codyluver05

WOW! There isn't much "good news" for me to say about this. Besides the fact that I am totally against cheating on your mate. Were you involved with someone at the time you two slept together? If so, for how long? The fact that he is married with kids is a BIG one. The fact that he would hurt his wife and family like that is awful...no offense to you or anything. I'm not going to tell you that you need to stop or whatnot. I have no place to speak. You came on here for advice and my advice is that its not a very tasteful situation. But you do what you feel in your heart is right! Good Luck.

Saying I love you within a month is a big step. I do not particuarly think that that wasa too soon. Because if you feel something, you can't help it. I was in love 3 months into our relationship and engaged in 5. Just remember if you say it, you should mean it. That word isn't a thing to play with. You're in love ---- Good for you! GOOD LUCK

I don't know what to think. Just recently before my boyfriend moved away for college. He was attending a gym with his buddie. That is perfectly -ok- and all. But when there are a lot of girls are there hanging around him, that bugs me. One girl in particular whose name is Danielle. My boyfriend was honest with me about them talking a lot. But when I asked him if they flirt or hug, anything like that. He said no. Just yesterday I hear from a few people who were also at the gym, that they do hug and flirt. I don't know what to think of this. Because 1. He's cheated on me before, and I hardly trust him. 2. He lied. 3. I don't know if that is an -ok- thing. Can a guy still talk to a girl and not develop feelings for her? I need any help I can get....thanks.

wait he told you that he wasn't tired at all so he would call you sometime? i don't understnad. LOL

My stroy is kind of confusing. But please I need help. I need a mans point of view, thought I'm up for anything anyone is willing to tell me... I met my boyfriend through a friend. At first I wasn't that interested he was though. As time progressed we started to hang around eachother more and I began to like him. Then he finally asked me out. Well four days into our dating/relationship he cheated on me he kissed another girl because of "Peer Pressure" so he says. Funny as how we had our first kiss the same night that he cheated on me. Well I found out and he apologized and explained himslef. I gave him another chance. I wanted to see how things would go. Time goes by and we have been with eacother now for over a year and a half and are sort of engaged. Although I can't get past that he cheated on me, although I did forgive him. I have little to-no trust for him. At first he wouldn't go anywhere hang around other girls and all because he wanted to move past it. It worked. But then he started to go to the GYM again. He met this girl named Danilelle whom he said was a cool girl to talk to. I had asked him of he ever flirts with her, or if they hug. He tells me no. I find out the opposite. Then July rolled around and his GYM had a bodybuilding compettion to attend. He was away for four days. When he arrived back home I had asked him what he did and if he had met any girls. He said no. Well just recently he went away for college. He is now 900 miles away in Texas. He is living with his brother. Ten minutes before he was leaving I was looking at some pictures of him from when he was in Laughlin right? Well there were these two pictures with his him, a girl and a friend of his who was there. They both has there arms around her...who was wearing a bathing suit. I freaked...tears ran down my eyes. One thing that got me though was he wasn't very worried or hesitant that I saw them. SO that kind of calmed me down. But the fact that he lied. I asked him who they were and all and he told me just a couple girls that were in the room next door to them who were cool. I was like ya ok thats not cool at all. I didn't really want to fight with him about it though because he was just about to leave. I need to know how to handle this. I need to know how to trust him while he is 900 miles away from me going to college with tons of girls. I need advice on all the things I have mentioned. I am loosing my mind...literly. Any advice you could give would be GREATLY APPRECIATED. Thanks so much.