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  1. tmp0620
    Maybe it's hard for you to find a nice guy because you aren't attracted to them.
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    I would totally kill myself if I died never having had a girlfriend.
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    It always bothers me when a girl goes out with someone WAY older than her, but in this case it's even worse because she's only 12 years old. She doesn't have a clue what she's doing at this point in her life, you ought to just let it go, stay friends if you want, but don't "wait" for her. If something's gonna happen let it happen much later.
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    I can totally identify with you Wilhelm. I'm exactly the same way. I'll completely ignore someone I find attractive... no eye contact, no talking, often I will even try not to look in her general direction. Same thing as you, I don't want to deal with wondering if I'll be accepted if I approached her. I'm horrible at reading women.
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    None/never is apparently 'enough' for me.
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    I'm getting very near the point where I just let everything go and become some sort of hobo. I don't see any point of working just for the sake of keeping myself alive.
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    Not enough information to go off of in my opinion. I'm not too sure from what you've said. Maybe you should invite him and a few other people from work out sometime and get to know him a little bit better, then you'll have a better idea.
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    I'm exactly the same way. If I'm about to clean up my room and my mom tells me to do it I won't do it for a couple of days. I just can't help it.
  9. tmp0620
    If she doesn't like you the way you like her then what can you do? Move on. Believe me I've been in the same position you're in and you just need to accept reality.
  10. tmp0620
    How does he know you keep your eyes open when you're kissing him?
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    That's really tough man. I can see how it would be hard to be working so much while also going to school. Do you really need to do both? Can you not ease up on the work somehow? You're putting yourself under a lot of pressure. You need some time for yourself. There's no reason for you to be hating yourself.
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    Well if she came up with an excuse and didn't give you some other time that would be better for her than I say don't initiate conversation with her for a little while. That's a guage, at least as to whether she wants to talk to you or not. Maybe ask her in the next few days to give you a call when she has time to hangout and then leave her alone for a while.
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    You need to hang out with her in person if you want the relationship back. Talking with her on MSN isn't going to do much of anything for you, I know this from experience. You used to hang out with her right? Ask her to go out and do something with you again, and try to keep hanging out with her, you'll know where you stand with her then.
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    My friend, at 5'8" 135 lbs, you might consider putting on a few lbs. I'm 5'9" 1/2 and I weigh 175lbs. I don't look fat or anything either. Don't worry so much about your physique.
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    Yeah, you guys are right I should probably just ask her. The hardest part is just not having a clue what's going on. I've always kept myself out of this game. Do friends share a bed? I don't even know her that well. It would almost be easier to just assume it was nothing. I work with her. I'm not too sure how serious she and her boyfriend were. PS how ya been doyathink?
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    It's tough for me, cause I automatically get the feeling that she doesn't really have feelings for me. But then, there were plenty of other places in her house I could have slept besides with her in her bed, and before she broke up with her b/f she had jokingly (seemed like it was jokingly) said "maybe I should just breake up with my boyfriend and go out with you". It's a new experience for me and I just am having trouble dealing with it. I'm afraid of getting hurt so the first thing I assume is that there's nothing between us. I'm in a place though where being a rebound would be a compliment to me. I'm at the point where I have to stop myself from sending her some weird text message about how the cuddling is "driving me crazy".
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    On friday night I went out with a couple of friends from work. A waiter, and the weekend bartender (I'm the weekday bartender). We went and saw "Hannibal rising"- a horrible movie BTW. Anyway, we went out to a bar after the movie and all got pretty drunk, and ended up going back to the other bartender's house. The other guy ended up leaving, but I stuck around for a lil, until she got ready for bed. I was gonna leave, but she told me to stay and told me to get in bed with her. We didn't do anything but cuddle, but that's (sadly) more than I've ever done with a girl. I liked it. A lot. Anyway, ever since then I've been going crazy about it. While I was trying to go to sleep last night I missed that contact a lot. I don't know what to think. She had just broken up with her boyfriend before Valentine's Day and asked me a few times to be her valentine, but I never really gave her an answer -cause I wouldn't really know what to do... I dunno I'm used to disappointment, I'm not sure what I'm even asking here.
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    That would be hilarious.
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    There's a good chance
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    I was joking. I say that in my head everytime though, cause 99% of the time I've got the right idea.
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    Believe it or not it's much kinder to be mean than it is to be nice. I've learned this the hard way. To be blunt is to be kind.
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    For lots of girls it seems like confidence alone is enough to be attracted to a guy. Or perhaps it's willingness to give them any type of attention.
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    What was the outcome? Some funny looks? Did you expect a bunch of girls to ask you out that day? Yes I meant intimidating in a positive way (sorta positive accept that they might be afraid to approach you because they think you're better than them or something). Try being lazy with your style every once in a while. That's not to say you should be dirty... It just might show the people that you are around everyday that you aren't so different from everyone else. Know what I mean? And relax
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    Couldn't agree with you more. It's frustrating. The other problem is that a guy can BE a weasel, but if he is confident enough... whereas the quiet good-hearted type sit in the corner rolling their eyes.
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    Firstly there are some pretty classy trenchcoats out there. You don't necessarily have to look gothic or like a nazi if you want to wear a trenchcoat. What I meant with my previous post was that you might be intimidating girls if you are real well-dressed, well-groomed and decent looking. You should try surprising people in ur classes by coming to school for a day unshaven with crazy hair and trashy clothes.
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