Mischivo

First of all, don't listen to Starlet or murmaid girl. Plenty of people have sex, and very few get pregnant. You just hear more of the pregnancies than of the sex that goes unmentioned. And besides that, having sex after marrying is no guarantee that you love someone. People get married after knowing each other for a week, you think that marriage will last? What if you decide to divorcE? I bet starlet would never have sex after that... right? Starlet, your backword ways of thinking, and aggressive means of imposing your beliefs on people is annoying and illogical. I'd hate to think what kind of hell your children will go through or what kind of thoughts you'll stick in their heads. Grow up. Secondly. How old are your siblings? Aren't they trustworthy enough with this information? Just tell them you and your lady want some privacy. If they're older than you, I'm sure they'll understand - it's hard for me to picture them running and telling your parents.

I'm a firm believer that you must be comfortable discussing such matters with someone you're so close to. If she has less sex drive than you, and you want sex, tell her! Tell her how you feel, tell her that you have needs. Explain to her that you want to MAKE LOVE to her more often. It's not about sex this and sex that. Tell her that if you were with her just for sex, you'd be long gone (any idiot could realize that). This is a note to anyone who has a low sexdrive and a partner with a high sex drive: JUST DO IT! Have sex with them, holy crap, it's not that big of a deal. Give him or her a damn orgasm and make them happy. It only takes 5 minutes. 5 mintues a day, or every few days isn't going to intrude on your soap schedule!!!

Sorry, but drinking milk out of the carton is disgusting. Not because she's afraid of your mouth or saliva (she's not, she kisses you, right?), but because your backwash enters the milk (there there is always backwash) and the bacteria begins eating away at the milk... result: curdled milk much faster than usual.

I think you should confront your wife about how you feel. However, you must keep your cool and not lose your temper. No matter what hurtful things she says, don't lash out or backfire. Ask her to listen to your side of the story. Tell that you DO help with the kids and with household chores. Ask her what more she expects you to do, discuss this with her... However DON'T compare! Don't say something like "I do more than you...". That will flip her out! You need to figure out why you're having problems... Or maybe she's cheating and she's trying to drive you away before you find out?

My advice is this. If she's of the legal age of sexual consent (and if you plan this eventually), do it. However, don't do it just for the sex. If you like her, and she shares your feelings, then it is alright. To the guys complaining against this: why bother? If she doesn't date him, she'll just end up dating some 14 year old idiot. How is that any better? So she'll fall in "love" with the 14 year old, is it any better? No! Anywho... I can assure you that if you live in Canada, it is fully legal for you to engage in vaginal sex with anyone at or above 14 years of age. For more references about age of consent in different political systems go to link removed

Have you ever considered that they don't really tell you much about their lives because they don't know you well? Face it, if a stranger walks up to a girl and says "hi, what'd you do this weekend?", she'll feel mighty awkward, unless the stranger is super sociable or very attractive. Anyway, you need to stop going up to them and saying stuff like that, don't do it! Go up to them if you actually need something, or if you're actually interested, don't expect them to fill in the gaps. They won't do it, especially if your body language is saying what you're intending... they'll just retreat. Or you could play the smartass game. You ask a girl what she did and she says "nothing", follow up with something like "wow, so you just sat around for 2 days staring at the wall?" There are 3 things that might be wrong with you: 1. You are extremely ugly 2. You are trying to talk to people that really couldn't care less because they dont' know you at all. Going up to someone suddenly and out of the blue rarely works. You have to build up on it. 3. You're approaching girls that are WAY out of your league, talk to ugly chicks, they talk to anyone who isn't mean to them

Okay, don't listen to swingfox and his wacky romance suggestions. It probably won't involve a big romantic occasion and lots of massaging, it will be spontaneous. The only tip you need is to be rythmic with your thrusts - don't be randomly fast and slow, girls hate that. There, that is the only suggestion you need. Everyone knows how to have sex, it's instinctual... just keep a good medium rythm and she'll be happy. You don't have to be all fancy and stuff. Good luck.

Okay, you know what, she likes you. The rubbing legs thing, that's a DEAD GIVEAWAY! But don't get all sexy now, you hear?! Play along with it, talk to her real suave like. Next time she taps your foot or rubs your leg, look at her eyes, and say something like "I think your foot likes me... what do you think?" lol, well, come up with something better. Go on a friendly movie date. Talk about a movie you like with her, or want to see, and ask if she'll go with you. Than you can judge her body language there. Put your hand on the elbowrest, palm up... see if she goes for it. See if she leans towards you while watching the movie. Ofcourse these signs are always easy to see if you're a third party. I never noticed them myself

Sorry Hun, that's a bad idea. Here is why: Suppose he finds this and he doesn't feel the same way about you. He will feel very awkward. He won't know how to tell you without breaking up your friendship or such. So he will have 2 choices, to talk to you about it or pretend he didn't see the letter or it got lost and he'll avoid a confrontation. Whilst this is happening, you will be questioning whether or not he likes you, whether he lost it or ignores you, and such. This doubt will drive you nuts, you will see every negative thing he says as repellant! Get it? Ofcourse, that is if he doesn't like you, he might as well like you but will still feel weird about the letter. You should just be coy about it. Ask him if he thinks you're goodlooking, just in a casual conversation, say, about looks! Ofcourse I'm basing this on personal experience, I would tell a friend if I found them attractive or not. It doesn't mean that you're ugly foresay, it means that you're not what he finds appealing. Or you could just tell him! The same amount of harm can come from this except the uncertainty part of him avoiding the question by tossing the letter Or you could try to seduce him! Invite him for a few beers, get drunk but not too drunk and have sex with him. I think you're at the age when casual sex is exceptable, especially if you like that. Actually, scratch that, it's a bad idea! In the end, I'll say this: I've had plenty of friends who had crushes on me, it's nothing that breaks a friendship!

Alright, hopefull she doesn't post here, but let's not mind the type of course this is. Alright, I've never talked to her, and I only noticed her a little while back because I was pursuing someone else... that didn't go too well, but I realize now that she wasn't the right one. Anywho, so this girl's name I know, the teacher made everyone's name clear. It is a weird class, many people sit in different places all thet time, and she keeps switching. I can sit beside her one day, but she'll be in a different seat the next, and if I follow her there, I don't know what she'll think I'm not desperate for a relationship with her, I'd just like being her friend (but I don't know her at all, maybe she's a bitch or nasty or something). So I need to somehow start a conversation. I don't know where she comes from before class, and I know that she rushes off in the complete different direction than me at the end of class. I'm clueless here. I want to make a nice friendly impression, but I want it to seem spontaneous and unforced... unplanned. But how? There are maybe 3 minutes to talk before the professor starts teaching, and she's normally late! Some people do chat quietly while the prof. teaches, however they are friends and they probably don't care that the other talks. If I start talking to her during class time, I might offend her or make her think I'm rude. What advice can you guys or gals provide? She is VERY Pretty, however she doesn't look like those beautiful girls that ignore anyone but a hotty bodybuilder. I'm not built or anything, but I'm not ugly. I know a bunch of people who've had crushes on me, however that doesn't really help, that was in highschool. The blow here is, I don't have any sex appeal... just looks and a nice personality. I have so little sex appeal, that the girl who I've had sex with for 6 month, and who is still my friend who I love dearly, she told me that I am not a sexual person. She said she can't picture me having sex with people! Ahh. That is some serious issue! I am so bad at talking to girls I don't know well... I have nothing to say. I need help. PS. This girls seems polite, and modest. I also believe she's shy, but not too sure. I remember she was asked something by prof. in class and she turned quite red. Thank you for reading this long, boring post

Wow wow! He's living with another women even though you're still married. What are you waiting for?! He's obviously forgotten about you guys. File for divorce, get half of what he has, and force him to pay his child support. There is nothing more annoying then women who are so madly in love that they can't see anything but. He doesn't love you, plane and simple. I know the feeling inside you won't go away, yet you must push him away to feel any better.

Why don't you just ask her? It won't be totally out of the blue considering all the things she's been doing... And to answer your question, yes, she is probably attracted to you and likes you.

I just want to inform the repliers that she ended the relationship first time around. Maybe if she didn't do that, he would be with her... but if ifs and buts were candy and nuts...

I'm going to flame here... No one is marrying you if she gets pregnant. She doesn't love you. Having a child doesn't mean marriage. Okay? No sex before marriage? Where were you raised... I hope it's not because of some stupid religious reasons. I can't stand those. If she gets pregnant, she can abort. Or you should have told her to take a morning after pill!