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  1. iwantyoutowantme
    ^ very good points. its easy to be confused at this age. when i first started having thoughts and dreams about women, then started having actual crushes on them , i thought "oh GOD im gay!" then when i had the same reactions to guys i figured out i was bi. let things work themselves out, just because you have dreams about dudes doesnt mean youre 100% gay. the mind at your age might be confused.
  2. iwantyoutowantme
    i dont consider it cheating if my bf/gf likes porn i mean, i wont lose any sleep over it. "oh my GOD they like porn!" nah its not a big deal to me. but if it interferes with your sex life or relationship in general, then yeah thats not good.
  3. iwantyoutowantme
    im 16 and a virgin! im glad i am ive had chances to, but im too young. i know im not ready for sex yet. im not waiting until marriage, im a christian but i also believe in doing things you feel is right, if you think the time is right. i think for myself, i dont believe sex is limited to a certain age. obviously i dont mean a 7 year old should have sex!!lol see what im getting at here??
  4. iwantyoutowantme
    ok, heres the whole story. *sorry if its long!* at the end of the last school year my friend asked me to date him. of course i said yes, since ive liked him for a long time! well after about almost 3 weeks i broke it off. the very 1st day we went out, he asked to "see my ". and kept begging me to. after a few weeks i realized he wasnt worth it, as ive been through a horrible experience before, and it got started ina similiar way. well after that i started going out with my friend online. he's really great, treats me well, and he's moving out here to be with me when this school semester ends for him at his college. i like him so much. well, just recently my ex emailed me saying he did all that because he was going away for a month to florida, things came over him and he acted "stupidly" because he wasnt going to see me for a long time during the summer. i said id think about it, and i feel horrible. i love my bf i have now, i feel bad for saying that id think about it becaus eof him. also, because i dont want to leave my ex hanging for an answer. im so confused and its killing me! what would you do inmy situation?
  5. iwantyoutowantme
    very good point........i suppose if i ever get a gf (which i hopefully will) ill have to tel her. i guess ill wait until then. but part of me still wants her to know! i hate keeping secrets but hey i can for a while longer i suppose
  6. iwantyoutowantme
    ^ TOTALLY agree!!! with guys ive ended up with dorito crumbs on my lips, pointy tongues darting in and out of my mouth, and one time he said "let me show you something"- and bit my lip hard! with girls, they leave my mouth feeling all tingly and sensational........my one friend makes me melt whenever we kiss
  7. iwantyoutowantme
    haha foxlocke, ive had guys choke me with their pointy, nasty tongues too!LOL and something about kissing girls is just so exotic to me never had a good kiss from a guy yet hahaha
  8. iwantyoutowantme
    well ive made out with both no big difference...........well, actually, girs seem to be more passionate kissers than the guys ive kissed. guys just wanted to stick their tongue down my throat lmao as of right now, i prefer kissing girls
  9. iwantyoutowantme
    ill definitely take a look at that site, thanks! my friends were the 1st ones i told, and they acted like all i said was "good morning"- no changes, so i got confident from their reactions. my father always said i could tell him everything- and i have, so i figured, "i told him i wanted to try pot, i told him i cut myself, why cant i tell him im bi?" he just said "i dont care. be yourself, thats all you need to be in life. id be disappointed if you didnt tell me or feel comfortable with it." my brother was a littl shocked, but took it in stride. now he jokes around about it, when a girls on tv he'll go "Eryn, isn't she cute?" and i laugh cause we're both so close i dont mind. but one time my brother said my mom freaked on my dad. i guess she said "if Eryn said she was gay, we'd still love her, right? i mean, we have to love our kids no matter what, right?" so i think she *kinda* is suspicious, but i hope that site will help. but im scared cause if she hates me for it or something, ill be torn apart emotionally by it
  10. iwantyoutowantme
    im the same age, and its scary- i feel exactly like she does. heres what i think~ i feel like this because im just not good at school. my grades have always been laughable and people just seem to just assume that im a dummy, but i know im very intelligent. it might be the people around her- it sounds like you and your wife are very supportive of her, and thats good! but there may be some friends of hers that bring her down, purposelly or not. im epersonally terrified of not making it at something; the thought of "failing" makes me avoid trying things out. she may be the same way- try talking to her?
  11. iwantyoutowantme
    ive known i was bi for a few years, i just never wanted to admit it to myself. everyone kept saying it was bad and not a good thing, but when i couldnt lie to myself anymore i felt so dirty. that was last year. this year im completely accepting of my sexuality. only my friends and brother/dad know. my parents are split, so my dad doesnt tell my mother everything. my question is, how do i tell my mom im bi? she and my grandma say "its a trend all these people are trying to be popular" and it hurts to hear them say that. im literally scared out of my mind thinking about telling my mom- i dont care what my grandma thinks, she always digs on my personal life so i dont give a sh*t what she thinks. im terrified, but i want my mother to know SO badly. how do i come out to her?
  12. iwantyoutowantme
    aw congrats!! im so happy you told your sister!
  13. iwantyoutowantme
    hey ask him you never know! but you also never know if he's just a 20 year old who likes your 16 year old high school body. and if he just said it one day without you flirting or he just said it out of the blue, like starting a conversation about how good your body looks, then hey id be a little weary bout him. but on the other hand, he mightve sensed your insecurities and tried reassuring you that youre beautiful on th outside. people with low self confidence sometimes know theyre beautiful on the inside, but maybe feel like theyre physically ugly. he mightve picked up on that vibe. but also think if he might be using you for your body- if you find out he is, then youll feel worse. but test the waters a little bit longer
  14. iwantyoutowantme
    he's not "gentle" OR "nice". hon, he pulled A Gun on you and shoved it in your mouth when he forced himself onto you!!! drinking is always an excuse- this isnt good for you or the children. what if they happen to see drunk daddy shoving a gun in their mothers mouth? dragging her up the stairs? punching, kicking, and slapping her?? you deserve better- do it for your children. do it for yourself. all of you deserve a better husband and father than that. plus, HE CHEATED ON YOU! thats the small problem here, but honestly- with 3 different people? while you are having his CHILDREN? he's abusive, a cheater, and could be deadly. it can be fatal to stay with him any longer. one of these days, you just never know when he can snap and go too far. hurting you horribly,(or worse), or even taking it out on your kids. he is NOT worth spending your life with.
  15. iwantyoutowantme
    its normal to hear voices in your head once in a while- i do before i go to sleep, but to have an alien with an identity might be schizophrenia. always get a second opinion about it-doctors arent always right. and get counseling from a different therapist im glad you are starting to realize Myuu is not real.
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