Hi, this is my first post so i hope i get it right.I guess like alot of couples we have a sex problem.But it seems like im the one with the problem.I have a strong sex drive(typical male right?).my wife does not seem to have any interset in sex.Maybe two times a year she comes to me for sex,the rest of the time im trying to have sex with her.But when she wants it she has to have it and i better be willing.We make love about two or three times a month with me being the one who initiates,even when i try i get excuesses or she says thats all im interested in.I end up feeling rejected and depressed.When i try to tell her my feeling and desires she ends up getting angry and i end up stuffing my feelings.Then some days when she asks me whats wrong i dont want to tell her or fear telling her so we dont fight.I feel like she is a selfish lover.I have needs too, i try to forfill hers but its like mine dont matter.I have been trying to tell her my feelings for six years but she does nothing about. Unlike a lot of guys I am very sensative and emotional man,my downfall i guess.I love and desire my wife,she is in so many ways the most wonderful person i ever met.And she is a wonderful mother.I thought marriage would be different.I thought we are suppose to make sacrafices and do things to make each other happy even if we dont want to.If we love each other we should do anything for each other.I feel my needs emotionally and physically are being ignored.We have been married for a year and lived togather for six and have a son who is six. Any advice would be helpful.Thanks
