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  1. codyluver05
    This is really short! I was just curious if you gain weight when you are sexually active? For anyone who knows something, please help. Thanks
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    Hi everyone! Here is my story. I 17 years old. I attended high school for all of freshman year and a couple weeks of sophomore year. Until I decided I wanted to be home schooled because of all the stress high school offered. I did good for the longest time. 'Til I began to hang around my friends more. I would be a junior right now. I am thinking about returning to high school for senior year so I can have those memories and actually walk with my class you know? Do you think this would be a good idea? Am I missing out? Thanks guys
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    Hi! My story might be confusing, but someone please help me because I don't know what I am going to do. I am 17 years old. My boyfriend of 2 years is currently living in Texas. I am scheduled to go there and live with him there. I went to high school for my freshman year and a couple of weeks of my sophomore year and I left and began getting home-schooled. I am almost finished with it too. My mom is a little weary about this. She doesn't realize I want to live there with him. My sisters keep giving me crap and it is really pissing me off. I want to know If I am making a mistake. It's not like i am never going to come home or anything. I'll be here ALOT. I just really want to be with my boyfriend. We are really serious and really in love, to the point where we talk about marriage. I am kind of telling people here that I am coming back. But between me and my b/f I am living there. I am stuck. I want to go but i am going to be leaving a lot of things behind. Me and my b/f have discussed him moving back here, but that wont work. It will be bad on our relationship. I am going to eventually move back and talk him into it. Because I love my friends and my family. AWWW I AM STUCK. At least ONE person give me some advice. Thanks
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    Hey everyone! If you look back on my previous posts you might better understand my story. Anyways. . . My boyfriend was on a singles website a while back. I confronted him about it and asked for his excuse. His excuse was that he did it because he knew I would be looking for things like that and because we were arguing. Oh and since we are in a LDR he said he thought if I saw that i would get really pissed off and just go see him. I don't know if I should believe him? The other thing is, he told me that it was nothing and that he wouldn't do it again. Well he did it again, but this time he didn't have a deatailed profile on the site and it said he wasn't in search of anyone. So I don't know what to think. I am not going to tell him about the second time I caught him because I kind of think he did it on purpose to see if i am checking his mail. I'm so lost. I don't want anyone writing me saying mean things. Thanks!
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    As most of yo know me and my boyfriend of almost 2 years are currently in a Long Distance Relationship. We miss eachother so bad and he wants me to get there and live with him as soon as possible, but there is one HUGE problem standing in our way! He is living with his brother. His brother has nothing against me or mine and my boyfriends relationship but he is really picky and weird and he doesn't want me living there. I don't understand. My mom took my boyfriend in and he lived with us for 6 months and his brother wont let me live there for the most 2 months until we both get enough money for an apartment. My boyfriend and his brother have been fighting over it for a while now, but nothing is changing. I wish he didn't have control over this situtaion. I can't stand being away from him. I feel like I have no other options. We're trying everything, it's horrible that his brother is being this way Please help! Thanks...
  6. codyluver05
    sweetypie, I believe in second chances. You have to keep in mind though that if you give the person that second chance then you have to be willing to eventually trust them again. That can take time and can be very hard. I have been in this situtation and i gave a second chance, I have no regrets. It was the best thing I could have done.. If he or she really loves or cares for you then they won't make that same mistake twice. Being cheated on has got to be the worst thing to have to got though. You will feel betrayed. But again if you give that second chance you have to trust again. You will sooner or later though you'll be weary. But hey you have a right though! hope I helped
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    Hi xoxoxo21, You came on this website to find advice and maybe some people you can confide in. Doesn't seem as though people are being very nice. I am going to give you the reality of things as best as I can. I do not personally think there in ANYTHING wrong with your boyfriend chatting on the net. It is human, especially him being male believe me it's ok. I dont agree with "You can't trust him." Chatting is simply like talking to someone on the street. Some may even say that meeting someone on the street is worse because you are face to face. On-line you aren't. If you think chatting on-line is completely uncalled for then you have issues. It is human nature to meet and talk to new people. Wether is be on-line or in person it's normal. If he loves you and really wants to be with you then it wont go father then friendly chat. That's reality and he's male. That is just like saying "Is this bad that my bf looks at other women." all men look at other females when they are in a relationship. If they say they don't then they are lying. There is nothing wrong with looking or talking as long as thats as far as it goes. I am sure you look and talking to other males. IT's normal and there is nothing wrong with it. I hope I helped. I think this is how it goes. But you take whoevers advice itis you want. Good Luck!
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    Hey everyone! Most of ya'll know who I am. I am kind of having a trust issue going on with my boyfriend. He is away right now right? Well just tonight I came accross a profile on a singles website today. It was my boyfriends. I was looking on the website to see if he was on there, and well he was. I don't understand why he would do this? Another thing is I got on his e-mail the other day to check it for him and he had a couple femailes on his IM. One of them messaged me thinking I was him. I found out that he was really anxious to know where her body piercing s and tattoos were. Not to mention they were talking on-line unitl 5 am. I don't know hwy my b/f would do this seeing as how he tells me to check his mail? I don' think he loves me. I feel lied and cheated and betrayed. But i love him and i don't want to loose him. WHAT DO I DO? I need major help bad Thanks.....
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    Hey everyone! I haven't been on this site for a while. But now I am in total need for major advice. My boyfriend told me to check his e-mail to see if his mom e-mailed him right? Well he told me to check it then call him back to see what she had to say well... I rant into something very painful, but i have yet to confront him. I checked his e-mail and this is what it said... Hello mama, I am doing good over here, I guess, I really miss *******, and it's hard because I can't be around her. We didn't break up, or anything, we are still together, that's just what i told people, but now I don't care what people think. We are going to make it and be just fine. When I get back I want to marry her. He told people that we broker up behind my back. I need to know what this is supposed to mean and why he would say this. We have been together for over a year. I dont understand. Iam really depressed. What do I do?
  10. codyluver05
    In your situation I think it may be your ages. I don't want to seem harsh or anything but maybe you are too young for her? Maybe she just realized but doesn't want to hurt you. Or it could be she is more of a friend to you because you are only 16. It could be that she feels awkward because she is older and sometimes she feels that she limited her standards to a 16 year old. I think you could do much better with someone your age. It seems like she is ashamed of you and just using you when no one else it there. She'll know that if you stay with her that she has someone to fall back on after she is all partied up or whatnot. Hope I helped.
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    I'm glad that you told him. But I am sorry to hear that he ignored you later that evening. First case scenario is it just hit him that you cheated on him when he left and he needed some time to think through. Second case scenario his friend did tell him somethin like "Don't take her back." Whatever it may be. If he did listen to his friend then he doesn't care to much for you. If he is going to be easily influenced by his peers then you don't need him. But if it is first case scenario then just give him his space, you did cheat on him. He does need to take the fact that you were honest with him into consideration though. Being honest about ones unfaithfulness isn't easy to do. Right? Wait to see if he calls you and if he doesn't call within a couple of days then go ahead and give him a call. Ask him what's going on? That's all I got. I hope I helped. Good Luck sweeite!
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    I'm not a guy but I'll put my two cents in anyway... I think you should just ask him. I think if you are sleeping with someone that you have a right to know how many partners they've had. You asking shouldn't make him feel weird. It's kind of weird for you. I hope I helped even tho I'm not a guy! GOOD LUCK!
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    Thank you for your advice! I am sorry to hear about your divorce. Maybe it's better off that way though. Some things aren't meant to be. Any advice I can get helps so thanks! Again sorry about your divorce. Time will heal your wounds!
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    That's awful. I am sorry to hear that. I would have to agree with segagirl on this one though. Sweetie, you've seen too many signs to even question if he is cheating on you or not. You know he is. It is a very hard to take in but you have to. The choice is up to you if you want to forgive and forget if you find out he is seeing someone else. How long have you been dating? I hope I helped. Good luck!
  15. codyluver05
    Well question #1. Do men cheat even when they're happy in a realtionship? If so, why? #2. How come most men can't devote themselves to one girl? These things annyoy me. I need some answers! Thanks!
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    I know how you feel...sort of. I have been cheated on, but it wasn't nearly as bad as what you experienced. I am sorry to hear that happened to you. Well sweetie...I forgave, but I am still trying to forget. I should be totally over it because he kissed someone only four days into our "dating" and it's been a little over a year. I think it is always -ok- to forgive and forget. As long as you keep an eye on him. Make sure he is being with honest with you at all times... If he really loves you and cares for you then he wont do it again. Don't always believe once a cheater always a cheater...it's not always true! Everyone makes mistakes. You'll get over it eventually as time progresses. Like they say "Let time take it's toll." Just make sure you tow are able to communicate! It's not easy but you'll be just fine. WE ARE SURVIVIRS. It happens to the better of us! Hope I helped. GOOD LUCK!
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    I know how you feel...sort of. I have been cheated on, but it wasn't nearly as bad as what you experienced. I am sorry to hear that happened to you. Well sweetie...I forgave, but I am still trying to forget. I should be totally over it because he kissed someone only four days into our "dating" and it's been a little over a year. I think it is always -ok- to forgive and forget. As long as you keep an eye on him. Make sure he is being with honest with you at all times... If he really loves you and cares for you then he wont do it again. Don't always believe once a cheater always a cheater...it's not true! You'll get over it eventually. Just keep up good communication! Hope I helped. GOOD LUCK!
  18. codyluver05
    Awww... That's horrible. You slept with your brothers girlfriend? I have no "good advice" on this one hun. I am TOTALLY against infidelity. I have been cheated on before and it doesn't feel to great. Believe me it hurts. Cheating is one thing, but with your own brothers girlfriend is another. Sorry...you messed up sweetie.
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    Sweetie, I would have to agree with bryan. Being out on the rebound isn't personally a good Idea to me. Hope advice helped. Good Luck
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    Hey! Thanks... I'm not sure how much he does do it because we live together. I have not told him yet that I do not mind. I know he will do it regardless of what I say...but I have to get it out there...
  21. codyluver05
    As many of you in here know my boyfriend is away to college. I am going to let him know that I do not mind if he looks at porn and masturbates to resist any tempation with any females arms length apart. I wouldnn't normally be so comfortable with this. But we are going to be a way from eachother for a little over a year. We will maybe only see one another 4-5 times if that. Sex 4 times a year can be rough. I know that he will do it regardless of what I say...But I much rather have him do it on his own ya know? Do you think I am making the right choice in *asking him to do this? Any advice is super... Thanks...
  22. codyluver05
    I personally think you should let him know. You tell him. It wouldn't be a good idea to let him find out himself or from someone else ya know? Finding out that your girlfriend cheated on you from someone else isn't a good situation to be in. Because in the end he would feel betrayed by you that you went so long withoug telling him. If you know he is going to find out, wouldn't you rather tell him now so you can possibly work it out? I think if you tell him and explain your story that he might not be very angry. He would rather hear it from you now rather from someone else months down the road you see what I am saying? Hope my advice helps! GOOD LUCK!
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    Well I haven't heard back from him yet. He is busy right now, he just got a job. I personally think that I really need to get over his cheating on me. It was only four days into our dating w/e. Not that I think it is -ok- but I need to move past it. He gave me time to move on from it. He did everything he could. Weird thing is he had no female friends before we were going out, during...but now he met one. I guess I need to get over it. I don't know.
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    Thank you segagirl. You were the only one who was positive about my situation. I am working on my trust with him. But everytime I feel like I am in full trust with him, something usually happens. I was in trust with him before he moved, until I saw a picture of him with these two girls when he was away. That really upset me. Then I hear about the flirting and hugging. I didn't jump to any conlusions when I e-mailed him, I just simply asked. Besides I got the information from a male. A lot of males think everything is cheating... Anways thanks for you advice.
  25. codyluver05
    I am sorry to hear that. That's awful. I don't want to come off seeming bad. But if she tried to hide you and went on for 9 months saying you two weren't together. Then she can't care for you too much, let a lone love you. If she did then she would have been able to stand up for your relationship to her friends. Rather then lie about it. I also understand where you are coming from when you say you don't know what to do. I would probably be the same way. But honestly if she really loved and cared for you then you relationship wouldn't have been hidden from her friends. She obviously only cares about what other people think...thats not a good sign. Hope all goes well with ya!
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