My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half now. He got a computer a year ago. He has his own password and put me on as a user (so that I log into my own area with my own password). I thought to myself: He is hiding something from me.
This weekend, he left the computer logged onto his name and left the room for about 10 minutes. Since he has lied to me before in the past, and because this 'password' thing was indeed strange for me, I searched his PC. I found about 30 pictures of different females nude. They were not bad pornographic pics, just picutres of women who were naked. Some looked professionally taken, and some looked amateur.
I have always had a problem with him communicating. I have found out a couple of months ago that he has a second email address which I never knew of. Three months ago, he lied striaght to my face about meeting with a 'friend'(a female who was in love with him and visa versa). He has lied to me about communicating with this friend over via email because he did not how I would react. And he blames me for not trusting him? And now this. I have always given him the opportunities to be open with me and share his secrets and fantasies. Not much was shared there ...
I am a very attractive woman aged 27. I believe I satisfy him in every possible way and more. I do everything for him. I know he loves me very much too. He is 26.
This sight of 30 nude pictures on his PC under a phony file name makes me nervous. Is it healthy for him to have? Is it normal for a guy to have these? Shouldn't he be able to share these with me? Isn't that what a relationship is about? To share these fantasies with one another?
Help! I need some advice.
Thank you.
