xUselessHeartx

There isn't much you can do about be ing jelious. my girlfriend will look at a guy and say something like..."damn" or some crap like that. And yes...that pisses me off. I dont know why she does it, and i really want her to stop because it makes me more depressed than anything in this freaking world! but what you have to do is DO IT TO HIM. Check out guys when you are with him, and when he says something to you, explain to him that he does it all the time and no he knows how it feels. people dont understand that jeliousy comes out of love. the only reason you get jelious is because you love him ALOT and you dont want anything to go wrong...now think...is that bad? FONK NO! keep on being jelious (as much is it may hurt) you cant really do anything about it. but you have to make him jelious so he will realize that it hurts. I hope this helped atleast a lil bit. adios! -Bryan

(i am a 16 yr. old Male with a 19 yr old girlfriend...) OK, once again, I DO NOT UNDERSTAND MY GIRLFRIEND AT ALL! She has guy friends who when they come to visit her, she jumps up and kisses/hugs them, but when im there, she doesn't do anything...not even say HEY! I asked her what the deal was and she said "I dont kiss by boyfriend infront of my friends, but i kiss my friends (guys only) infront of my boyfriend" WHAT THE FREAKING CRAP?!?!?!?!? She always treats me like i have no feelings what so ever! I love her so much and i tell her that all the time. Sometimes she doesn't even say "i love you too" because she "doesn't feel it." If she doesn't love me then why does she stay with me?!?!? The only time she tells me she loves me is if she messes up and does something to hurt my feelings! I feel like i have to be in a life and death siruation just to get her freaking attention! It seems like she only cares about me when she has nothing else to do. She goes out with her friends and forgets to call me. i cannot trust her anymore because she lied to me. when i am with her, a stranger would think we are just friends...there is no sign of relationship at ALL! please reply to this and tell me something...i'm desprate!!!