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You know.. I think I stand to be corrected. I think you're right. The Hyte report was done by Doctors, but the measurements were done by the participants. Thanks for that correction. So, it makes me think, if anything 6.1 inches is the largest average there could be because the participants would skew upwards if anything, I imagine.
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You sound like a nice guy. Don't put up with this. Don't even worry about it. It seems they have bigger problems in life. I was raised in a really good family. When I was a teen, there were a few girls that were really interested in me because of that. Over time, they started playing games, mocking me, and looking back, I believe it was because I was a always a good kid, in a good family and I think they resented that.. but I can only guess as to why they acted so cruel. I treated them well with respect and I think they thought that was a weakness. You sound like you have a good heart. Don't let them play games. They will have more respect for you if you just walk away from them. That's the best advice I can give.
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my fiance doesnt want to have sex with me
routerx replied to mikepiazza10's topic in Sex and Romance
Sounds like you should not be engaged if you can't trust her. Yes, you made a mistake by cheating, but you would be making a bigger mistake by marrying someone you don't trust. I don't think (my personal opinion) that you should be having sex before marriage because of exactly what you are going through right now. Normally typical advice could be given, but this is a rare circumstance because you are engaged. I would take it to a higher, more intense level, and meet with someone personally. A professional. I would strongly suggest, being that you are engaged, to go see a couselor or clergy (if you are religious). I really think you have some big issues and your relationship is important, because you seem to close to wanting to be together for a lifetime. Now is the time to get some help. How about the 2 of you make a visit to your Pastor or a counselor? -
Nothing is more sexy than a partner teaching you how to kiss. I taught a girl how to kiss once and she loved me for it. Just be honest with him. You'll have to do the same thing in bed right? I mean, if he is not performing well, you should be able to talk to him and he should be able to adjust. Honesty. If you don't have that, what do you really have?
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Hi, I honestly think this is what military life is all about. If you are serious about him, imagine this feeling if you are married, or if he stays in the military, and you have kids. I think this is just part of it all. You have to make some big decisions about how you are going to proceed. I would suggest visiting him while he is in the U.S. Take it one day at a time. Just one day at a time. I knew plenty of military wives when I was in the Navy. Their best friends were usually other wives. They supported each other. You should really talk to, if possible, a military girlfriend or wife. How about telling him you want this to work and you want help so you want him to ask his buddies to send you the e-mail of their girlfriends or wives so you can talk to them?
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The Hyte Report is the most intensive study on penis size. Average Penis size is 6.1 inches. The earlier comments about "black guys" lifting the average is rude and not based on anything other than a gut feeling, not statistics. It is true African American's average is larger, but by less than 2% of the normal average. It's 6.18 inches, again from the Hyte Report. If you ever quote numbers, then you should quote the study, hopefully one which is done by Doctors.
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You're not selfish, you are simply being tempted. You would be selfish if you acted on it. Eventually someone would find out, your husband, your kids, sooner or later and you would lose everything you are taking for granted right now. You are surrounded by great things, but it can disappear all in an instant. Please don't take what you have for granted. There are people on this earth who are dying for what you have.
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Hi. I've been in your shoes. I have made some big moves in my life and some have been heartbreaking mistakes, some have been great decisions. First rule in moving: If you ever move back, it will NEVER be the same as when you left. You will have learned more about the world and yourself. So if you go, don't just think you can come back and it will all be the same, because it will not, because YOU will be different. Ask yourself this: Is the intention for your move to make yourself a better person or is it to simply change things? If it is to make yourself a better person, then go for it. Your friends should support you. Examples: going to college, volunteering, job promotion in a field you love. If it is simply to change things, then don't move. Examples: you are in a rut, moving for a boyfriend with no commitment in place, interested in that city, or wanting to show people you can do it on your own.
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You can try this one, which worked with an old girlfriend of mine who was very honest (no fakie, I hope at least). Missionary style with him higher up than you so that the shaft of his penis is rubbing at like a 45% angle to the front of your vagina and hopefully hitting your clitoris directly with each move. Imagine him on top and you on bottom, side view, his *enis would look like this \ So he is not going directly in to you, but coming in to you from the top. Just make sure his head is higher than yours and that he's not coming directly into you but at an angle. That has worked for me and my partners in the past.
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I appreciate it all advice, positive and cautious. But let's face it, eventually we have to make the decision that feels right in our heart. Even if she would have turned me down, I know that I went for it during a small window of opportunity. It's been a while since I've done that and it feels great. I'll update you all.
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Yesterday I wrote eNotAlone members that I met a woman who I thought was the perfect fit for me and I wasn't sure how to proceed. I got some advice from eNotAlone users saying "go for it right away". I also got advice from a woman co-worker saying I should act cool and not call for a week. I decided to "go for it". I then wrote eNotAlone AGAIN having people check over my e-mail to her because that's all I had to work with, an e-mail address. Well, here is her reply: ___________________________ Hi Dave, Pleasant surprise getting an email from you today! I enjoyed talking with you last night as well. And... yes, I'd love to get together sometime. This weekend is a bit full already with a friend in town, etc. However, Friday night is open. Or we could try sometime next week, of course. You can reach me at home at: 773.xxx.xxxx My cell, which sometimes is best way to get hold of me... 773.xxx.xxxx Talk to you soon, ~Joy ____________________________ Thanks everyone. LESSON LEARNED: WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE YOU LIKE, YOU HAVE TO GO FOR IT RIGHT AWAY. DON'T LISTEN TO PEOPLE WHO SAY "ACT COOL". FORGET THAT, JUST TELL THEM WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND, RIGHT AWAY. DON'T WASTE A MINUTE!
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Yes. I did this all during my teens and my 20's. You probably lack love in your life. You don't feel special. I'm talking about family love, not sexual or opposite sex love. You are using others to obtain that friendly non-threatening love. Because you have not received enough safe love in your life you don't fully love yourself. You need to learn how to love yourself and you will no longer use other people to feel special. I would opening your heart to volunteer opportunities and sports teams. These will get you closer to heartfelt appreciate for who you are. Also, it sounds corny, but tell yourself you love yourself. Put it this way, I did it for 20 years. I'm 35 and single and just now in solid relationships. I suggest you don't go this path. I wish I would have loved myself in my 20's, but I didn't and thus, I let no one love me.
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What are the best lines to use to ask a girl out?
routerx replied to whitefang's topic in Dating Advice
"Hi. I have 2 tickets to this concert and I'd like to know if you would like to go with me." "Hi. Would you like to go to the movies this weekend?" "Hi. I have a gift certificate to this restaurant which I need to use this weekend. Would you like to come with me?" In other words. Find an event. Plan it out. Then simply ask. It's not hard. Just be sincere. -
Are these signs of an ex who still love you.......
routerx replied to max's topic in Getting Back Together
Y.. E.. S.. I don't know what else to say about this one. It's clear. -
Thanks for your input. This is what I sent: My only regret is that I didn't send her my phone number, but I guess that's okay because I don't want her to think that she needs to call me first, I'd be happy to call her first and do the work on getting closer to her. Hi Joy, It was nice talking with you yesterday and getting to know you better. I have to admit to doing a little detective work today by asking Brenna for your contact information. She was kind enough to send me your e-mail address. I know that you rarely go to Sunday services or church events due to work obligations, so I'd like to know if you would be interested in going out on our own. I don't normally do this via e-mail, but this is what I have to work with right now! So, if you are interested in getting together this weekend, just send me your phone number and I'll give you a call. It would be nice to get to know you better. Have a good evening, -Dave
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Hi, Last evening I met up with a terrific woman. I mean, she is amazing. I found out she is interested in me as well. She passed her e-mail to a friend of mine who then passed the e-mail on to me after I asked for it. So, all I have to work with right now is an e-mail address, no phone number. What do you think of this e-mail?! Help? ----------------- To: Joy From: David Hi Joy, It was nice speaking with you yesterday and getting to know you better. I have to admit to doing a little detective work today by asking Brenna for your contact information. She was kind enough to send me your e-mail address. I know that you rarely go to Sunday services or NNS events, so I'd like to know if you would be interested in going out on our own. I don't normally do this via e-mail, but this is what I have to work with right now! So, if you are interested in getting together this weekend, just send me your phone number and I'll give you a call. I'd really like to get to know you better. Have a good evening, -Dave
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I should know better, but I'M STILL WITH A COMMITAPHOBE.
routerx replied to tspoon's topic in Relationship Advice
It really all comes down to what you want. You have been patient enough, so now it's your time to make the choice. I really think you need to put your foot down. Right now he has no incentive to change anything. You certainly are kind and understanding, but, maybe too kind for your own good. You have a kid. You deserve a husband and a father. That is what YOU deserve. -
7" is not true. The average is about 6 inches (from the Hyte report).
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I should know better, but I'M STILL WITH A COMMITAPHOBE.
routerx replied to tspoon's topic in Relationship Advice
Sure.. he has the best of all worlds.. a dependable woman without any responsibility. Cake and eat it too?!!! Time for him to step up to the plate. Don't let him off the hook to easy. You've been with him for 5 years, if he can't commit now, c'mon, this guy is taking you for a ride. -
Molly and everyone else. Thanks so much for your words. I'm going to ask her out and then send her flowers if she says yes. This is terrific!! I'm very excited about this. Man.. I set a standard in my heart over 5 years ago and I finally met someone who meets that standard. She also said the SAME THING last night.. she said that she is so tired with dating losers and she has set a standard for herself. I'll update you!
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Okay... so I think my game plan will be.. Call her today or tomorrow and ask her out for a date for the weekend telling her I have 2 tickets to "whatever" I come up with. We live in downtown Chicago, so we'll have to meet (we don't own cars, to much of a hassle). I can't bring flowers with me because she'll have to haul them all over the city. So, to send flowers now.. or after the date... hmm...
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Thanks for that advice! I definitely do not want to play games so I like what you've said. Do most women agree that if someone sends you flowers after meeting you twice that it is not too aggressive? If so, I'm going to do it today!
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You have an average sized penis. thereforeeee, why don't you tell her she's too large? I mean, if an average sized penis doesn't fit in her, what's her problem, why is she so loose? I'm being mean in a joking manner of course, but you get my point. You, of course, should not say that to her, but the fact is, what she said was really stupid. Profoundly stupid and uncaring. For some girls, you are the perfect fit. I have had girls call me too big, too small, and the perfect fit. The fact is, their vagina's were also too big, too small, or the perfect fit. It's a 2 way street. So, you have an average sized penis, the same as about 50-75% of the population.
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Hello, First, I should let you know that I'm a 35 year old male, single, happy, a Christian, and successful at work and looking forward to a great future.. but, I've never met "the one". I've dated a lot of girls and I'm not overly picky, but I agreed to never marry unless it was what God wanted. Well, last evening, I was at a singles group dinner and I believe in my heart I met "the one". No, I'm not in love, but all the stars aligned last evening. She was a girl I met in a CPR class a few weeks ago and I was so attracted to her. Last night I found out she was no longer dating and she was available. She was actually with a new date last night which she met on a Internet Christian service, but when he left, she scooted over to me and we started talking. We talked for about 30 minutes and she said how she was ready for marriage but she just hasn't found the right guy. She is so well spoken, so beautiful, so ready for what I'm ready for and I think she was interested in me as well because we were in our own little world for about 30 minutes. She's reading a book about Christian relationshiops that she's finishing up and wants to give to me when she's done in a few weeks. QUESTION: There are certain times in a guy's life when he has to not play games. I want to make sure she knows I'm persuing her. I need help with ideas because I don't want to come off wrong. Ideas: 1) "Accidentaly" bump into her at her work saying that, "I just happened to be in the neighborhood" 2) Sending her flowers I'd like some ideas from the ladies being that you know my heart, what would be the best way to proceed without offending her. In the past, I've been aloof with girls and let them go out of my life. I don't want to do this with her. I want her in my life and I don't want to blow this open opportunity. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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I can only tell you something based on my experience in life and what I've heard from others. You said that you liked him. Unless you love him, don't have sex with him. Please cut and paste and save this comment and read it 1 year from now if you have sex. I think you'll agree with it. I have never met anyone who lost their viriginity to someone they did not LOVE who thought it was a great experience. Good luck to you. I think your boyfriend is smarter than you think.