lonelyguy20

I appreciate the advice... but I'm still not sure that I have a male friend who won't judge me. I tend to make friends with women more so than men (one of my problems, because I always end up as "just friends") Why is it that it feels like guys are so judgmental about being a virgin, but girls are really understanding?

Thanks for your help people...I feel a little better now but it still gets me down at times One thing that kind of bothers me is that some of my guy friends just assume i've had sex. I guess I haven't helped things, because I always play along and pretend like I have and like I know what I'm talking about. Sometimes I feel like I'm really living a lie, but I don't know how to get out of it now. Should I come clean with my friends, or will they think I'm a total loser cause I'm a virgin at 20? Any advice for me?

Hi, I'm 20 years old and still a virgin. I know it sounds weird for me to feel insecure, but I can't help it. Everyone else I know had sex a long time ago and I just don't have the courage when it comes to women. Everytime I muster up the courage to go on a date, I always flop when it comes time to make a physical move... it's so frustrating. Any support would be appreciated.... I have been looking around on the internet for help and stumbled on some new site called virginspeak or something ... I think the address is link removed anyway, it was kinda neat... just thought I'd mention it in case there is anyone out there like me who reads this