phantomwolff85

It's hard to have it all figured out as far as career goes before you go to college. Classes and internships as well as shadowing can help you figure out what you might want to do. Have you thought of going to college outside of Georgia?

I would definitely see if there were any local gay clubs you could join. When I met the love of my life, I met him on planet out and I knew by reading his profile that he wasn't just into sex. As far as chat rooms go, I wouldn't get my hopes up. I've noticed a difference in the caliber of men that post personals and the ones who post personals and also chat online. One on one chatting is cool, but in chat rooms you are more likely to meet men with one track minds or teenagers who aren't legal. I'm sure you'll meet some cool people in college and in your college town. In the meantime, just don't get too attached to anyone and understand that the guys you want are in the minority, but that it will be more satisfying when you finally do find someone with similar interests.

I don't know about healthy, but I think it's definitely normal. I know I wouldn't date some bisexual, if i were dating, unless I didn't know they were bisexual and then became attracted to them and they later told me they were bisexual. I wouldn't date an FTM either. I feel that we all have choice and the right to have opinions.

Have you ever thought about coming out? You might feel better. Plus then if there's any issues you can site discrimination.

I would say as long as the relationship is healthy, you're fine regardless of age. The only people that really know what your relationship is like are you and your boyfriend, so take other people's advice with a grain of salt.

I would definitely say that some sort of signal is neccesary so you know when it's going to happen. A tap with the hand is fast and adequate. As far as it being boring, maybe you could try 69 or something? iI've felt that feeling as well but I just try to think that I'm making my partner happy so that makes me happy and improves the situation. If I can't do that, I just try and count the time down or look forward to when I'll be getting off.

If anal sex is painful, you're doing it wrong. When my boyfriend intiaited it for the first time, it hurt, so he stopped. When I was finally comfortable, which was not that same night, it was not painful. At the same time, it wasn't physically pleasurable, but very psychologically pleasureable, which made the later orgasm through oral the best I've ever had. In summary, anal may or may not be physically pleasurable, but it shouldn't be painful. As far as deepthroating goes, I don't find it that difficult. It's something that you can get better at with practice, much like other sexual actions. However, if someone doesn't like oral sex, or some other kind of sex, practice is not going to change that.

I listen to music, watch movies, go online, and also try and lay down, breathe slowly, experience my feelings, and then analyze them, make note of any conclusions I come to, take any action I need to, and then go on with doing things that are healthy for me. This does not always work, but analyzing things, working on them, and then taking some action usually helps me feel better. In the past I've engaged in unhealthy things like too much porn, drinking, or shopping. When this happens, I do the aforementioned things.

I think the only reason why a relationship should not be accepted is if there is emotional or physical abuse going on. If both people are happy together, then why should any one care how old either one of them is. As far as societies views, I feel like a lot of people are not accepting of the relationship and tend to feel that there is something wrong with the older person in the relationship and that the younger person needs a father or mother figure.

I believe gays and lesbians should be able to marry and have kids. As far as the comparison with a disability, I can see that as being legitimate simply because it can be disabling emotionally and socially. I also believe that being gay is a mix of genetics and hormones. I feel that it could be biologically valid, simply to keep the population down.

Are there other reasons why your parents don't like him besides his race and educational level? If there were legitimate reasons, I would give pause, but right now it just seems that they are being close-minded.

I wouldn't say they have a great relationship if he's at the computer all day and she's left to do her own thing. If you mom is complaining about something and he's not changing it, then that's not fair to her. As far as telling your mom, I wouldn't do that because you really shouldn't interfere with their relationship. The only reason why you might want to talk to your dad about this is if he's addicted to porn and it's interfering with your life.

I've felt the same way, BYOB. Those types of questions really aren't ones that most people are ready to answer. You'd have to devote your life to it, or at least a good portion of your time. If you aren't ready to answer them they can just compound your problems. At the same time, often times these types of questions come up at the times when you are feeling down. I think most people think of suicide as an act of cowardice because they feel that every problem is solvable and that by committing suicide you hurt other people. I do feel that problems get better as you give them time. If I were you I'd throw myself into something that you really enjoy or really enjoyed. I know it may be difficult, but you might be able to harness your energy into a creative venture. There might really be nothing you can do now except change anti depressants. I also know that our perception of things can be greatly distorted when we are feeling bad and that this creates a cycle which makes things worse. I don't know what the problems are that you are facing, but talking can definitely help, especially if you have issues with someone.

I think you answered your own question by virtue of the fact that you had to come up with such an incredulous situation.

I'm just wondering which one is better in your own opinions and also where I can find more information about the differences. I already know that psychiatric RN's are nurses who have decided to specialize and that they can prescribe medicine, while psychologisits are docotroal level, probably had an undergraduate major in psychology and are not able to prescribe mediicine. My question basically is are there any differences in the way that they do therapy?