CrazyKarl13

I honestly think you should have him masterbate before you give him head. Just let him do it.. and then later go back and do it. Because most likely he will last longer the second time without having to hold it. Also, I think it's normal for guys to masterbate. My boyfriend still does, although he only sees me once a week, but I've been trying to get him to stop lol. But he doesnt do it every day. But guys will be guys. Giving head is one thing, but when they are pleasuring themselves, they know what they want, so masterbating might be just as good, if not better for them. Try maybe giving him a hand job? Ask him how he likes it? I think once maybe you got to the point where you wanted to have sex, the masterbating would be a less frequent thing. Hope I helped. Thanks

Hi.. I don't mean to sound rude or what not.. but my boyfriend has never made me come to an orgasm. I kind of feel bad because he tries so hard and there really isn't too much he can do. As bad as it sounds.. I wanted to know what some ways are that you can fake an orgasm. Like what kind of sounds do you have to make or what usually happens when you do? Also, do girls usually squirt anything when they orgasm.. I heard that some do. One last thing, what does an orgasm feel like? When im having sex i feel like i get really intense butterflies and I'm not sure if that means im close.. or it's just pleasureable. And as far as the clit goes - when he rubs it a lot i feel that's uncontrollable and i automatically try to pull it away because it is too much to handle. What do i do? Let him go.. ?although it feels kinda of weird/nice at the same time.. Sorry its hard to explain lol But any advice would be grateful

hey.. thank you for all your advice! you dont know how much it helps!! thanks again!!

Alright, here's my story. If any of you can help that would be amazing!! Okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months. I'm 18 and he's 19 and we're both virgins. Last week we were fooling around.. and one thing lead to another and we 'almost' had sex. He was going to, but did not have protection, and it kind of scared me. I stopped him and told him to stop and that we shouldn't do it. I was so nervous and scared in the first place of doing it, so him not having protection was just an excuse, and I'm glad he didn't have it. Is it normal to be this nervous?? I want to have sex with him, but just the thought of it scares me. Now, he has condoms, and I *think* that I'm ready to have sex with him, because I love him to death, but so many people have told me to wait for marriage. I think thats a wonderful idea, but I really love this guy, and want to show him in other ways how I feel, rather than just telling him. He's totally cool about it and wants it to be special for both of us and doesn't want me to be "unsure" when we do it. So how exactly do you go about doing it? It sounds corny to set a date on when to do it. Or should one thing lead to another, and have him ask me if I'm ready? Any advice?! HELLPP lol

Id have to agree with CrazyKing. If the girl constantly wants to be around you is touchy-feely.. I'd say that is a pretty big factor. Although, a lot of girls tend to flirt and lead guys on (hate girls like that), so you kind of have to consider what kind of girl she is. But really, if you REALLY want to know, ask how she feels, and tell her how you feel - Unless you dont want to ruin your friendship. It's up to you!

Considering that you've been with him for 2 years and have just started to begin to see eachother naked.. I think thats a big step. I don't know many people that have waited that long to do stuff like that.. but you might be young, I don't know. You should know if you're ready or not. The only thing that I would suggest is that you protect yourself. Better safe than sorry.

I'm currently in the same situation as you. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 19. I've never felt this way towards anyone in my life and its wonderful. I could totally see myself with him in the future, but I chose not to tell him, because I don't want to scare him away. I think that there is still hope that you could be meant for each other.. there is no right or wrong answer. It's what you believe in your heart and how you go about in your relationship. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you!