surfer349

ok so here's my deal: i'm a 17 year old senior, turning 18 towards the end of the summer, and my gf (since last september) is 14 freshman, turning 15 in the summer. Well we have been going out for quite a while and we are planning on having sex and all that jazz, and we both really like each other.... but what happens once i go off to college? like what has been other ppl's experiences who were in these situations? should we just mutually agree to drop our relationship down a level to just friends? and see each other whenever i am home on vacation? cause i really dont think that a long distance relationship will work, and i really dont want her to be tied to a guy who isnt even around for the rest of her high school.... so what do yall think?

hey all..... ok, so after every time my gf and i make out and what not she usually gets off or so i think. she usually grinds on me for a bit, and i finger her, and i go down on her..... and then afterwards, when cuddling and all that jazz, she says (nearly everytime) that her eyelids won't stop blinking.....its like they are spasming uncontrollably....so is this a sign that she has definatly gotten off, and that she has had an orgasm (perhaps multiple) and the eyelid thing is and afterglow affect? just wondering, -surfer349

hi yall....... ....so my relationship is now to thepoint where my gf has brought uop sex,and we both have agreed that we want to do it...... the only thing is....i am not quite sure all what to do, like the order of event or what posittions and what not......we are both virgins...... like should i start by eating her out, and before she cums, start penetration? and what kind of positions would be good? -surfer349

Hey yall.... ok ive got a few questions... ...first: when a girl is giving head, would it be better for the guy to try and hold in his load for as long as possible, or should he just give in as soon as it starts coming to him? What would ladies prefer? i wouldnt want to seem like a premature ejaculator, but then again, i dont want to seem unpleasable.... ...second: is it abnormal for a guy to mastrubate at least once a day, if not twice, even when he has a gf whom gives head on a regular basis?

hye yall....... what exactly is a hummer.....i have heard vague storiues about balls and one's gf humming while licking them or something.....

ok...my gf and i have been dating now since august, and have just started "hooking up" ..... the other day she was telling me that it is more pleasurable for her to be grinding on top of me (no penetration), kind of a dry sex or dry hump.....she says she prefers that over me giving driect stimulation to her with my hands and what not......does this seem weird at all? or are most girls like that?

yea we are very comfortable when just the two of us....i dont know what it is, but i feel like i can just be myself when around her.......its odd for me, cause ive never been like that around girls, and in past relationships........and she is way mature...hell the other night, she was over, and she was rolling her eyes at what my little brother was doing.......i dont know though....it just seems weird when we are out in public: she is like a foot shorter than I, and it just is kinda awkard....it feels like it is tabboo.....ya know....like "oo look at him, big man dating a naive freshman.....gee i wonder what he must be doing it for" ........ i dont know......

hey, I am a senior(17) and I am currently seeing a freshman(14)......i have been dating her on and off since august, but nothing officiall......I just wnated to know if anyone else has been in the same boat.....i dont know what it is, but i REALLY like this girl, its just that it seems kinda embarrarsing (for myself) like when we go out in public or to her school dances......i dont know.....also, i have a little brother who is the same age as her (with in 2weeks) and it is just really uncomfortable whenver she comes over........any advice?

thanks everyone......... it was absolutly amazing, and now, 4 hours after the fact, I am still in an "afterglow"..... thanks, surfer349

hey yall, this is my first post.....but heres the deal.....my gf and I arre just beginnning to explore oral sex (both ways). None of us has ever received nor given it. I have been reading a few articles and opinions about it, but I still have some questions: First: what do most couples do after the deed? I mean, do they usually kiss? cause if so, isnt it gonna be weird for the person who just got the oral, cause their partner will have his/her taste in their mouth. Should i bring along some extra water bottles? Second (and last): What can i do about my gf's smell down there. The scent left on my fingers after manual stimulation smells kinda nasty (like sweaty balls). I can't even imagine how it is gonna tast - What do I do? just ignore it? any help would be immensley appreciated, surfer349