After 6.5 years of marriage, and 3.5 children later(i was 4 months pregnent at the time) , my husband decided to walk out on us. he told me he didn't love me and it would never work. He was the assistant pastor of a church. because we were in their house i moved, 80 miles away. i wished i wouldn't have because i get the blame for leaving him, of all things.
to make a very long story short, he is now living wih a woman and her 3 children, which are his top priority. If my girls ever saw their daddy... father during the past 9 months, its been because of me taking them to see him. he hasn't paid child support either.
how long should i wait, hoping he will come back to God and us. i still love him, but i don't know if i will ever be able to forgive him for hurting us so deeply.
iam thimking about filing for divorce the first week in jan, but am kind a leary about it. any suggestions or advise?
