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  1. CrazyKarl13
    its okay to be nervous. if your with a girl who may have a little more confidence and able to make the first move, you should have no problem. just find a girl that makes you feel good about yourself. if its your size, or your body.. or anything along those lines that your worried about.. DONT! You wont regret it if you face your fear.. I promise
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    Well actually I'm 19. The only reason I've never really come to orgasm, is maybe I haven't tried too much. Haha.. I dunno.. I think it's kind of weird when I do it myself. Ive had these feelings before, but I don't know if they are just because I'm aroused, or if it's part of the orgasm. Like getting intense butterflies (almost like i have to pee), shaking after intercourse, tensing up. I haven't gotten anything too extreme though. Does this mean I'm getting there?? agh im so confused!
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    Hey whats up, I just have a few questions about coming to Orgasm when masterbating. I've had sex about 20 times, and I've never had a real orgasm before! I really don't even know what it feels like!! So I think if it ever came, I might not know what it is! So my questions are as follows.. What kind of stuff happens when you have a clitoral orgasm? What kind of stuff happens when you have a g-spot orgasm? I kind of want to find out myself what spots are good for me, because my boyfriend can't really find them. So what are some good techniques that I can do to come to orgasm just by using my finger? It sounds weird, but I'd really like to try, but I have no clue what to do!! Thanks for your help [/b]
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    Whats the question? Haha.. I think you did a good job getting rid of her. Tell her to save the drama for her mamma
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    Thanks. Gosh, why do all guys have to be different?! Haha gosh why cant they all be the same.. heh, oh well!! I'll see what I can do.. but I still get nervous!!
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    let her know that you trust her, but don't come on too strong about it! just tell her that it basically bothers you, but you love her and trust that she wont do anything. maybe that can put pressure on her so if she was thinking about doing it, she'll feel bad if she actually went through with it. but honestly, i dont think she should be hanging around her ex's anyways! if she doesnt see a problem with it, maybe you should ask her if it would be okay if you went out with one of your ex's. sounds a bit childish, but then maybe she can put herself in your shoes.. i dunno, just a suggestion
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    doesnt look bite sized to me lol
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    Okay that sounds good! haha. the only question is just that I dont really know the male terms. Like when you say shaft and what not! I don't know the places that feel good! I guess I could find out, but I think I would seem more experienced if I already knew lol. Thanks
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    I pretty much agree with everyone else. Being gentle is a must! I would just start off by kissing, and then maybe move to some foreplay. By that time, she'll be in the mood. It hurts A LOT for the girl for the first time, mostly just when it goes in.. after that it should be fine. But just be very gentle when you bring it into her.. and I would reccomend you on top because it may be too much pressure or be too overwhelming for her if she was to be on top the first time. And when you're having sex with her, just make sure you say cute sincere things like I love you, or you're so beautiful. Stuff like that. And don't forget to cuddle with her afterwards! Haha very important. Good luck and be safe!!
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    Yeah.. it really depends on your hymen. It's not like there is a simple answer. Every girl is different. When my friend bled, it was like a puddle. But when I bled, I couldn't tell until I went to the bathroom. But totally be safe and I would reccomend also putting a towel underneath you. Another factor is what kind of birth control you are on. My first time, I was on the depo shot, and I had all sorts of spotting going on, so of course that got in the way as well. But don't expect it to be too much or too gross. People make it out to be a bigger deal than it is!
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    I'm not quite sure there is way to NOT be jealous about it. I think it's perfectly normal. I would be worried if you WEREN'T concerned! I would be uncomfortable too if I was in the same situation. You can still let her know that it bothers you. She won't think you're being overprotected. Just let her know that it makes you feel uncomfortable, but tell her that you still trust her! Because just letting her go when she doesn't know it bothers you, she might go and do it all the time because she thinks you're okay with it. Let her know how you feel. It wont come off strong at all.
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    Hey whats up. Well, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months, and have been sexually active for the last two. I have never given him head, we just basically went straight to sex. Now that we are pretty far into our relationship, I'm more comfortable giving him head. The only thing is I don't know how to do it! If someone doesn't feel awkward explaining it to me, that would be GREAT! Also, if you could just be a bit specific.. because I'm not very familiar with male anatomy terms, so like describing exactly where it is you should focus on would be great! Thanks so much! Hope this isn't too stupid lol.
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    boyfriend and girlfriend= the relationship is pretty serious and you can't see other people. but you still do other sex related stuff. friend with benefits= your relationship is stictly based on sex. it's just like a booty call.. and it doesnt phase you at all. and you still go out and see other people, and go to them when you want sex from someone else. Pretty self-explainatory..
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    Oh wow, I have never heard of that! LoL.. especially after one time! I'm not going to draw to any conclusions and say that she cheated on you.. but you shouldn't rule it out as a possiblity. The other possiblity is that maybe she has being masterbating a lot.. with either her fingers or a dildo..? So don't draw to any conclusions just yet.. I would confront her about it.
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    my boyfriend went hard everytime we made out in the beginning of our relationship too. But after a couple of months he was totally cool. I think when you start to move to different things.. that when you kiss again.. it wont seem like as good as it use to because you are use to doing bigger and better things lol. so it wont be as hard as you are use to. or maybe you could just jack off a lot lol.. thats just my suggestion
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    trust is up to you. no one can tell you how to trust or tell you what to do. it really is up to you. he needs to say it, or somehow show you that you have nothing to doubt or worry about. if he hasnt done any of those things, i can understand why it would be hard to trust him. but if you really love him, you can show him you love him by trusting him to go places without your consent or without you telling who to not talk to.
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    I am currently on the depo shot. I have had some side effects that I just want to make sure are normal.. so if anyone knows, it would be greatly appreciated! First thing is first, I've been on the shot ever since about the end of November, and I started spotting shortly after, and HAVE been spotting ever since. And it was kind of a concern because everytime me and my boyfriend have sex, the blood usually gets in the way and gets everywhere. Is this normal to bleed during/after sex when still on the shot? cuz it usually gets pretty bad. Second, when i spot or bleed, it usually is like a brownish color. Is that normal. And every now and then I'll go to the bathroom and it's RED.. The two different colors really confuse me. How does the spotting and bleeding usually take to end? I heard six months maximum.. but one girl told me that she did for the first couple of weeks and didn't bleed after that. Thanks.. any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated!
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    I'm not in that situation, but I do have some kind of advice. maybe just TRY it! Nothing wrong with trying.. and trying to stick it out. Maybe just try being friends with a girl at first and that's IT! And then later.. you may start to like her for who she is and begin a relationship with her where you feel comfortable around her. you really don't know what your missing without a good relationship. love is so awesome.. no matter what kind of mess it brings.. it's totally worth it. it's better to have loved and lost.. than to have never loved at all.. and that's the truth! Yeah, you'll have your problems.. but that comes with it and makes you human
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    my boyfriend absolutly loves it when i kiss him on the neck! like it seriously drives him crazy. just kinda suck on it or lick it lol. but SOME guys.. not ALL aren't very sensitive on their neck.. so it doesn't feel as good. but some really like it. you should ask the guy.. or just do it, and see how he reacts.. If he like closes his eyes and starts breathing harder.. you'll know he likes it. Or if he just sits there... and doesnt say anything... not a good sign lol
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    i would expect it to be perfect. practice makes perfect.. so there really is no way to escape being "unexperienced". just start off by kissing with your mouth closed, and slowly open it wide just in case your boyfriend decides to slip something in your mouth haha. just pretend your licking a lolipop. you guys dont really do different things when kissing.. except one will have their tongue under or over the other's.. just depends. just practice.. and dont be afraid
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    dont be pressured AT ALL to do anything you dont want to do. you know you aren't ready for sex.. but if you aren't ready for other stuff too, DONT DO IT! there are some sex guides I can refer you to. its a really good website and let's you get more familiar with it. it's link removed
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    CrazyKarl13 replied to guber88's topic in Dating Advice

    it's really up to her. im 6'1, and my boyfriend is 6'. i admit it is a little weird at times.. like sitting on his lap or whatever.. but once you start going out or whatever, that type of stuff doesnt matter. if ONE INCH bothers a girl.. she's really not worth it because she can't look past it
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    I just usually always say I love you. Just random things. Like as soon as you see your bf/gf.. just say oh gosh you look hott today. I dunno my boyfriend always likes to hear that. Or if you guys ever talk about other relationships just mention how he/she doesn't even compare to them, and if you ever broke up, he/she would be hard to replace.
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    thank you soo much for all of your help! and yes, i don't want to fake it for long because i think it's wrong.. but i still need time to figure things out. i know it sounds like a stupid question, but i really do not know what it's going to feel like when i orgasm. i think maybe sometimes my boyfriend is too direct when he touches the clit and touches it right on, instead of around it, to the point where i can't take it anymore. does that sound like a possiblity? also when i get like some kind of cramping or major butterflies.. or to where it feels like i have to pee.. is that coming close? lol i really dont know what im doing. im such a nerd!!!!
  25. CrazyKarl13
    yes, id have to agree that it is a very random thing. you don't really plan it out or say anything. you just start by kissing. maybe if she's comfortable with it just grab her breasts while kissing her. or just work your way down from there to the stomach, and to further places down south lol. but make sure you still look at her and what not.
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