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  1. kittysaysmeow
    I've been with both and although I enjoy the look of a circumsized penis better, I don't care either way. My bf has an uncircumsized one and he has a history of trouble with it. He's one of the "lucky" few that can't retract the foreskin as much as most men can. He's very clean and tries his best but he still has problems (and he's also very sensitive to soaps, etc). He's seriously thinking about getting circumsized because of this. So...ya. Either way is fine!
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    Great idea!
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    Day_Walker and Lonesoul: thanks for the advice. I'll try to concentrate on myself and moving on with my life.
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    How do I let go? I though I did but apparently that didn't work.
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    I would have but the break up was pretty bad. The cops got involved (I called them) and it got really complicated.
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    I know that I'm unable to go over the limit. Why did you get a card with fees? There are so many other credit cards out there without annual fees.
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    I know NC doesn't erase the past...I just thought I was over it, you know? I wasn't sad about it. I moved on. I started seeing the relationship for what it really was. But now it's like I'm back to that place when I was sad, obsessive, worried about what he was doing. It's just so frustrating.
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    I've been in NC with my ex for 6 months. I thought I was doing great. I was moving on and not thinking about him as much as I used to. Then I saw him. I was out and as we were heading to the pub I saw him outside. I didn't believe it was him at first but we circled the block to find parking and I saw him again. It just crushed me. We didn't go in and just headed home. That was 2 days ago and all I can think about is him. It feels like I'm at square one again. Does it ever get easier?
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    When I was dating my ex his grandma commented on how I would be a good mother based on my hip size. At first I thought it was kind of a low blow but after talking to her more I realized that she was trying to compliment me. It's a little different than your situation. Just thought I would share. It frustrates me that people make excuses up for older people when they say something mean. I keep hearing "oh, well she's older..." or "she's from a different generation". As if. They learned how to interact socially and not every older person does this. I say it's just rude and you should be frank with her. It's not acceptable and you look great!
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    It sounds like your wife is being pretty unreasonable. Obviously there's more going on with her then she's letting on.
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    I don't want to be overly critical but I've never heard of an adult (woman or man) that should only eat 1100 calories. I've have a personal trainer and he says that's pretty much unheard of. You're basically starving yourself thereforeeee preventing good weight loss. An active adult should eat anywhere from 1700-2100 calories a day. I think the key here is to have a balance between diet and activity.
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    I would say that I got it partially in. Enough so that I can wear studs but there's not a lot of room like my right ear. Thanks for the Advice BornToResist. I'll try not playing with it....but it's so hard!
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    Thanks Sophie - I thought I wasn't aiming right either but the tip was poking through the other side so I'm assuming it's where the hole used to be. I'm keeping it clean and hopfully it'll get better. Thanks for the advice.
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    Hi everyone! This isn't a very serious post but any information would be helpful. I got my ears pierced when I was only 2. I've never been a huge earring person, but every few months I put some in the keep the piercings open. Well, since x-mas is coming up I would like to wear some earrings. I put in the right one, no problem...the left one, there's the problem! I got the tip of the earring through but i was unable to have it through completely. I finally got so frustrated that I pushed it and it went in a little more. So now I can wear earrings but my left one is hurting quite a bit. Also, you know when you can see the back of the earring? Not so much with the left ear. It's either really swollen or there's some serious skin surrounding it. My question is this: should I go get it pierced again so that it's completely open (like it should be) or maybe twist and move the earring I have in there now in order for it to open up more on its own? It's bugging the stuff out of me!!!
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    I'm not suggesting to start dating. But you have to realize that he may never want to continue the relationship. Right now he needs to focus on recovering and his depression might not go away. You're right. Keeping busy is a good thing to do.
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    I was in a longterm relationship for 5 years. After about 3 1/2 years I stopped wanting to have sex with him. And man, did I ever feel guilty. After awhile I realized that I didn't want to be with him in a "couple" way but more like a close friend. I thought I was the only one but a few of my friends have experienced the same thing. Sometimes a lack of sex can mean a lack of truly wanting to be with each other. Also, causing fights could be another indicator of this. I did that all the time. "Nothing fights" happened every day and for no reason. I would actually create problems. If you want to save the relationship, I suggest going to talk to a therapist, close friend, etc. Someone that you both feel comfortable with. Try to deal with the issues rather then picking fights.
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    Then I would suggest trying to move on. If you decide to do this then let him know and be honest with him. I understand that you love him but if he needs time and space then that's all you can do. If he gets "better" and you're both in the same place (both single) then you can talk about going out again.
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    I don't think anyone can give you a certain amount of time as an answer. It really depends on the person that is depressed and how long it takes them to recover. Also, many people relapse into depression. This might be a lifelong battle. I think you should talk to the person about the time he/she needs and if you should move on.
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    Sometimes when one has depression it's hard to see anything in a positive light. The fact that he's seeing a therapist eliminates the need for you to ask him if there's anything wrong (since you already know there is!). That said, it wouldn't hurt for you to talk to him and express your feelings about the situation. I understand both sides. When I was depressed I relied very heavily on my bf at the time. It drained him emotionally but I was too depressed to see it. Only now do I realize what happened. But like I said before, I think talking about how you feel would be beneficial but you don't need to continue on with the friendship if you don't feel you should. That said, what if he got "better"? Would you still want to be his close friend? And if so, maybe sticking it out is a better way to go.
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    Daligal83 - agreed!
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    Juliana, you're right...I respect that it does sound like depression. But the information given was pretty limited. I mean, I have a close friend that does exactly the same thing but I know for a fact that she doesn't have depression although she probably has some other issues. So, if it could be depression is it really up to him to continue the friendship even though it's kind of dying out? I believe that he should talk things over with his friend but it doesn't necessarily mean he should continue with it if he doesn't want to.
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    I don't mean to sound rude...that wasn't what I was trying to express. It's just that everyone seems to jump up right away and state that it sounds like depression or some other problem. What if it isn't? What if the problem isn't depression at all? Forums like this (and I enjoy enotalone!) can have a significant impact on someone's life. You can't just proclaim someone having a mental illness without having the schooling (and proper information) to back it up. And even if it is depression, it's not up to him to babysit his friend. He can suggest perhaps talking to someone (therapist, close friend, priest, etc), but there's not much more he can do. If the friendship is dwindling then it doesn't matter the reasoning behind it, it just is. If he wants to continue on with the friendship, then talk to the friend and see what's going on. But if he doesn't then that's ok too.
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    Bald

    kittysaysmeow replied to Ham's topic in Dating Advice

    I agree that being bald can be very attractive. BUT it depends on the situation. I like it when a guy can take something that he may be insecure about, deal with it and even show it off. I don't like it when a guy tries to cover it up. I say show it off!!! Be comfortable with yourself and it'll definitely attract women.
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    I know what depression is, I've suffered from it. My point was that no one should jump the gun and immediately declare it to be depression. We're not therapists, we don't know especially with the limited information given. I believe that if he immediately asks his friend if he has depression then his friend would just put up walls (even more so). And that wasn't even the question he was asking in the first place. It's ok to drift away from friends...whether they have depression or not. All he can be is there to listen to his friend but it's up to him if he wants to deal with it. There's no shame in growing a part.
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    I don't know why people immediately jump to depression all the time. The fact is that no one here knows enough about his friend to say that. He could just be a cynical kind of guy. I agree though with talking to him about how you feel. That is, only if you want to continue on with the friendship. The fact is that just because you were friends as children doesn't mean you're compatible as adults. It's a sad fact of life but not all friends are meant to last a lifetime. But try talking to him. Maybe it is depression. Maybe it's something else, but you'll never know until you talk to him about how you feel.
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