfriend, she would beee so hurt and because I like her so much, it would leave me hurting just as bad. This would be the same for girl 2 if I stayed with my girlfriend. One thing is, I know that my current girlfriend will always be there for me as girl 2 .. I don't trust as much .. but I just can't pull away from her. Everything reminds me of girl 2 and not my girlfriend, and I'm finding I'm not talking to my girlfriend like I used to. She's gettin a lil upset about that. I just feel like I don't want to lead her on anymore .. But then I don't want to lose her. Ahh man I am confused. Is this one of those follow the heart typa dealios? I am going to college next year, and maybe I should just go off single, but I don't want to lose these girls, but then again I wanna have the time of my life in college. ANY ANY advice would be grand here. Thanks alot!
  21. Jabe
    well i'm sure she'd like anything. but i was just curious, for myself, if i was any good. that's my first poem and i used to hate poetry, and couldnt write at all. now i've been reading more of it on here and wrote my own. and i want to continue. i guess even if it wasn't good i should still keep writing. that will only make me better.
  22. Jabe
    thanks man, well she is my girlfriend, so sexual is good lol. and she would actually get turned on by the "f*ck it" line haha .. love my girl. ps. im from ontario too.. wooo!
  23. Jabe
    all these views, but no comments? please, is it any good?
  24. Jabe
    Here's amy FIRST poem. I wrote it for my girlfriend for her birthday. Giving it to her on Wednesday. The lines about the numbers, I got that idea from a poem off here. Thanks. Couple inside jokes in here, so don't think I'm weird lol (aka. biting) ---------------------------------- Take a pen, draw a smile accross my face, I think of you, and my heart begins to race. I need you now, let me see that smirk, Because slow n steady just aint gonna work. If I start walking now, I'll be there soon, We can share kisses under the nightsky moon. Take my hand, come fly with me, Soar towards the clouds, look at all we can see. Hold on tight, and don't look down, Wave goodbye, let's ditch this town. Just you and me girl, that's all we need, Forget it all, lets pick up the speed. Let me hold you, I promise I won't let go, Because without you, I just feel so low. Let me kiss you, or would you prefer a bite? F*ck it, I just want to touch you all night. Bite me back baby, I know you want to, Isn't it true, that I bring that out in you? Cuddle up, fall asleep in my arms, Go to sleep girl, turn off all the alarms. I wanna watch you dream, close those beautiful eyes, I'm telling the truth, I haven't told one lie. However much you may think I want you, Multiply by one hundred and add one hundred too. Yes, I know math ain't your subject, But is it working? Are you turned on yet? Happy Birthday to a girl that deserves so much more, What did you choose a guy like me for?
  25. Jabe
    Wow, thanks for that great post, alot of good stuff there. That makes me feel alot better about the situation and knowing I can help her more is awesome. Thanks again for your post and all the previous posts. Thanks alot! - Jayb
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